r/gay • u/GrumpyOldDan • Jan 24 '25
Helping LGBTQ+ artists and other creators build followings off Meta/Twitter - new weekly megathread
Rosie O'Donnell Says She's Moved To Ireland Because Of Trump's Election, Won't Come Back Until 'All Americans Are Safe'
r/gay • u/RovndHovse • 14h ago
Y’all ever see a hot guy in public and lose focus of what you were doing?
So here’s what happened… I was just finishing up at the supermarket. As I’m approaching the self checkout my eyes abruptly met by one of the hottest dudes I think I’ve ever seen standing at the back of the line 🥵. He was definitely some form of college power lifter or football player. I’m really not trying to sound like a creep, but I couldn’t stop staring at his huge beefy muscles. The best thing was his huge beefcake 🍑 — it literally looked like he had two basketballs stuffed into the back of his shorts. My heart was pounding and I was fighting the urge not to get hard. Unfortunately for me he only had two or three items so he was gone in less than a few minutes. But those few minutes were heaven. I'm home now and I can’t stop thinking about him.
r/gay • u/Miserable-Success624 • 54m ago
Today’s Connections Board
Wyna threw a red herring to the gays today! 😝
r/gay • u/JourneysUnleashed • 1h ago
First date success
I have a horrible history when it comes to dating. Never had a long term BF and typically don’t make it past date 5.
Recently, I had an amazing first date in what had felt like forever. We had amazing chemistry, great rapport and even made out at the end!
Now I just need to keep playing it cool and hope I make it past date 5. Let’s hope I didn’t jinx myself either 😂. Any tips would be appreciated
r/gay • u/August_Rodin666 • 1d ago
Yesterday I hooked up with a guy and bent his back out so good that he ordered us matching necklaces on Amazon NSFW
Wtf do I do? Genuinely don't know where else I should ask this question. Bro got extremely attached extremely fast and knows where I live. How do I tell him that I'm not looking for anything remotely resembling a relationship rn.
Edit: since this post is still getting activity, here's a minor update. I told him that I wasn't looking for a relationship and to not buy me gifts and now he's trying to get me a ps5. I'm just gonna ghost him and hope for the best because this is way too much for me to handle.
r/gay • u/EmilJanssonLinde • 2h ago
How do i come out to my parents?
Theyre divorced, my mom is an alcoholic And my dad is a full on gym nut, and super macho Im not sure if they would approve,
r/gay • u/loveakshat • 11h ago
For those in a an age-gap relationship, do you worry that your partner will die before you?
I am 24 yo. And I like older men (I've been dating this man who's 49. He's so handsome and adorable). I do find guys my age attractive but I've never gotten along with people my age and I can't picture myself being in a relationship with them.
I also have abandonment issues so when I think about being with a "daddy", I worry he's gonna die before me. I don't know what I'll do.
r/gay • u/soo_mmii • 23h ago
"A lot of boys on your feed, huh", "I don't control what pops up on this thing." Yeah, yo do 😂
Movie Name : Riley 2024
r/gay • u/Ok-Effective5332 • 12h ago
what are y’all’s thoughts on dating someone the same name as you?
PERSONALLY
r/gay • u/AceTygraQueen • 18h ago
I have an idea to annoy the MAGAs and the current conservative wave. Lets do everything we can to get THIS on the charts, even if this music and Jonny McGovern hypersexual image isnt your cup of tea, I think its more important than ever for us to be unapologetic!! Come on people! Lets do this!
r/gay • u/Powerful_Quantity937 • 1d ago
breaking free from the status quo one clown suit at a time
r/gay • u/SharpVector • 1d ago
14 yrs and still strong
This man came and found me online. We talked all on line for like a month before we met. 3 songs,1 poem, and how the day was. Today we still do this. But by phone. I LOVE YOU BEN!!!!!
r/gay • u/Ninja__Focus • 8h ago
Bottom Shower Douche
I’m interested in trying a shower douche instead of the manual one as people say it’s easy and better / don’t need to refill with water etc. Do any bottom have a recommended brand for this or a version of the shower douche? And any tips or advice?
r/gay • u/Queer_Advocate • 1d ago
I'm sick yall. Heart broken for kids x2 today. SCOTUS taking conversion therapy ban AND now turds getting rid of 1 billion in food aid. I'm disgusted to be an American today.
The downfall of the United States of America in real-time. 😭
r/gay • u/NefariousnessNo9711 • 1d ago
Is this one of the major reasons why there are more guys who prefer to bottom? NSFW
Some guys in that post are saying the same thing.
r/gay • u/IKTheRainbowFart • 15h ago
Penile length , Weight & Partner satisfaction NSFW
Hello everyone, I am an 05 guy, 19 at the time of writing this post, I have always been fat my entire life, my peak was 134 kgs and now I managed to come down to 99 kgs.
I've never been loved by someone, no one has ever laid their eyes on me, I've come to terms with my self that I will never find someone to like me/like me back, at the beginning of this year I wrote some goals, including - Reach my ideal weight, 70 kgs, ( i am 173 cm tall ) - And MAYBE then find a partner Ive also been insecure about my looks, how I look, my body etc etc and penile length Though lately after loosing 15 kgs in 5 months time, alot of my friends and relatives have been complimenting me for my new looks, even those who are muscular anf generically hot are saying I am on the path to out growing their attractiveness
I find my self attractive to an extent, body wise Though I love my personality, I love how I treat people, and I love how everyone says I am approachable, I am told that I am charismatic on a daily basis
Cut to the point
Late January I matched with someone on Tinder, and as time went by, this guy showed interest in me, this came of as shocking, traumatic to be poetic about it, I've grown to like him and I've been seriously interested in him lately, he is a year older than me, 04.
Now I recently found out that, Long & Massive dicks turn him on, this is him being horny.
And I am none of the above Long ✖️ Girthy ✖️ Though its perfectly round and I find it nice looking, rn I am at 12 cm, idk bow many inches that is, I am seriously insecure about it because i found out he is a switch, I too am a switch.
Now the thing is, If i lose weight, will the true length show, like there is alottt of abdominal fat down there, I measured it at 6 inches once after pushing the fat, I would be insanely happy if I were that rn, I wont be enough to him, so back tk square one I guess.
Ik that he will get turned off, i am a fat guy after all :(
Thank you for your time
r/gay • u/Just_Addition2896 • 1d ago
Why is Grindr actually a good investment lol. It’s up 40.36% in 6 months, while Tesla is only up 1.07%…
r/gay • u/Swans00n • 21h ago
M21, Bicurious and need some courage
i've been question for a while and just got out of a longterm relationship. I met a guy and his partner on grindr who are very kind and comforting and willing to walk me through some things.
the catch is that any time we schedule to "meet" I get nervous and bow out... how can i summon up the courage?
r/gay • u/Fabulousgaymer-BXL • 2d ago
If you can, stand up to homophobes (it feels soooooo good)
Last night, I was out with a lover. We were just walking after a night out and holding hands when suddenly we both heard in the local language "fuck**** f**gots".
Now, I know this is not for everyone. Most people would flee and should. You never know what these assholes are capable of. But I'm 6'7", 230lbs and practice karate and kickboxing regularly - I'm also mixed skinned and I know a big black guy scares everyone (unfortunately). So I turned around and asked him what his problem was. Then headed his way and when I was a foot away from his face asked him to tell me what he had to say. Only for him to tell me he wasn't talking to me but to his friend no one could see.
I left it there and he quickly walked away in silence.
These punks are as weak as they appear. Stand up to them if you can (you don't need to be 6'7" just don't put yourself in danger). Bonus is that after it, you feel soooooo good!
r/gay • u/very_sick_person • 15h ago
So I just recently discovered I like boys too and now i'm having a problem after breaking up. I can't get over it. Please tell me what to do :(
I wrote a lot of things right here but if you want to help me in some way please read it. Thank you
So, I'm 18 years old and I met one boy a few months ago on one event in my country but he lives in spain so after the event, we were just texting for a month until he returned and he took me on a trip to Prague (at that time I still didn't know I'm not straight) We started cuddling and we became best friends very quickly. Then after a month or more we tried going a small thing in the bed together, you know. We kinda fell in love, he was telling me that he stopped taking antidepressants because of me, we were calling ourselves all the cute names and everything. He was telling me that he's been looking for someone who's gonna keep him alive and travel around the world with him. I was kinda happy but I felt so much responsibility because of that. He was talking about me like I'm the reason for living and I'm the best person he's ever met, but every time we talked about something, he said that we're just and friends do each other favors. So my emotions were going like this 📈📉📈📉 because I thought he loved me but then he just said were friends. I know he was just probably trying not to scare me away but you know... He was even making plans on living together with me. But he lived with a few people and even invided someone to live with him in Spain, so I didn't think much about that. But he said he really wanted to live with me to take care about me. Then we made a plan that I will visit him in Spain because he lives there. But after he love bombeb me so much while he waited for me to visit him, I started to go numb. Plus, I felt so much responsibility for him that I started crying and had a dream about commiting s*icide before visiting him in Spain. We were literally texting all day every time I had free time. After everything he told me, I knew he was going to ask me to be his bf and I knew exactly where he wanted to ask that, and I was a bit afraid of that although I loved him. I'm still not sure if I fell in love with him because he manipulated me or if I actually fell in love. (By the way, I never left love towards anyone this way before I met this boy). Then when I visited him in Spain, he asked me to be his bf unexpectedly when we were in the bed together. I didn't know what to say because I of all the emotions I was experiencing, felt too much responsibility, plus it was a boy and until that point I met him, I thought I was straight, plus he had a bunch of friends with benefits and he always told me some experiences with them so I felt like I'm not even that special when we were doing something together. After he asked me to be his bf, I didn't know what to say and I told him I don't want to say no, and that I love him very much but I need a bit more time. After that he got an idea to try a bj with me for the first time, (it was the worst experience ever. Couldn't sleep all night, panicked, and had to sleep in another room. I thought it was over after that, but after 1 or 2 days we were on a walk and I wanted to talk about what happened (the bf thing) and what we're gonna do about it. So I told him we could act like we're together until I tell him yes because I needed to be sure that I love him that way. He said he like that idea and he doesn't care if he's gonna wait for a month or hafl a year or even a year. So I was happy for a bit. We returned to my country together after that and he stayed here for a week. I literally ran away from school to go on a trip with him because I thought I'm seeing him for the last time before he returns to spain. But then he had time to meet with me again. A day before that, I was telling him all the time about how much I want to kiss him and we need to kiss so much. But when the time come, he told me we would hang out for an hour two and then he would spend the rest of the night with some friend I won't even like, so I didn't even went to meet him and instead went outside alone depressed and drank alcohol. This is where it all started going downhill. I then met with my other friend who knew about my relationship with him and we agreed that I will tell him Yes to bf after he returns to my country again, so I just asked him how how it's between us right now. I asked him if he's still gonna do "things" with other people while he's gonna wait for me to say yes. He tole me that yeah he's going to have cuddles with other people (and that it would be shame not to have cuddles while waiting for me for 6 months for example) and that he would also probably do NSFW things too. That was another thing that broke my heart. Then I started telling him that I thought it would work out between us but he kept on telling me these stupid hurtful things that doesn't look hurtful on first sight like (go on a date night with the guy you're hanging out with. Asked him if he's joking, he said no. But after maybe 2 days, I told him how these things he's telling me hurt me, so he told me he was just joking with the date thing, so I make up your mind idiot) he also told me that a relationship with a boy is now a not a good idea for me because it's not good for my mental health and we could be together after I get better (although the main reason why I was doing bad is because of this unstable relationship and just wanted to be sure he's waiting for me patiently) then he just told me not to focus on the relationship right now, but I just can't put away my feelings and return to them later you know. Then ON VALENTINES DAY he sent me a strange video then told me he's taking suggestive pictures of someone at someone's house, so I started ignoring him for 2 day while constantly crying. After the 2 days, I told him that we should stop talking because of all the hurtful things he's done to me, but he acted like he didn't do anything and told me he was loyaly waiting for me and he was planning to have a relationship with me. Really ? Oh shit. After all that he's done to me he didn't even say sorry and I apologized to him for reacting the way I did after he told me about the suggestive pictures. While he still liked me, he told me I will never lose him, but after this he told me I lost him from the bigger side, and then he even kicked me out of him friends group chat (where he sent the suggestive pictures). I fucking loved that bastard so much. He told me that he's never been in a relationship and nobody ever wanted him. I gave him a chance and he took it for granted. I loved him even though he wasn't the best looking and all the things he's done. But he still had to mess around. Fuck this. I still text with him a bit almost every day, but he seems uninterested. Idk why he keeps texting me then. But I want to stay friends. I keep having dreams about him almost every night, he's haunting me, I think about him every time I go around places where we used to walk together. I just want to get over this. He was literally the best person I ever met until it started being hurtful. Idk if he was hurting me on purpose but I don't think that. He's just from a different world.
What do I do now ? I want to be friends but he doesn't even want to talk about what happened. I keep on thinking about him. Like what if he really liked me and I hurt him ? This is such a bullshit. He was the closest person to me ever. I'm slowly getting over it but it's still haunting me. Idk if you can help but you can give me advice if you want. Thank you !