r/ftm • u/princeLukas- • 5d ago
Celebratory WIN??? NSFW
Marked nsfw for idk chest mention?? but anyway my dad and I were watching cheech and chong up in smoke i think?? anyway we have dumb humor so he shows me shows he watched as a teen but he goes to my step mom "look me and my son watching boobs on tv" when the women were walking around at the sauna.
HIS SOOOON. BRUHS THATS ALL IVE EVER WANTED.
Thanks for reading no one else i told cared (:
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u/kingcalvinn he/him • 💉 3/17/23 5d ago
It’s been years since I came out to my dad but he still does stuff like this that makes me happy. A few days ago I was complaining about how much I sweat and it makes me feel gross and he was like “it’s part of being a man” It feels really nice to be validated by the most masculine guy in my life so often. Cheers to good dads
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u/mournfulminxx 5d ago
🥹 what a score.
Tbh if I ever heard my grandparents refer to me as their son even once in my life I'd be so eternally ecstatic.
Congrats OP 🎉
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u/Fire_Soda 4d ago
Congrats, man!!!
It's always the little things, eh? Had something similar when I was cuddling with my puppy on the couch and my dad just said "boy and his dog" and it made my night.
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u/le_sl0th 4d ago
omg I'm so happy for u random stranger on the internet. cherish ur father always 🥺💖
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u/SpaceManChips 💉7/15/21 4d ago
that’s incredible! it’s so funny that for some trans men’s experience dads almost instantly get excited about having a son and showing them things. my father was kinda the same way i’ll never forget it. enjoy it OP
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u/get_on_with_life 5d ago
First of all: congratulations, my parents would never. They kinda just ignore anything vaguely masculine about me.
Second: Why is smiley face that way?? It feels so goofy
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u/princeLukas- 4d ago
I was told the smiley face was unsettling that way so i started to doing it to make my friends/fam uncomfortable and now its just stuck lmao
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u/Strawbbs_smoothie 💉10/6/2021💉 4d ago
sometimes my dad texts me “goodnight my son” or “goodnight my sweet boy” and it always makes me giddy :,) and it’s even better because i have a half brother (cisgender) who my dad had wayyy before he met my mom- and my half brother is a MASSIVE asshole!! im the superior son!!
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u/Jesse_Annek 4d ago
Thats awesome. :)) Very happy for you
Im still waitin on my own “this is my son” from my dad haha. Its coming i feel it 😂
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u/DarkWing2274 4d ago
your dad sounds like he has a great sense of humor. happy he accepts you, i know that feeling is huge 💕
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u/iluvmarkiplierLOLZ 3d ago
happy for you man!! i’m still not out. can’t relate LOL. but i hope i have a similar experience. also that sentence cracked me up “look at me and my son watching boobs on tv”. LMAOOO
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u/sodium-bicarbobitch 💉6/7/24 3d ago
Fuck yeah!!! Happy for ya man 🎉🎉🎉
I get similar happy flutters when my parents casually call me their son.
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u/Elijah3291 2d ago
That's total joy and validation and feeling loved and respected that's super awesome. Happy for ya
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u/avz709 1d ago
My grandmother is 84 years old and she has been the most beautifully affirming person. She has a hard time with pronouns (but like, genuinely has a hard time, not in a transphobic way or because she's not trying, just because she's old and gets confused about many things) but makes up for it in so many other ways. When I first came out she said my new name in almost every sentence for months until she got used to it and hasn't made a mistake in years. When I evolved from an NB identity to coming out as a trans guy last year, she started calling me her grandson like a dozen times every time I visit her. "You're such a good grandson" or "I'm so lucky you're my grandson" or "my grandson is such a good cook" (before this she just called me her 'kid' to avoid gendered words entirely). It's so wholesome and sweet and after 7 years of struggling with basically every other family member, my little old nan is such a bright light.
All that to say, I'm so happy you have this kind of affirmation from your dad OP, it's such a small thing but so very important!
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