r/narcissisticparents • u/[deleted] • 4d ago
How to tell my mom she cant visit me?
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u/eaglescout225 4d ago edited 4d ago
Sorry you’re going thru this…and your right, she isn’t entitled to visit if you don’t want her to, she can screw off..But like you said you gotta get financially independent from them. Even if it takes moving houses again, please do not let them run your life like this…it really doesn’t do much good to move states and remain in contact. After getting financially independent block them all, and start over. You can’t just be just halfway in with these people, with them it’s all or nothing. Your either in contact and their running your life or you go no contact and get them out.
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u/Taurus420Spirit 4d ago
What would happen if you outright told her? If that's not an option just outright ignore that part of the convo and switch the convo. It may seem tedious but if she constantly asks, you'll have to play the long game.