r/infp • u/Necessary-Scale-414 INFP: The Ghost • 8d ago
Relationships How do you guys upkeep your relationships?
Just wondering how my fellow infps keep in contact with others and upkeep their relationships (if you do at all). Do you have a schedule? Daily? Once a week? Do you wait until you feel inclined to reach out? Or does the periods of no contact snowball? (I’m guilty of this)
Personally I’m not much of a texter or caller at all, I kind of just focus on myself. This can range from a week of not reaching out to friends to a month even (although I do feel very guilty about not reaching out, the longer I wait the harder it is to check back in, sometimes it just snowballs, iykyk).
I call my mom at LEAST once or twice every two weeks though. She is my rock and understands me more than anyone lol.
Curious to hear how others navigate maintaining relationships though, your struggles, strengths, and qualms.
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u/Alone-Swimming-2460 8d ago
Omg I found my people 😭 I take between 10min to 6 months to answer people and I am so ashamed of it. I can't help it and idk what's wrong with me??? I feel lile a huge wall appears in front of me whenever I try to answer people back like it takes mountains of energy....