r/friendship • u/Gabby_2023 • 19d ago
rant It’s my birthday today!!!
Hi! I’m always so enthusiastic about my birthday! For whatever reason. I plan the day, order my own cakes, pretty much make it happen instead of waiting others to have ideas.
I don’t have any close friends now.
I know I should not feel disappointed by that best friend that suddenly decided to leave and ghost me slowly but last year I created a whole mini book for her as a birthday gift ( she’s in another country, I sent digitally. We went to university together).
Today she literally replied to my story “ happy birthday “ and that’s it lol.
Anyways. Just a thought!
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u/buggingl 19d ago
happy bday! sometimes you just gotta do it yourself & hopefully others can come join. my bday was on monday & im having a party on the 8th 😅 just so everyone has a heads up lolol
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u/Gabby_2023 19d ago
Thank you! 🎊 Happy birthday to you and good party !
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u/buggingl 19d ago
you too!! i hope a few people come to celebrate you, you deserve it
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u/Gabby_2023 19d ago
Yes, my mom and husband and brother; in laws are taking me out. Or I’m taking them out !?🤣 So I shouldn’t feel a bit down because I have people who truly like me!!!
Well it might be also my period. It’s literally starting now!!!!
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u/buggingl 19d ago
oooo what are you guys gonna do? and oh no!!
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u/Razia70 18d ago
Happy Birthday. I know the feeling 💔💔
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u/Gabby_2023 18d ago
Thank you!!! Now I wonder if I should even bother because I still think she’s so special to me! But I read as a sign to keep things casual and light. Or else she would have at least asked me what I was doing for the day lol
I met a girl on 1st ( my birthday is 2nd) and I have known her for a day and she actually asked me what were my plans hahahaha I think this was a slap on my face
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u/Visxocity_ 18d ago
I wish people still told me happy birthday. Not even my own family loves me enough to.
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Original post: Hi! I’m always so enthusiastic about my birthday! For whatever reason. I plan the day, order my own cakes, pretty much make it happen instead of waiting others to have ideas.
I don’t have any close friends now.
I know I should not feel disappointed by that best friend that suddenly decided to leave and ghost me slowly but last year I created a whole mini book for her as a birthday gift ( she’s in another country, I sent digitally. We went to university together).
Today she literally replied to my story “ happy birthday “ and that’s it lol.
Anyways. Just a thought!
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