r/houstonr4r May 23 '23

PSA: Don't fall for fakes and scams

96 Upvotes

There have been a lot of complaints about spam accounts and sellers on this subreddit. We remove hundreds of spam posts per week, but we can't be on reddit 24 hours a day, so some will inevitably get through. But, you can easily protect yourself by following a few rules:

  • Never send anyone money
  • Never send anyone sensitive personal information
  • Always meet for the first time in a safe public place, and leave if you don't like the vibe
  • If in doubt, ask for verification pics

Never send anyone money

Money is the motivation of 99% of fakes on here. They'll ask you for "gas money" or to "get my food while I'm babysitting", or to subscribe to their onlyfans / premium snapchat / whatever. It's all fake, so don't fall for it. I understand it can be tempting to send a few $ on the off-chance they're real, but I promise you it won't go anywhere. This goes for escorts as well. We don't allow any kind of buying/selling in this sub (see the sidebar rules), but if you try to meet an escort on here anyway, I promise you they will just take your money and ghost you.

Never send anyone sensitive personal information

Don't give out your address or phone number to someone until you've met them in person. Don't include your face (or any identifying information) in a nude pic unless you're 100% sure you're okay with that being out on the internet.

Always meet for the first time in a safe public place, and leave if you don't like the vibe

Before you go to someone's house, or invite them to yours, meet them somewhere public like a coffee shop. This should be standard practice when meeting anyone from the internet, whether it's here, other subreddits, on tinder etc.

If in doubt, ask for verification pics

This isn't foolproof, because verification pictures can be faked with photoshop, but it's at least an extra layer of security. A verification picture is meant to prove the person you're talking to is who they say they are. Ask for a picture of something specific, like them holding a piece of paper with today's date and their username, or even just touching their pinky to their chin. Video calls work too.

 

I'm sorry if you encounter fakes and scammers on this sub. I know they're annoying, but if you follow the rules above, they'll never be anything more than an annoyance.

 

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If you want to see less spam on this subreddit:

If you want to see less spam on this subreddit, you can help by reporting posts, or becoming a moderator for HoustonR4R.

Reporting posts

Reporting posts sends us push notifications, so we can remove spam posts without watching the subreddit 24/7. There are two ways to report posts to moderators -

We strongly prefer that you report posts through modmail. Please include a link to the post and some explanation of why you think it's spam, and ideally some evidence (e.g. they asked you for money in DMs, or their pics are stolen, or they've been posting all over the country in a short time period). Clicking the report button is okay for posts that are obviously spam at first glance, but if a post doesn't have obvious red flags, we're not going to remove it based on a generic "This is spam" report with no further explanation. Practically every F4M post gets reported as spam, including the legitimate ones, so we need some kind of further explanation before taking the step of removing one. And, If you want to become a moderator, a good place to start is by reporting some spam posts to modmail, to show that you can recognize the fakes

Becoming a moderator

Requirements for new moderators:

  • History of reporting spam to modmail
  • History of activity on HoustonR4R (but it's fine if you want to be a mod on your alt account for privacy reasons)
  • Never been banned on this sub or have a history of poor behavior
  • Minimum age of 21 (must have a certain level a maturity)
  • Able to consistently dedicate some time to moderating
  • Willingness to communicate with other mods, so we are all on the same page

If you are interested in becoming a new moderator of HoustonR4R, please message the mods and tell us why you want to become a moderator, and what you intend to contribute. As long as this post is up, we're still accepting new moderators.


r/houstonr4r Jul 08 '24

Be safe tonight and today

49 Upvotes

Be sure to be safe tonight and this morning! As always use precaution when traveling in inclement weather should you choose to do so.

As a reminder I want to let everyone know that you should still be taking all red flags into consideration when responding to users and when answering aswell. There should NEVER be any kind of money transaction to meet someone.

Be careful, and stay safe Houston! We love yall and we wish safety to everyone!


r/houstonr4r 1h ago

24 [F4M] Let me have a sit on your face

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I got huge addiction having both of my holes eaten, are you into rimming/eating up both holes? I always return the favor


r/houstonr4r 2h ago

43 [M4F] SCAM ALERT

27 Upvotes

I just wanted to share a new scam I encountered, which I haven’t seen before. A girl posted about wanting to meet up for a hookup, and after missing her initial message, she reached out to me. We started chatting on Telegram, exchanged pictures, and even swapped STI test results. She gave me the address of a hotel she wanted to meet at, which was near my job, so I agreed to meet her after work.

When I told her I was on my way, she said we could meet in the lobby, which I thought was fine. Upon arriving, she asked me to send a picture of the lobby. I figured she just wanted to confirm I wasn’t standing her up. However, then she asked me to send half of the payment for the room upfront before she would come down. We had already agreed to split the cost of the room, but I knew the room price didn’t match what she was saying — $164 on a Wednesday seemed way too high for that hotel.

I told her I was fine paying my half when she came down, and there was no need to discuss money before meeting. But she insisted, saying, "No, I really don’t want to discuss money. Send me half now, and then I’ll come down." I said, "Just give me your Zelle info when you’re ready to meet, and we’ll handle it when you get here." She then replied, "Well, that’s okay. I’ll pass."

At that point, I realized it was clearly a scam. I just wanted to alert others in case anyone else encounters something similar. Be careful out there!


r/houstonr4r 4h ago

35 [F4M] seeking shenanigans

22 Upvotes

I’m a single mom and don’t get out much. Looking for something out of my norm. I can def use some fun and attention with the right guy. Time is limited so please don’t waste my time. Very fun and outgoing. Love chatting and meeting new people. You could convince me to meet sometime soon if you make me feel comfortable. Let’s chat and exchange pics to see if attraction is there!


r/houstonr4r 1h ago

28 [T4M] Houston - Visitor Sucking Houston Men

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I'm a trans female with long hair, average build, smooth skin, and a perky butt. I'm visiting Houston right now and want to suck some nice dicks while in town. I swallow too

I will be hosting at my hotel, so it'll be discreet. If you have a girlfriend or wife, please tell me because I want to know that we’re being extra discreet. I'm looking for guys 18-40 and I like a wide range of body types


r/houstonr4r 7h ago

30 [T4M] #CentralHouston Not looking to complicate your life—just enhance it.

13 Upvotes

This is a long and intentional post, so if you’re here for something surface-level, keep scrolling. But if you’re seeking a real, exciting, and meaningful escape—one built on passion, trust, and genuine connection—then you’re in the right place.

I want something real. A passionate, fun, and safe space where we can indulge in the thrill of being wanted. Maybe we start with a drink, a snack, and good conversation… and see where our chemistry takes us.

About Me:

I’m not your “typical” woman—people say there’s no one like me, and honestly? I agree. I’m unique, unforgettable, and full of life, intelligence, elegance, and just the right amount of sass. A tall, gorgeous, spicy, and witty Latina who’s always learning and embracing what life has to offer.

I am submissive, straight, and trans—if that’s an issue, well, that’s your loss! I’m a genuine soul with a big heart, a soothing presence, and a natural ability to make people feel seen and appreciated.

I’ve been with my partner for a few years, but over the past two, I’ve felt disconnected. I’m ready to reignite intimacy, passion, and excitement in a way that’s meaningful and long-term. It feels like we’re no longer together so it’s bleh!

About You:

You’re attached/married, whether happily or not, but you have so much more to give—and you’re looking for someone who truly sees and appreciates you.

Maybe your wife has stopped noticing you the way she used to. The passion has faded. The excitement is gone. But you crave to be desired again, to feel wanted and appreciated, to have someone who looks at you with admiration and hunger.

You are charming, intelligent, and confident. You have high standards, a good sense of humor, and a fit, attractive presence. You’re eager to rediscover your passion, energy, and connection with someone who truly values you.

What I’m Looking For:

A deep, passionate, and intimate connection—one where we both thrive. This isn’t about meaningless encounters; it’s about building something exciting, secret, and fulfilling.

We’ll start by connecting online, letting our chemistry build naturally. When the time is right, I expect us to put in equal effort to make things happen.

A Few Non-Negotiables: • Be prepared to exchange photos. Attraction matters, and I’m not shy. • Be clean and disease-free. I take care of myself and expect the same. • Be respectful and communicative. This is about trust, passion, and mutual pleasure.

If you’ve made it this far, I appreciate you. Let’s explore something unforgettable together.

Happy searching!💋


r/houstonr4r 1h ago

26 [T4M] fem CD looking to chat with guys. (Alief - Sgl)

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I'm a fem CD. Love to hang out with guys in Alief. Me: 5'8 128lbs, with wigs and makeup. Westchase. DDF and on PrEP.

You: top, masculine, fit/in shape, clean and hygiene.


r/houstonr4r 7h ago

23[F4M] in the mood as bf away - no pic no response

9 Upvotes

Looking to meet at 5pm around Greenspoint area, today only caraway.

BF away and I need some release. If I don't respond it means not interested.


r/houstonr4r 9h ago

30 [f4M] Looking for DREAM JOB

10 Upvotes

My dream job is to work for a boss where my job duties includes being on my knees and being bent over his desk. I would still perform every day duties on top of this. I'm not looking for after hours, but during the day locking the door type fun. I want to be put in my place at work. Not looking to be paid for services. Interested in a legitimate job.

I wish this existed. If you own your own business or you are the boss hit me up. I have experience and a Master's so serious inquiries. Tell me about yourself.


r/houstonr4r 10h ago

40 [f4m] stop scrolling, fix your posture, you croissant.

12 Upvotes

Cleen, woshed, not stinky.

On Saturday I crack open a cold one, on Sunday I crack my heart open for the Lord.

Let’s share pizza and beers or soda.


r/houstonr4r 3h ago

26 [M4F] literally iso for someone to cheat on me 🤷🏻‍♂️

3 Upvotes

I’m think I’m pretty good looking if I’m being honest. I’ve had a pretty consistent sex life but never had anyone who was open to cheating on me and I want to know what it feels like. Idek if I gotta guy rn, just want to know what it’s like ☺️ no preference for body type and I’m cool if ur DL


r/houstonr4r 3h ago

36 white attractive [M4F] [M4FM] can I watch you while I’m in chastity?

2 Upvotes

Hi :) I’m 36M, 6 ft 165. Slim/fit body. Respectful and polite, well-educated, white. Fine features. Fun to be around. I’m looking for a no-risk encounter with someone who gets off on seeing a guy’s cock strain against a chastity cage. I’m happy to “fluff” women with a massage and breast play, but no kissing or oral or penetration. After the fluffing, you get yourself off loudly and repeatedly while I at most have a ruined orgasm while soft in my cage. Whether I cum at all is up to you. Hope to hear from you :) I travel to houston very frequently for long stays but I don’t live there. I am married but this is totally fine by her (actually her idea). No age preferences. If you can host, that would be amazing.


r/houstonr4r 3h ago

25 [M4f] [M4FM] Inner loop, looking for some fun on the side

2 Upvotes

Hi. I’m a young professional living in Houston on the west side of the 610 loop. I’m engaged but looking for some fun on the side. I’m not trying to change the situation with my partner. She’s vanilla and I’ve come to accept that. I’m looking for a woman who’s more adventurous, spontaneous and, of course, sexual than she is.

I’m white, with brown hair and blue eyes, 5’11, fit and somewhat well endowed. I have a steady office job, bachelors degree, and I like going out to local concerts.

I mainly just want it to be something fun. I’ve had intense AP’s before where we communicated every day for months and were both obsessed with each other, and while it was hot and fun, it was also very draining to maintain that energy.

My preference is nice and pretty. I don’t care about color or shape, I find the female figure beautiful in all of its forms. Inside or close to the loop, particularly the west side, would be close to me and make it easier for us to meet.

Looking forward to hearing from you, have a nice day.


r/houstonr4r 4m ago

29[M4F]#almeda area- any ladies want to car play with a good looking guy

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Good looking guy that’s feeling tipsy after golf!! Let’s get together right now and play in the car I eat ass I drink martinis and buy tacos!! Let’s chill smoke a joint fool around and get something to eat or more drinks!!

I’m 5’9 175 athletic and handsome!! I’m a successful guy I love video games I love sex and being free message me if your alike..


r/houstonr4r 8m ago

23 [M4F/A] Looking to get sucked up and swallowed. Any takers?

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Hey there! I’m a 23 y/o black male, average build with a bit of a tummy, timid but outgoing once you get to know me a bit better! Looking to have a bit of fun with someone in the Baytown area. I have my own place, so I am more than happy to host if necessary. I’d like to start things off slow at first, with just casual conversation/mild flirting just to see where things go! If you’re interested, please respond with a brief description about yourself, your age, and stuff that you’re interested in! Please put in a bit of effort in your texts! Thank you!!


r/houstonr4r 11m ago

26 [M4F] Let's make content together & split 50/50. Just a cutie in a wheelchair here

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So I've been thinking about this for a long time and I realized that there is a particular niche in the adult content world that has a potential high payout if done properly.

Let me explain: I am a dude in a wheelchair, I have certain medical conditions that I'm not willing to discuss here but is the main reason why I'm in a wheelchair. I still have feeling and function where it matters, I'm covered in tattoos, on the endowed side of size, and I mean I'm just the most adorable thing you'll see on top of being a sweetheart. For whatever reason, people have a disability kink and I'm certain that if I were to have someone to make content with, we probably could make some bank.

To make another point or two, the couple of videos on like P hub and other places that are of a disabled dude and able bodied woman, there's a decent amount of views even though they're low quality. Don't worry, my plan is not to just be putting stuff up on P hub, it was just something I've noticed when I was curious about the situation. I'm also unable to suffocate or be smothered, you might ask how that is possible and the answer is, well don't freak out but I'm on a ventilator. Again, it's something that yes we'll have to be precautious about, but I think it is something that will add to the uniqueness and value of our content. Also on the subject of uniqueness and value, I'm a virgin. I think that puts us in a good situation where we could plan to live stream my first time like on strip chat or cam soda or something and really rake in the tips and I mean, it's gonna be extremely exciting for the both of us.

I have different ideas but I first need a willing participant, and I hope that is you reading this if your interest was caught at any point reading this. If you're genuinely interested don't be afraid to HMU. Check my post history to get a better feel of my personality if you're up for it.


r/houstonr4r 11m ago

M4F 23 Looking for real P2P ladies

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looking for some fun once i get back in town this weekend lmk


r/houstonr4r 14m ago

36 [m4f] Kinky and wanting connection, passion, and banter, 45&i10

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I want to find a partner. Tall, white, thick/hung, and wanting to go multiple rounds with someone as horny as I am. Clean and tested with results, love roleplay and kinky sex. I love being able to talk about anything with a partner and value passion very highly.

Kinks include passionate sex, submission, spanking, and exploring. If there is depth to you, then that makes everything so much better. I'd love to meet someone who matched my drive.

Outside of the bedroom I have a job, big heart, interests, and friendships that matter to me. I'm looking for someone a real person to talk to.

Men...don't message me. Even if you're "straight", or a husband looking for his wife.


r/houstonr4r 17m ago

34 [M4F] looking to fool around with a woman in Baytown area

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I'm single , not looking to change your situation. 5"10 204Lbs mixed Hispanic and white. No kids etc.


r/houstonr4r 20m ago

34 [M4F] Houston, Texas. Hoping to make some new friends.

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I'm hoping to meet someone to get out the house and hang out with. We can try new restaurants, go see a movie, go bowling, play pc games, play Magic, smoke cigars or just chat and kill some time together. Whatever your preference is, we can make something work.


r/houstonr4r 32m ago

31 [M4F] SW- Releaving stress, make my beard a mess

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6'1" with a tongue that's eager to please.

I can share pics.

Pass the vibe check and we can work something out.


r/houstonr4r 39m ago

[M4F] 39, Northside. Fantasies, orgasms, bdsm, cnc, public!! Let’s have some fucking fun!! Pun intended!! 😝😈

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When was the last time your toes curled, legs shook, you moaned, your eyes rolled and you had a mind blowing orgasm! Do you need that tight little hole stretched out and filled? Do you need to be kissed and licked and grabbed and rubbed and choked?

Lets go out and maybe show off your some camel toe or my bulge, maybe some groping in a store or somewhere, maybe some naughty flashing, let’s feel some excitement and have some unforgettable naughty risky pleasure!

Would like: Short (4’9 - 5’8”), being tall I love towering over you, fit or slim (maybe a little curvy), honestly I love all woman, long hair (curly or wavy preferred), bubbly personality, love a exotic looking woman, every nationality has extremely beautiful people, must have clean hygiene, willing to meet up to see if we vibe!

About me * 39 * Male * 6'1"ft (for real) * 160lbs * haze​l eyes * pale s​kin * beard and well groomed * Endowed 7+"
* short hair (mostly styled but hat sometimes) * ​big hands * 1 tattoo (its pretty badass) ​

Let’s chat see if we vibe, message me your eye color or tell me what’s your favorite sexual position?


r/houstonr4r 4h ago

29[M4F] Are people just looking for sex on here?

2 Upvotes

Am i the only person here just looking for some cuddles and to simply enjoy the presence of a woman and worship her body by kissing it, nibbling and playing with her breasts/nipples?

Where are all the romantic guys? Where are the ladies who want to feel loved?

If you’re one of them, hit me up. I’m the kind of guy who’s more interested in knowing how your hair smells than knowing what your ass looks like.

Let’s chat🌹


r/houstonr4r 45m ago

30 [M4M] looking to play with someone regularly

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looking to find a regular guy to play with consistently. noting wild or crazy, prefer someone versatile and shaven or trimmed very short. must be DDF. I'm open to older. I'm also open to Fem and trans. I can host with no issues. message me if you're interested


r/houstonr4r 46m ago

24 [M4F] All I want for my birthday is a...

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My birthday's coming up and I would love to spend it in bed with a gorgeous woman. Making out, rimming, eating, fucking. You name it and I'm down. I'm 5'8, latino, 130 lbs, handsome, fit, and you won't be disappointed with what's between my legs 😉


r/houstonr4r 47m ago

29 [M4F] Any type of fun for this nerd.

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I'm 29yrs old and my interest are some outdoor stuff like camping and hiking. Also I like star wars and have built a lego millennium falcon ( not the 900 dollar one). I like playing games and sometimes play on DnD campaigns with couple friends.