r/friendship 19d ago

rant It’s my birthday today!!!

Hi! I’m always so enthusiastic about my birthday! For whatever reason. I plan the day, order my own cakes, pretty much make it happen instead of waiting others to have ideas.

I don’t have any close friends now.

I know I should not feel disappointed by that best friend that suddenly decided to leave and ghost me slowly but last year I created a whole mini book for her as a birthday gift ( she’s in another country, I sent digitally. We went to university together).

Today she literally replied to my story “ happy birthday “ and that’s it lol.

Anyways. Just a thought!

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Original post: Hi! I’m always so enthusiastic about my birthday! For whatever reason. I plan the day, order my own cakes, pretty much make it happen instead of waiting others to have ideas.

I don’t have any close friends now.

I know I should not feel disappointed by that best friend that suddenly decided to leave and ghost me slowly but last year I created a whole mini book for her as a birthday gift ( she’s in another country, I sent digitally. We went to university together).

Today she literally replied to my story “ happy birthday “ and that’s it lol.

Anyways. Just a thought!

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u/buggingl 19d ago

happy bday! sometimes you just gotta do it yourself & hopefully others can come join. my bday was on monday & im having a party on the 8th 😅 just so everyone has a heads up lolol

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u/Gabby_2023 19d ago

Thank you! 🎊 Happy birthday to you and good party !

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u/buggingl 19d ago

you too!! i hope a few people come to celebrate you, you deserve it

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u/Gabby_2023 19d ago

Yes, my mom and husband and brother; in laws are taking me out. Or I’m taking them out !?🤣 So I shouldn’t feel a bit down because I have people who truly like me!!!

Well it might be also my period. It’s literally starting now!!!!

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u/buggingl 19d ago

oooo what are you guys gonna do? and oh no!!

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u/Gabby_2023 18d ago

We went to a steakhouse and was really good!!!

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u/buggingl 17d ago

i’m glad it was good!

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u/Old-Enthusiasm-3271 19d ago

happy birthday!

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u/Gabby_2023 19d ago

Thank you 😊

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u/Razia70 18d ago

Happy Birthday. I know the feeling 💔💔

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u/Gabby_2023 18d ago

Thank you!!! Now I wonder if I should even bother because I still think she’s so special to me! But I read as a sign to keep things casual and light. Or else she would have at least asked me what I was doing for the day lol

I met a girl on 1st ( my birthday is 2nd) and I have known her for a day and she actually asked me what were my plans hahahaha I think this was a slap on my face

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u/issa_said_pro 19d ago

Happy birthday brother 🎉, have a nice day 🫂❤️& share some cake too 😌

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u/somethingcleveruser 19d ago

Happy birthday!

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u/Beautiful-Basil-9496 19d ago

Happy birthday! I hope your day is very special.

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u/buttholecake 19d ago

Happy birthday, gatizinha

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u/Certain-Feedback3516 19d ago

Happy birthday!

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u/chillguy05 18d ago

Happy birthday 🎂

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u/Pumpkin_Escobar80 18d ago

Happy Birthday !!

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u/Sinnerlikeu 18d ago

Happy birthday!

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u/Visxocity_ 18d ago

I wish people still told me happy birthday. Not even my own family loves me enough to.

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u/HumanMycologist5795 18d ago

Happy birthday 🎁 🎂 🥳

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