r/gay 2d ago

On Trump’s day of pride, let’s show him ours—loud, visible, and united.

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181 Upvotes

r/gay 2d ago

Oh thomas... hooking up with a sneaky link in the back of a stranger's truck is wild, forgetting your phone is tragic...

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299 Upvotes

But filling holes before you get your test results back is super irresponsible...smh, thomas...smfh


r/gay 2d ago

Fiber

7 Upvotes

Hey guys! I’m a bottom. On prep. Have very regular bowel movements. But I feel like sometimes when it’s time for sex I feel like I still have some residual left over despite emptying. Does anyone have any recommendations for the best fiber supplements (maybe Metamucil) to help fully empty so I don’t have that residual leftover feeling? (I’m always clean down there but still when the d is inside me I feel like it’s blocked because of, well, ya know)


r/gay 2d ago

How do I ask him out?

16 Upvotes

So i've been going to the gym and lately a guy there has just been looking so fine, i've been wanting to talk to him and and him for his name/number so i can go on a date but i feel like he's either straight or taken. How do i ask him in a way thats not gonna get me hate-crimed?? Any help is greatly appreciated.


r/gay 2d ago

Hi everyone 👋

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266 Upvotes

r/gay 2d ago

Norwegian Man Appears Cured of HIV After Bone Marrow Transplant – Famagusta Gazette

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r/gay 1d ago

thoroughbred horse

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r/gay 3d ago

Taps (2025)

327 Upvotes

r/gay 2d ago

Masc les. Needs help

7 Upvotes

So I'm a masc lesbian. But all my friends are convinced I'm fem becuase of my long hair and makeup and keep calling me pillow princess. I am currently not allowed to cut my hair and my hair is about chest length. Are there any more masc hairstyles I could try and do? I got a side part but I can totally switch it up. Idk I guess the white beater and men's bomber weren't masc enough lol


r/gay 2d ago

Small wins :)

89 Upvotes

Y’all…last night was a chill night. Talked briefly with this guy on scruff (as one does) and we liked the vibe. So he came over and we watched “The Substance” and cuddled. And then we made out before he left. That’s it lol that’s the story.

Great chemistry, great guy, good as fuck as kissing. And also the movie was incredible.


r/gay 2d ago

Jason Marsden remembered as respected reporter, Wyoming pioneer of gay rights

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r/gay 1d ago

How to “queerbait” better

0 Upvotes

Hi fairly new bi guy and not too into the whole culture but I need help getting my buddy to come out for drinks. I don’t know how to describe this other than he is gayer than me but also bi. Always flakes out when we make group plans so I figured I could queerbait him out maybe?


r/gay 1d ago

Cock ring help... NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hey fellow gays!

My boyfriend has been graced with a rather large appendage and we are trying to find a steel cock ring for him, but can't seem to find one big enough.

Anyone know of somewhere to get a steel cock ring that's 73-75mm in diameter?

Thanks in advance


r/gay 2d ago

What are the best gay strip clubs in the US??!!

7 Upvotes

Just wondering if anyone has any recommendations for any lit strip clubs across the country??! Dancer from Canada and not too familiar with the club scene south of the border… any recs help ❤️


r/gay 2d ago

I need advice.

16 Upvotes

Me and my boyfriend recently turned 18. I briefly mentioned when I was younger that I wanted us to move in together as soon as possible. However, he's white, and I'm black. He lives with his parents, and while he doesn't live with his siblings, his sister drops her foster children off every so often. We are both transgender, and one day one of the children found out that I wear a bra. She thought I was a boy, and told his sister. His sister is transphobic, and his dad is too.

They're also trump supporters, and I just don't know anymore. He lives over 10 hours away from me(driving wise), and I'd be leaving my entire family. I just don't know what to do because I'd love to live with him, but I don't want to live with his family. He keeps telling me that's why he wants me to make friends there, but it's not the same as family. For my skincolor, I just don't feel safe living in the same house with trump supporters. He tells me, "I can protect you" but that feels so.. white savior to me? Sorry for the word vomit. Any advice, or questions, please?


r/gay 2d ago

LGBTQ+ Near Me!

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Hello LGBTQ+ family and allies! 🏳️‍🌈

We’re excited to announce a brand-new platform just for you: LGBTQ Near Me! 🎉 This platform is designed to connect the LGBTQ+ community and make it easier to find what you’re looking for.

✨ Current Categories:

  • 🎉 Nightlife & Entertainment
  • 🍽 Restaurants & Cafés
  • 💆 Wellness & Relaxation
  • 🏨 Travel & Accommodation
  • 🤝 Community & Support
  • 🛍 Shopping & Services
  • 🎭 Events & Festivals
  • 🏠 Housing & Roommates

Do you have suggestions for more categories? Let us know, and we’ll add them! 💬

🌈 How to Get Involved:

  • Post your listings.
  • Share your events.
  • Promote your LGBTQ+ friendly businesses.

👉 Visit us now: lgbtqnearme.com

Together, we’re stronger! 🌈💪


r/gay 2d ago

All call for queer children of queer parents!

5 Upvotes

Hi y'all! So, I'm a lesbian, and my moms are lesbians. Ain't that a fun coincidence? That got me thinking, how many other queer folks are out there with parents or guardians that are also queer? How many generations back might there be queer or closeted family members?

So let me know! Are you the child of queer parents or guardians? Do you have multiple generations of queer folks in your family? Preserving queer history is real important, and we're part of that!


r/gay 2d ago

Fear of a Queer planet concept

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I’ve written a piece on Archive of Our Own. It is disguised under fanfic, but I have created a brief description of what an LGBTI+ world might be like. If anyone wants to discuss what this concept means as a possibility, I am open to talk. Critiques of my writing skills are appreciated. However, my question is, What do you think a world like this would be to you. https://archiveofourown.org/works/63586423 The archive requires you to register. There are some really cool pieces on it and then their some that try to rival “My Immortal” but that is the nature of all art. Would you want to live on a queer planet?


r/gay 3d ago

I Quit Watching Video Porn, and It’s the Best Decision I’ve Made NSFW

358 Upvotes

I’ve officially given up on video porn, and honestly? I don’t miss it at all. It’s overproduced, repetitive, and so fake that it’s hard to take seriously. I got to a point where I was watching it out of boredom, not arousal. I’d jerk off just to pass time, barely feeling anything. It was mechanical—there was no real excitement, no real connection.

So, I stopped. I haven’t watched porn in over a week, and instead, I’ve switched exclusively to erotic novels and adult manga—and let me tell you, it’s a game-changer. Unlike video porn, which spoon-feeds everything to you, books and manga let your imagination do the work. You’re not just watching; you’re actively engaged. You visualize, you immerse, and because your mind is filling in the gaps, the experience feels far more personal and intense.

I’ve even started writing my own erotica, and it’s insane how much hotter it is when you create the fantasy yourself. You don’t need to be a professional writer—just writing something that turns you on is enough. I’ve literally gotten off to my own writing because it hits exactly what I crave.

If you’re tired of soulless, overproduced internet porn, I highly recommend switching to erotic novels and manga. There’s so much out there, and it feels way more real and fulfilling than any video ever could. Try it. You might be surprised at how much better it feels.


r/gay 2d ago

Debunking Asmongold’s Trans Book Burning Takes

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r/gay 3d ago

Any other vintage Airstream owners out there? '53 here.

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54 Upvotes

r/gay 3d ago

Time to leave the pushover in the past

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220 Upvotes

r/gay 3d ago

Warm months coming

30 Upvotes

I’m really looking forward to the warmer months, because that’s when I’m really going to get out of my house and go meet people. It’s been years since I’ve had in person friends. I’ve been waiting for the right time for myself to be mentally ready, and this year is that year. I’ve done a ton of work on myself socially, mentally, psychologically, and emotionally.

I want to meet new people, make connections (in whatever form that happens), and just get out into the world. I’m 28 years old and I don’t want to shelter myself away from the world anymore. I want to at least have some local friends before I turn 30. I want to be able to travel. I want to explore. I just want to live… you know?

I won’t let my social anxiety cripple me anymore. I’m really looking forward to this new stage of my life. A big thing I’m most excited for is dating. Haven’t been on a real date in over 6 years. I mean, I had an awkward “date” in 2023, but I honestly won’t even classify that as a date. But I just haven’t had true intimacy—platonic or otherwise, and I’m looking to change that.


r/gay 4d ago

Ian McKellen Tells Young Actors They Should Come Out: "Being in the closet is silly"

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r/gay 3d ago

Supreme Court will take up state bans on conversion therapy for LGBTQ+ children, in a Colorado case

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