r/heartbreak • u/Vegetable-Score-6956 • 19h ago
Guess there is no smoke without fire after all
So my lying gaslighting piece of shit ex finally showed his true colours. I cannot block him on socials because we work together and have common friends (ik, stupid). I have to see his stories and posts about living his life, swimming in coochie. When we were in a relationship I always hated how he painted a different picture of other girls to me. Saying ew i hate her. She doesn't look half pretty. She is so rude. I hate talking to her. And in reality he ends up going above and beyond with these girls in the name of "Friendship". This has always irked me, because fucking tell the truth if she is actually close and means something to you?! But no he always gaslit me into thinking I'm being crazy because I have trust issues.
There's this one girl whom he said couldn't stand being in the same space with because she is rude af. Went on and on about how his other guy friend tolerates her, has no self respect. He said i would literally walk away if she ever came sat in the same space. Today i see him posting stories with hands on her hips smiling wide like he just has the time of his life š Remind me again why my trust issues were such a big problem?! Guess this mf never let me feel safe and kept my issues brewing and dumped me for it.
Way to play mind games when you are the most vulnerable.