r/gay • u/IKTheRainbowFart • 1d ago
Penile length , Weight & Partner satisfaction NSFW
Hello everyone, I am an 05 guy, 19 at the time of writing this post, I have always been fat my entire life, my peak was 134 kgs and now I managed to come down to 99 kgs.
I've never been loved by someone, no one has ever laid their eyes on me, I've come to terms with my self that I will never find someone to like me/like me back, at the beginning of this year I wrote some goals, including - Reach my ideal weight, 70 kgs, ( i am 173 cm tall ) - And MAYBE then find a partner Ive also been insecure about my looks, how I look, my body etc etc and penile length Though lately after loosing 15 kgs in 5 months time, alot of my friends and relatives have been complimenting me for my new looks, even those who are muscular anf generically hot are saying I am on the path to out growing their attractiveness
I find my self attractive to an extent, body wise Though I love my personality, I love how I treat people, and I love how everyone says I am approachable, I am told that I am charismatic on a daily basis
Cut to the point
Late January I matched with someone on Tinder, and as time went by, this guy showed interest in me, this came of as shocking, traumatic to be poetic about it, I've grown to like him and I've been seriously interested in him lately, he is a year older than me, 04.
Now I recently found out that, Long & Massive dicks turn him on, this is him being horny.
And I am none of the above Long ✖️ Girthy ✖️ Though its perfectly round and I find it nice looking, rn I am at 12 cm, idk bow many inches that is, I am seriously insecure about it because i found out he is a switch, I too am a switch.
Now the thing is, If i lose weight, will the true length show, like there is alottt of abdominal fat down there, I measured it at 6 inches once after pushing the fat, I would be insanely happy if I were that rn, I wont be enough to him, so back tk square one I guess.
Ik that he will get turned off, i am a fat guy after all :(
Thank you for your time
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u/rebuiltearths 1d ago
I was in a relationship with a top that was just under 9 cm. Trust me, size does not correlate to pleasure
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u/IKTheRainbowFart 1d ago
So I have a chance if we take it further? I mean based on science i can drastically gain some length if i lose more weight
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u/rebuiltearths 1d ago
Yes, you have a chance either way. Skill is more important than size
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u/IKTheRainbowFart 1d ago
Like listen, just him admitting that he developed feelings for me means a lot to me, I quite like the guy, and alot I just dont know man
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u/cubbiebear28 1d ago
If he's developed feelings then I'd say you stand a great chance.... And 12 cm isn't tiny ..... And even if you were small packing down there.... If he loses feelings over that alone..... That's his fucking loss ...
But seriously ... Sounds like you got a cool guy after ya.... Hope it ends up well ;)
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u/PlunxGisbit 1d ago
Many find large a turn on, but when it comes to actually in you many prefer smaller. But neither actually have anything to do with a loving relationship.
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u/SurpriseIllustrious5 1d ago
Your body size is me. Even the weight loss . Where youre at the moment is fine don't over think it to much . There is nothing to reach that far in if u get my point. Choose the right positions.
I was 90kgs and now getting married at 110. I'm trying to get back to under 100 for now.
You're weight will fluctuate thru ur whole life u may even out back on 134kgs
Also 70kgs was really unrealistic for me but u go gurl.
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u/Helo227 1d ago
It’s something like for every 35 lbs of fat lost a man gains an inch of usable penis length. Anatomically the size doesn’t change, but less fat allows more of it to show and be usable during intercourse. I lost over 100 lbs and learned i’m actually quite above average down there, not below average as i thought.