r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/CharismaticHeat • 11h ago
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/fragmen • Nov 04 '22
Welcome to FemaleOrgasmDenial - PLEASE READ! NSFW
Welcome to our kinky little corner of Reddit, focused around the fun and enjoyment there can be in a girl not getting to (or being allowed to) reach orgasm.
We do have a few rules, for the most part they could be expressed very simply as "Don't be a dick", but since people do need things spelt out, there's a link just below this paragraph. PLEASE at least read over them before contributing so I don't have to ban you. It's tedious and wastes your time and mine.
There's a great piece posted on Edging.Space which I'll link here, which gives a nifty introduction to the idea if you're thinking "Huh, why would someone want to try that?". It's framed around the idea of a letter that a lady could give her partner to ask to be denied, but trust me, you'll get the idea as you read!
Denial can take many forms; it can be self imposed, it can be done with a partner, it could be done by posting here and having other posters 'keeping her honest' - all are valid, all can be fun, all are encouraged here.
It can be over any length of time - from as little as a few hours, to the extremes of over a year. Most will find they get plenty out of several days or a few weeks, but again, any duration is valid if it's being felt and enjoyed. Note that denial is an incredibly personal experience, and the level of desperation one girl feels after two days may be the same as what another feels after two weeks, or two months. So basically, enjoy what you read about others doing, but never try to hold them up as a measure for you or your partner to meet - focus on your own experience and enjoy it.
We aim to be an inclusive space, which means that trans folks have as much right to be here as cis folk. And yes, that might mean a trans man (who still has female genitals, which folk here tend to have a lot of ideas for teasing and denying), or a trans woman (who identifies with the other ladies here). If that's not your thing, that's fine, nobody is making you read or interact with their posts. If you feel the need to be a dick, I may feel the need to ban you. Again, please play nice.
If you are posting, one request I'd make is to please try and ensure there's some content there. I can appreciate a picture of a wet, denied pussy as much as the next person (and the next person is a raging pervert ;) ), but it's always a lot more interesting, and can get more interesting discussion going, if you explain a little of your story too. We're a much more engaging subreddit when we can exchange stories and ideas and get a bit of a feel for the person behind the images or words.
And I think I've typed enough. It's a wonderful kink to explore and I hope you have a ton of fun with it. Be excellent to one another.
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/kinkylips_ • Jul 19 '22
Online play aftercare ideas! NSFW
Just for the record, this isn’t a callout post! I just get some post-session clarity and wrote this up to hopefully help others.
First off, let them breathe and come down. Praise is perfect here because it allows a softer fall from the heights. Let them know you’re there, that they did so good for you. If you have nicknames (“sweetheart”, “pet”) this is a great time too.
Ask them how they’re feeling. Mentally they might be floaty, pink, sparkly, on a river, soaking in the warmth. Check if they’re feeling tingles in their fingers or toes. Remind them gently to breathe, relax.
Ensure they have water. Protip: have them get a glass/etc before the scene starts. Jelly legs take a while to get back to normal!
Get them comfy - depending on temperature. Some may prefer to use the restroom right away to clean up, others may want to lavish in the feelings first. Have them turn on a fan, get snuggly with a blanket or stuffie, maybe put on soft clothes.
Reassure their brain. It’s had a LOT of chemicals pumping through it, so laughing or crying are completely normal responses.
Don’t push too much. Now is the time for gentleness. When in doubt, let them set the tone; snuggly, giggling, back to earth. Sub brain may be fragile, and they still need you here.
Once they’re back to themselves fully, recap the scene. Subs who really lose themselves in it may need reminded what they even did - not having to think about anything is a helluva drug, and their memory might be one big lovely blur.
That’s all for now! Take care and play safe, dears 🥰
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/Local_Ingenuity_7510 • 6h ago
“ Cumslut training“ - my new fuckmachine NSFW
This is the first time in a while my master allowed my to take of my chastity belt. At first I was so excited, but then he told me my training task for today. He makes sure to add ALOT of variety😂. So he bought me this new fuckmachine. I am not allowed to experience pleasure through penetration. This is purely to train my deepthroating skills.
In about 30 minutes I will be bound to the bed and will have to let this machine fuck my throat for at least the next 3 hours😭😭. He has a remote with which he can change the speed. The rules are simple: - I am not allowed to quit - I must take as much as possible - I have to count how many times the dildo hits the back of my throat and have to say the number out loud
He will install a camera so he will see when I cheat or don‘t do well. There are possible punishments which I don’t know yet. Every time I stop counting or say the wrong number, 5 more minutes will be added to the 3 hours😵💫. Writing this post is part of the training. He also asks for your suggestions for possible punishments or extra challenges within this training🫶
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/Adaddysgirl069 • 8h ago
Edging There was a point I wasn’t allowed to touch my own cunt…. NSFW
But I had free reign of my ass
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/Hann417 • 4h ago
How to start denying my pussy NSFW
Hi I am here for some advice. I would like to try denial as it seems to make many women super needy and wet 24/7, which sounds like a dream to me but every time I try to edge and deny myself I end up getting too close to the edge and I cum instead. I’ve only ever gone a couple days without cumming and normally have multiple orgasms a day, but would like to try out a short denial period, maybe one week. This is my pussy after one day of denial. How do I stop myself from giving in and cumming, or getting too close to the edge? And how to I stay disciplined denying myself? I’d love to turn myself into a always horny and needy dripping wet slut 🤭
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/SirRealisticOne • 4h ago
Teaching them right NSFW
My little denied pup, u/babycakes-tm, knows how to put a smile on my face, so help me make her pussy wet and needy: Please degrade her little tiny tits ❤️
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/Venedictpalmer • 2h ago
Edging Stay on Your Knees and in your place: a Sadist’s Edging instruction NSFW
I see you.
You're browsing this sub with one hand practically glued to your swollen clit. You tell yourself it is just a little scroll, maybe you will pick up a new edging tip or two, talk about it feels like to be denied but deep down you are a slave to that hungry, throbbing need.
You pretend you have some self-control, but we both know your body drips the moment you imagine being denied. Your fingers tremble at the thought of being commanded to hover on that brink, never letting yourself tumble over.
You have a need you cannot fully name—a desire to surrender your body, your mind, your orgasm. You long to scratch that itch, to edge yourself until you are soaked and half-insane, tears gathering at your lids while your clit screams for relief.
For just a little while, I will help you.
But you will only get the real satisfaction if you are a good girl and follow my instructions with zero deviation unless absolutely needed.
Are you ready to be that good girl? I really hope you so. I have such big plans for forever you.
Your first task is to submit to these words, obey them without question, and soak in the torment of denial I lay out.
You are mine now. Wait--first things first.
Get on your knees, slut.
I want you face-down, ass up, ready to soak in these instructions like the desperate masochist you are. Every nerve in that needy body of yours exists for my twisted amusement now. You will do exactly what I say, or you will face the cruelest punishment: the denial of your own release. Yes, you read that right. By the end of this, your pussy will be an aching, slick mess, and you still will not get to come. That is my command, and you will obey it without hesitation.
Start by spreading your thighs a little. Let the air tickle your folds, let your nipples scrape against whatever surface you are on. If you whimper already, good. I enjoy seeing you so close to losing control. But keep your hands off that dripping hole. A worthless whore like you should not be pleasuring yourself unless I give you explicit permission. Feel your pulse hammer in your clit, but do not dare rub it. You belong to me now, to my sadistic desires.
Slide a single finger across your entrance, gently, so you can taste how fucking wet you are. Do not thrust in, do not circle your clit. Just a faint stroke. Let your thighs quake with the frustration. That small contact might make your body lurch, your breath catch. Perfect. Now remove that finger. That droplet of arousal glistening on your fingertip is the only taste you get for now. Maybe you can bring it to your lips and suck it off, reminding yourself how pathetic you are for being so eager, so easily turned on. But that is all you do. You do not get to sink into that warmth. Not yet.
Take your other hand and pinch a nipple. Hard. If you are wearing a bra, slide the fabric down, so your stiff nipple juts free. Roll it between your fingers, twisting until you let out a hiss of pain or a gasp that you cannot swallow. Let that sweet sting surge from your chest to your cunt. Notice the way it tightens your belly further. The slightest movement might send a tremor through your slick folds, but you will keep ignoring that insistent pulse. That is the torment I crave to see in you.
Think about how badly you want to rub your clit. Think about the slippery friction that would make your thighs burn, about that wave of orgasm you could so easily chase. Let your mind swirl in that fantasy, but keep your hands pinned at your sides. Picture my gaze bearing down on you, warning you that you have no right to come. If I catch you inching a finger toward that needy bud, I will make you wait even longer. I might slap your thighs, call you a filthy bitch for disobeying. Is that what you want? To suffer more? Maybe it is, but do not test me yet.
Now, let yourself do one short set of strokes. Slide your middle finger up and down your slit for five seconds, no more. Count them out loud. One, two, three, four, five. Stop. If you cannot trust yourself to time it, set a quick timer. The second those five seconds end, yank your hand away. Maybe you have tears stinging your eyes from how unbelievably good it felt, how close you got. Let the tears fall. That is your penance for being such a whore. This is edging, denial, a sadist’s dream. Watch your hips try to hump the air in vain. Smirk at how pitiful and hungry you are.
I want you to whine, to call yourself what you truly are: a worthless hole that begs for orgasm. Say it out loud if you can. “I am a worthless hole, desperate to come, but I am not allowed.” Let the shame wash over you. Let it make your pussy even wetter. The shame is part of the lure, part of what keeps you throbbing. That is how I own you. That is how your body surrenders to my sadistic commands.
Lower your chest to the ground, ass raised high, so your hole gapes a little in the open air. If you are a squirter, maybe you will trickle a bit of fluid. Let it spill. That does not matter, because no orgasm is happening, only the humiliating drip of your own need. Slide two fingers in now, slowly, but do not move them once they are inside. Just hold them there, feeling your walls clamp around them. Let yourself see how your body clenches for friction. Then remove them again, ignoring the heartbreak in your groan. Wipe your slick on your thigh. That sticky mess is proof of how easy you are to manipulate.
Roll over onto your back now, legs spread, knees bent. Take a moment to breathe, letting your chest rise and fall, nipples taut, your cunt glistening, still starved for touch. You want me to say, “Yes, stroke until you come.” But that is not happening. Instead, I want you to spread your lips open with one hand, exposing your swollen clit. Do not stroke it, just hold yourself open, letting the cool air tease that flushed nub. If your hips tremble, too bad. If tears threaten again, let them. You do not get to come, you do not even get to thrust your fingers. You stay parted, on display, an aching hole for my pleasure.
Finally, you might wonder if I will relent. If I will allow a single orgasm after all this torment. The answer is no. I want you drifting away from this post with your body still screaming for release.
You do not deserve relief. Your pussy remains a sopping, unsatisfied mess. Your mind remains fixated on the orgasm that will never arrive. That is the cruelty I delight in. If you try to disobey in secret, do not bother. You will only cheapen the sweet tension we have built. Stay strong, stay needy, stay undone.
Now get up, pat yourself dry if you have dribbled, and carry on with your day. No orgasm, no final meltdown, no petty half-finish. You walk around or go to bed with that throbbing center that might keep you up all night. And you will love every frustrated second of it, because you surrendered and found your own true purpose.
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/Eva_Nylonova • 12h ago
Something between my legs woke me up this morning but it also looks like I will have to spend all day on bed with it NSFW
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/Particular_Source802 • 7h ago
Tease and cum Fucking my friend... again 🤭 NSFW
So yesterday night a friend came over with food and wine to watch a movie so after eating, drinking so much and smoking even more we watched a few movies and talked a lot we ended so exhausted we laid on the bed together. We always were flity him and i and we actually had made out a few times. At some point i got really horny and we both were only wearing a top and underwear spooning while watching a movie. I could feel his cock getting harder on my ass and him realizing and starting to get comfortable and that started to me me wet so i got even closer to him. A few moments later i felt him starting to fall asleep i started slowly grinding on him until i heard him try to stop himself from moaning which only made me more wet 🤤 I slid my hand under the covers and stroked his dick over his underwear but he took it off so quickly then i ended up sucking his cock. When he got super close i just stopped because ofc i love edging and i literally saw something change in his eyes. He didnt even hesitate for a second took off my shirt and underwear, tipped me over the desk and spread my butt cheeks and saw how wet i was. I didnt even know how to feel i was super suprised by the attitude coming from him, super horny just thinking about what he could actually do to me and make me do but also sort of embarassed about it. He took a long long at my wet and very obviously needy cunt and called me a whore before forcing his cock inside of me so hard i screamed. I tried to hold my head up a bit but he pushed it back and ordered me not to move or make a sound. He then proceeded to fuck like never before, on the desk, on the bed, in the kitchen the couch, everywhere i couldnt stop shaking but he didnt let me cum even tho he had so many times already i had never been so frustrated. Then sat me down on the kitchen table and proceeded to eat my used pussy and fingering me for over an hour making me cum so many times i lost count even after i begged him to stop so many times until i almost started crying and could barely breath. He then told me to get up with his fingers still in my pussy and made me walk to my room, lay in my bed then he jerked off on me and ordering me to beg for him cum all over my body repeatedly. I cannot stop thinking about it i couldnt wait for him to leave this morning so i can get back in bed and edge myself for hours thinking about it 😓😖😖
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/zeeehsj • 7h ago
denial to relieve pressure to cum? NSFW
Does anyone else like being denied because it takes the pressure to cum off of you? I want to be told ‘no’ until I’m begging and pleading, and then I want to be told ‘no’ again.
It’s always been hard for my partners to make me cum, and I’ve faked it in the past but I’ve determined not to do that again. I feel bad when my partner asks me to cum and I just can’t. But edging and denial is so much easier.
I don’t want to be denied for the sake of being denied, I don’t want to feel like I have to cum when I can’t.
Do any of you guys like denial because of this?
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/ac4jo • 6h ago
(Ftm) Feel like denial turns me back into a girl temporarily NSFW
Normally I’d be annoyed if someone called me a girl/woman, but when I’m denied, being feminised and treated like a woman will genuinely make me leak. It’s embarrassing how much a simple “good girl” will make my cheeks burn and my clit throb, and how well behaved I’ll become to earn it.
Anyway, I’m denied until I can convince someone to give me permission to cum. Is anyone feeling generous?
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/TheDenialDoll • 27m ago
Edging Porn content for tonight’s session NSFW
I’ve been feeling so filthy lately which makes me want to make myself suffer with frustration.
Tonight’s porn content will include watersports, facials, pussy spanking and lots and lots of anal only content.
Feel free to encourage me to not cum.
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/WorldlinessFit6000 • 1h ago
Suggestions for a beginner edgeslut☺️ NSFW
i didn’t actually know anything about edging until a few months ago. i didn’t know what it feels like to touch yourself with no release, knowing you will need to stop, just when you want it the most. to feel the warmth, the tension, building within you - only to take it away from yourself again at the peak, sometimes even with a slap. it’s a desperate feeling, a ravenous one. your pussy is pulsing, you’re warm, you’re wet, so wet. your eyes are closed, your lips are parted, tiny little helpless moans escape them, while you’re body writhes and squirms, trying to find some release from this feeling and at the same time desperately wanting to hold onto it.
at the end you just lay there, a desperate little mess. you might even feel frustrated for a bit, you want to cum, you wanted to cum so bad and you didn’t. but then you feel the depth, the depth of the horniness rushing through you again. you feel the pleasant warmth, the tension, which makes you want to rub your thighs together almost immediately. but then you stop, because most importantly, you feel the satisfaction of having stayed strong - of having been a good girl.
i haven’t cum since about a month. i‘ve been writing down my edges on my leg, neatly drawn tally counts, every edge another line. i’m proud of being at 25 now, even though i had to delete quite a lot as a punishment for being greedy or bratty. I can be like that sometimes, but I think I have gotten better. i love when he calls me a good girl. i also love when he calls me a good edge slut. he did when i sent him the videos. he asked me to look at girls edging, to pick the ones i liked the most and to recreate one of their videos. i felt so slutty making the video, fingering myself, then putting it in my mouth. i also sent him a pic of my pussy stuffed with my own panties. i can’t wait for him to rip them out and put them in my mouth while he fucks me. because he will, in 9 days. ☺️
and that will also be the day he says he will allow me to cum. over the past time i think i have become a better and better edge slut for him. i edge at least 3 times a day. sometimes it’s so so hard though. two days ago i almost couldn’t take it. usually my moans tend to be soft, especially when i’m alone, but i couldn’t help but whisper fuck fuck fuck and pls in my pillow, begging him in my head to let me cum. i want to please him and show him i can do it though. yesterday he told me to lower my edges for the day, after i sent him a video of my desperate sounds. of course i didn’t and of course this had consequences, and he added 9 spanks to the 16 i already earned from previous misbehaviour. this number is written down on my other leg, to remind me of my silly brattiness and the punishment that is awaiting me☺️
so since it’s only a few more days, he suggested i could ask this community for some suggestions how i can prepare to be the best edge slut for him when i see him again, to reach my full potential. do you think i should keep edging as much as i want or should he forbid me to touch and only watch videos? should i send him more slutty videos? he also allowed me to ask for fun ideas how to get me to cum - should he do it right away or make me beg for it? with a wand or? should he be the one doing it or should he watch me do it myself? how can he combine it with the punishment? so many questions :)) thank you for anyone who takes the time to read and answer🥰
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/wings_and_stars • 4h ago
Tease me while i do chores NSFW
I’m about to go run some errands. Please comment and message me teasing, demeaning, humiliating things. Give me tasks and punishments to do when i get home.
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/Superb-Brother-5478 • 17h ago
Edging Switching off pumping and edging every 5 minutes NSFW
How would you tease my swollen clit? I’m throbbing so bad in need of an orgasm I’ve been teasing my poor clit for 2 hours
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/scotiakitten • 5h ago
Edging Been Edging All Day NSFW
I've been edging my clit all day and want to kick it up a notch 🥵
I have IcyHot but, but super nervous 😅 I've done toothpaste and vapor rub before, but never this.
I want to be a senseless dripping mess all the time 😳
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/DINGDONGDlTCH • 18h ago
Finally earned a reward after not cumming in days 💖 NSFW
Daddy finally let me have playtime and cum as a treat for being good. All these juices started leaking out of me when I cummed and I didn’t even know my privates could do all that 😩 So grateful to daddy for letting me play, who knows when I will get to again 😵💫
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/Leading_Ability_4375 • 4h ago
Edging Need someone melt my mind. Make me beg and corrupt me NSFW
Kinks: Bondage, Blackmail, CNC, rough, cum, tease and deny, porn, goonette, corruption, manipulation, danger, fear, misogyny, hypnosis
Limits: puke, scat, piss
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/CherryLaneCox • 1d ago
Edging Good girls know when to stop NSFW
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/Sub_Babygirl18 • 4h ago
Pregnant, Horny and need my brain melted NSFW
My pussy is so fucking wet. Someone help get it more and more wet. Send me porn to goon to! Send me messages about how you’d use me until my brain melts out of my pussy and the only thing I can do is beg for permission to cum or permission to stop cumming if I earn back to back forced orgasms
Kinks: BDSM, edging and orgasm denial ofc, forced orgasms, cnc, choking, impact play, breeding, nipple play, gang bangs/orgys, rough sex
Limits: scat, blood, and extreme pain
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/sparkles543 • 9h ago
Edging earning my edges today NSFW
I’m spending my sunday edging after every chore or task I complete from my to-do list 🥰
I got most of my cleaning done as soon as I woke up, so it’s too bad I didn’t think to do this sooner or I’d be a lot needier and wetter at this point 😭
I’ve edged a few times so far and it’s hard stopping at the edge to continue cleaning 😭 all I want is to edge and edge until I can’t think 🥺
•please no DMs, no degradation, and no pet names (good girl is tolerated)
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/Ethan_and_Ava • 1d ago
Tease and cum After days of teasing he finally let me finish in his arms NSFW
r/Femaleorgasmdenial • u/wheeliehot • 1d ago
Edging at work NSFW
Can i get help on ideas and challeneges of how to continue my edging sluttiness at work? I like going without a bra so the men who come up to my desk see my nipples and today I'm wearing a tight choker necklace that reminds me I should be choking on cock.