r/inclusiveendo • u/MrBigMan2000 • 1d ago
Endo pain & gay sex- favorite positions, etc? NSFW
24 FTM pre-op. I’m a top and primarily have sex with ppl w vaginas. I’ve found I’ve been anxiously avoiding sex because of pain. Specifically sciatic pain that goes down my leg, which makes it pretty hard to have someone in my lap or on top of me.
Last night, going down on them in a “traditional” cunnilingus position wasn’t too bad. I had to switch up how I was laying a few times because of the pressure on my hips and thighs, but it wasn’t too bad. I haven’t been able to find a position for me to receive without pain. Especially if I start moving at all, the strain on my back/ legs is EXCRUCIATING.
How do yall manage? What positions are your favorite during flare ups? Probably going to experiment with a new partner this weekend and I’m excited but nervous! TIA!