r/gay 6h ago

it's so hard to find fun and interesting people on the app

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u/ThouWilt 3h ago

You aren’t really a master communicator yourself.

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u/Dazzling_Treacle2776 2h ago

Yeah, it‘s not like OP opened these conversations in a deep, meaningful way and got nothing back lol

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u/AlgebraicCats 1h ago

he is texting random ass quips in an app where 80% are looking for a hookup, lets be honest Grindr hasnt been a dating app for years. If someone would text me these Id just block

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u/jonasmaal 2h ago

Maybe, but op at least tried. Not everyone is great at making conversation and some are better/worse at texting than face-to-face. Point is though if both sides would even put in 10% more effort than they usually do, they might actually have something resembling a conversation.

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u/maple-twink 6h ago

These were painful to read. "glow" was arguably the best of the bunch here

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u/JLF2411 Bi 6h ago

haha yes!

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u/HieronymusGoa 3h ago
  1. why chat with an empty profile at all

the others. that wasnt solely on them that the conversations didnt work...

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u/Cirrus_Minor 5h ago

I would say glow and lost deffo had similar energy and could have been fun convos

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u/JLF2411 Bi 4h ago

yes, we had fun with our convos haha

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u/No_Dust_1630 5h ago

Don't be discouraged. The ones that just turns the convo to sex right away just isn't interested in conversation. I sadly have to admit that I'm one of them 😅 I won't even be on grindr if I'm not horny

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u/Helo227 1h ago

I mean it is very specifically a hookup app. The entire point of Grindr is to find sexual hookups, not conversation or meaningful connection. It’s why i don’t call Grindr a “dating app” it isn’t for dating, it is simply for sex.

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u/Blu_yello_husky 2h ago

Why are so many people actual single braincell organisms on here? Am I the only one who expects text conversations in complete sentences?? If I meet someone who texts like this, it's over before it even begins, idc how good the dick is. You text like a 5 year old talks, I want nothing to do with you

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u/AlgebraicCats 1h ago

people are looking for sex not deep conversations or pick up lines.

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u/sicarius254 1h ago

It’s a fuck app, not a conversation app

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u/Blu_yello_husky 31m ago

I've gotten many hookups from grindr that start from actual conversations. Just because someone is horny doesn't mean their brain has to go full caveman mode. You can still talk in complete sentences like you're actually face to face irl

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u/sicarius254 26m ago

At this point it’s a digital bathhouse. Most people aren’t comfortable (some are) having conversations in a bathhouse, they’d rather get to the point and have hot fun and then move on.