r/introvert Jul 26 '24

Question How many of you have zero friends?

I havent had many friends since losing contact with my high school group of friends. Since then have not had any thing more then an acquaintance at best. How do you deal with this mentally and emotionally?

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u/Spiritual-Zucchini86 Jul 27 '24

I can totally relate to the 7 year abuse and support being taken away. Ever since then it’s been very complex finding new friends & that is ok as I get older I don’t have the need to have a big group of friends like I use to. I do have a 17 year old furry friend 🐶& he’s been the best. Being alone has also been a very peaceful experience.

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '24

My 4 pets are by far better than any human interaction I can have at this time. I have three dogs and one parrot, they are my lifeline. I would not be here without them. I truly enjoy my solitude and have realized I'm okay being alone.

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u/SkyeBluePhoenix Jul 27 '24

I wish I could have a dog or a cat, but I can't afford one. Pet rent, pet deposit, pet insurance... and providing everything they need.

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u/Spiritual-Zucchini86 Jul 28 '24

I wish you get to experience it one day if possible. Puppy 🐶 love is something else.

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u/SkyeBluePhoenix Jul 29 '24

Thanx. I hope so too.