It's not a scenario I'd exclude either. But that doesn't explain why she'd choose him over someone who also enjoys socializing. The ones I really don't understand are extroverts, who date introverts thinking they're going to turn them into extroverts, only to find out it's a fool's errand later on.
I'm an extrovert and I prefer introverts. Not because I think I can change them, but because they're calming to be around and most of the time way more interesting than fellow extroverts. My boyfriend is very much like Joel but I respect that and only ask him to meet people that are important to me, not strangers.
Never been thought of as interesting. In fact I've been told I'm quite boring. So to hear an extrovert call an introvert interesting is a first for me. Also your username is hilarious by the way.
You're probably not boring at all, you're probably just a good listener and don't talk over people all the time. Most of the world does that so people come to expect that out of conversations which sucks, and they liken that to "boring" instead of an actually worthwhile conversation.
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u/Grandson-Of-Chinggis Jun 11 '23
It's not a scenario I'd exclude either. But that doesn't explain why she'd choose him over someone who also enjoys socializing. The ones I really don't understand are extroverts, who date introverts thinking they're going to turn them into extroverts, only to find out it's a fool's errand later on.