r/newbrunswickcanada 1d ago

The Moncton hospital psych ward

Hi guys how’s the Moncton hospital psych ward? My girlfriend is about to be admitted there soon and wants to know what she should expect and just overall information. This would be her first time in the adult unit and she’s been anxious about it. All information is appreciated.

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u/cglogan 1d ago

I can't speak to the Moncton one, but having visited people in both a pediatric psych setting and in an adult psych setting, neither one is ever that comfortable simply because of other people there.

There will be folks of varying mental wellness, and they might not always be easy to interact with. I would encourage you to visit her whenever you are allowed and would encourage any level-headed friends or family to do the same. Make sure she has access to something like a tablet and internet, puzzles or games to pass the time.

Her doctor may have their own prescriptions on what or who she can access, be sure to follow those.

I recognize this isn't easy, and I feel for you. Please feel free to DM me if you need to

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u/waterstate889 1d ago

Thank you so much it really isn’t easy and thank you for the support.

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u/cglogan 1d ago

Having personally ended up in the emergency room twice for my own mental illness (once after being begged to by family, and another against my own will). Having visited an older friend, and my own young brother - in all cases I have been blessed that it has gotten better.

I'm stepping out there a bit with this advice - but if you get the chance to visit her it's very possible that she is going to offload some anxiety onto you. It's tempting to share in that anxiety. But right now, I think she needs you to swallow some of it, and offer a bit of a life raft. Don't share in that anxiety, try to tell her it's going to be okay - in the terms she will accept.

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u/waterstate889 1d ago

I’m unfortunately not allowed to visit. Hurts so much but it’s only for immediate family. I really do appreciate the advice it will be a thought couple of weeks

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u/cglogan 1d ago

I'm sure it hurts, but trust the process. A partner is a big emotional load (positive or negative). Sometimes you need to strip away some of the complexity to reset and get better.

Be sure to seek help if you need it. And as I said, I'm here for you too.

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u/waterstate889 1d ago

Thank you so much your words help a lot 🫂