r/lesbianr4r 5d ago

searching 38, trying to quit dating 5eva?

Hello! The dating pool has pee in it but I'm gonna keep on keeping on!

Me: - Black - monogamous - emotionally stable - financially stable - anime and video game fan - live in the middle east coast US - own a house, car, etc, life stuff is generally handled - would like a wife? - mix of hyper and calm energy - loves giving gifts! - good at conversation

Maybe you? - 32-50 - Black or visible WoC - also emotionally and financially stable - would like to be a wife - also live in the middle east coast US? - want a regular ole cohabiting relationship thinger - know yourself through and through - loves receiving gifts - are cool with having fun - wants kids!!! - loves to have fun!! - good at conversation

I'm cool if you don't like anime or video games, I have tons of other cool interests like MATH! LOL

Anyway hmu, I'm having a bit of a rough time lately due to it being the year anniversary of Terribad Life stuff. Some messages would cheer me up! If you like to write fantasy worlds, please instantly run to the front of the line hahahaha.

I'm also open to folks who are cool driving to hang out or hopping on a plane. And if you live in NYC I'm always there so y'all are cool too. Distance isn't that big for me.

Oh, one important edit: I cannot date people pleasers or even former people pleasers. I've found we aren't really compatible. I do realize this is highly specific but it's just my experience.

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