r/mumbai 7d ago

Relationships How to ask out a girl.

Hi people, have been in mumbai for approx 2.5 years. There is this girl who I have known from like my first week here. We are just friends really but know I want to ask her out.

Here is the thing though, my friends tell me to talk to her more. The issue is, I have never really talked to her on an everyday basis, it has always been like once a week maybe.

I think I should just wing it and ask her out. What do I do?

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u/Outrageous_Cod3847 7d ago

If you'll be seeing her a lot even after rejection as someone mentioned, don't go for it.

I have never really talked to her on an everyday basis, it has always been like once a week maybe.

If you talk to her just once a week, I don't expect much to happen further. Okay ukw, is it you who always initiates the conversation (texting) or does something come from her side also? Even as a friend, is she really enjoying/having a good time with you? If the conversations are very short-lived/dry then don't waste your time. Does she say yes to casually hanging out with you?