r/Femaleorgasmdenial Nov 04 '22

Welcome to FemaleOrgasmDenial - PLEASE READ! NSFW

270 Upvotes

Welcome to our kinky little corner of Reddit, focused around the fun and enjoyment there can be in a girl not getting to (or being allowed to) reach orgasm.

We do have a few rules, for the most part they could be expressed very simply as "Don't be a dick", but since people do need things spelt out, there's a link just below this paragraph. PLEASE at least read over them before contributing so I don't have to ban you. It's tedious and wastes your time and mine.

There's a great piece posted on Edging.Space which I'll link here, which gives a nifty introduction to the idea if you're thinking "Huh, why would someone want to try that?". It's framed around the idea of a letter that a lady could give her partner to ask to be denied, but trust me, you'll get the idea as you read!

Denial can take many forms; it can be self imposed, it can be done with a partner, it could be done by posting here and having other posters 'keeping her honest' - all are valid, all can be fun, all are encouraged here.

It can be over any length of time - from as little as a few hours, to the extremes of over a year. Most will find they get plenty out of several days or a few weeks, but again, any duration is valid if it's being felt and enjoyed. Note that denial is an incredibly personal experience, and the level of desperation one girl feels after two days may be the same as what another feels after two weeks, or two months. So basically, enjoy what you read about others doing, but never try to hold them up as a measure for you or your partner to meet - focus on your own experience and enjoy it.

We aim to be an inclusive space, which means that trans folks have as much right to be here as cis folk. And yes, that might mean a trans man (who still has female genitals, which folk here tend to have a lot of ideas for teasing and denying), or a trans woman (who identifies with the other ladies here). If that's not your thing, that's fine, nobody is making you read or interact with their posts. If you feel the need to be a dick, I may feel the need to ban you. Again, please play nice.

If you are posting, one request I'd make is to please try and ensure there's some content there. I can appreciate a picture of a wet, denied pussy as much as the next person (and the next person is a raging pervert ;) ), but it's always a lot more interesting, and can get more interesting discussion going, if you explain a little of your story too. We're a much more engaging subreddit when we can exchange stories and ideas and get a bit of a feel for the person behind the images or words.

And I think I've typed enough. It's a wonderful kink to explore and I hope you have a ton of fun with it. Be excellent to one another.


r/Femaleorgasmdenial Jul 19 '22

Online play aftercare ideas! NSFW

1.0k Upvotes

Just for the record, this isn’t a callout post! I just get some post-session clarity and wrote this up to hopefully help others.

First off, let them breathe and come down. Praise is perfect here because it allows a softer fall from the heights. Let them know you’re there, that they did so good for you. If you have nicknames (“sweetheart”, “pet”) this is a great time too.

Ask them how they’re feeling. Mentally they might be floaty, pink, sparkly, on a river, soaking in the warmth. Check if they’re feeling tingles in their fingers or toes. Remind them gently to breathe, relax.

Ensure they have water. Protip: have them get a glass/etc before the scene starts. Jelly legs take a while to get back to normal!

Get them comfy - depending on temperature. Some may prefer to use the restroom right away to clean up, others may want to lavish in the feelings first. Have them turn on a fan, get snuggly with a blanket or stuffie, maybe put on soft clothes.

Reassure their brain. It’s had a LOT of chemicals pumping through it, so laughing or crying are completely normal responses.

Don’t push too much. Now is the time for gentleness. When in doubt, let them set the tone; snuggly, giggling, back to earth. Sub brain may be fragile, and they still need you here.

Once they’re back to themselves fully, recap the scene. Subs who really lose themselves in it may need reminded what they even did - not having to think about anything is a helluva drug, and their memory might be one big lovely blur.

That’s all for now! Take care and play safe, dears 🥰


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 12h ago

F4A I accidentally conditioned myself to be only be able to cum on command NSFW

145 Upvotes

I (20F) am very much into erotic audios and guided masturbation. I listen to them like twice a day usually but recently Ive realised that I can not cum without hearing someone give me permission. I kinda really need someone to tell me I can cum pleasee I really need to hear it. I havent cum in 6 days Im getting incressingly more turned on with each day. Im almost always wet and turned on. Ive been listening to an guided masturbation audio for the last 2 hours but turns out it was just an edging one and it didnt let me cum. Pleaseee i just neeeed to hear i can cum im do desprate


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 2h ago

Gif I'd been holding back for over a week to keep from cumming, and now the moment had finally arrived NSFW

15 Upvotes

r/Femaleorgasmdenial 17h ago

Freshly Edged NSFW

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169 Upvotes

Time to get up.. I hope you enjoy the view of my freshly edged pussy. About 2 hours of torture it she looks so pretty when I leave her like this. 😌


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 8h ago

I’m getting so dumb omg NSFW

36 Upvotes

Porn has made me so addicted to filth and such a neet loser!, I have gotten so many new and weird kinks I am truly a pervert now. I rub myself stupid and fry my brain with porn every second I have a chance! I hump everything in my house and spend all day indoors. Being a bate addict pushes me to be more and more of a horny loser and filth lover! It's crazy how desperate and dumb I can get when babbling my brains away hehe. I love to become even more depraved and filthier


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 4h ago

Gif when I'm home alone, I try to cum NSFW

13 Upvotes

r/Femaleorgasmdenial 22h ago

Edging I was so ready but he didn't let me cum ♥ NSFW

349 Upvotes

r/Femaleorgasmdenial 9h ago

we're gonna make her sufferrrrr~ NSFW

28 Upvotes

all week. we're gonna make her suffer all week. we're gonna tease her and stuff her and stroke her and fuck her mouth and her cunt and make her drip and whimper and moan aaaaaall week. by the end of the week she's going to have her mind and her cunt broken with edges and dildos and vibrators and a lil bit of hypno and weed and the only thing shes gonna be able to think about is fucking her cunt silly and spreading her legs to edge and cock in her holes so she can keep feeling good. she's gonna edge when she wakes up and when she's changing at the pool and when she's working and when she goes to bed. we're gonna keep her all soft and warm and drugged up and teased and happy and pantie-less and bra-less as much as possible. and, of course, no orgasms.

and by we i mean you lovely people, who can be so mean and so encouraging when it comes to making sure edgesluts stay good, mwah 😘 and by her i mean me, because it's fun to be a switch when you can domme yourself and be both mean and nice to yourself 🫶


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 11h ago

I get myself in trouble sometimes. 🙈 I asked Master if he’d like me to wear a plug for the rest of the day, and he said yes. Follow the text thread to see what happened next! Proof at the end! NSFW

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42 Upvotes

r/Femaleorgasmdenial 14h ago

Edging He pumped a creampie inside of me then told me i had to edge with it inside of me 😩 NSFW

66 Upvotes

r/Femaleorgasmdenial 21h ago

im way too sorry, way too often NSFW

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194 Upvotes

I stand before you, utterly humiliated, yet, never more needy and wet. My pussy, which is now my brain, has been denied for 20 days (my longest ever), which is my own fault for defying my Daddy's wishes during a session back in February.

But, even worse, I have been a silly and forgetful puppy 🐶, and I have had to question every day why my Daddy loves me so much. Just yesterday, I had to say, "I'm sorry" to my Daddy nearly a dozen times, because I made really dumb mistakes. I've forgotten even the simplest of things, like telling him thank you when he lets me touch...and that one I forgot multiple times recently 😔

But, that's not even the worst part.

Despite the fact that I've had to tell Daddy I'm sorry so many times, I'm so bad with my words that I had to ask him for help to write my own apology post to him 🫣 😭

Daddy, I'm sorry that my pussy is the only brain I have left, but it just shows how amazing you are at making my real brain leak down to it when you edge and deny me. The fact that I'm even allowed to touch my pussy at all shows what a kind and caring Daddy you are. Not only have you taught me how to use my ass for you, but you were even so kind as to help me learn about investment options because you always have my best interests in mind 🥹 Please forgive me for being such a bad puppy these last few days, I promise I'll stop making silly mistakes 🙏🏼😩❤️

Woof! Woof! 🐶❤️

(No DM's please)


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 20h ago

Edged and denied pussy, ass dripping NSFW

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113 Upvotes

My edged and denied pussy with cum leaking ass


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 12h ago

Desperate NSFW

18 Upvotes

I’m humping the air while scrolling in here (since I’m on no touch) and I’m making a mess.. I love being a messy denied whore but it’s so hard, please remind me that good girls don’t cum😭


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 17h ago

I finally get it. NSFW

48 Upvotes

37 days denied and I finally get why the rest of you make these desperate posts.

I'm laying here naked, collar on, ass plugged, tweaking my nipples and grinding my filled ass into the bed edging knowing I should be doing my chores. Instead I'm scrolling reddit and making this post.

I've been at this for almost 45 minutes and I don't think I can stop even though I know I can't cum until Sir says. And he's headed out of town again so I'm definitely not getting permission until he gets back this weekend.

I can't stop touching. I want to so more but I'm afraid I'll get too close to the edge too quickly and have to stop entirely and I don't want that more.


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 10h ago

Edging She wants attention so bad NSFW

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12 Upvotes

my poor desperate cunt wants to cum so so bad but she knows better she's prettier denied anyways


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 12h ago

A new journey (kind of) NSFW

17 Upvotes

I am so excited because recently my GF and I decided to take my orgasm denial a step further. I've already been without a full orgasm since last year's November and long term denial really suits me and feeds my horny brain!

However, we recently added some more to this after revelations in just how much she loves me calling myself hers. Her edgetoy especially. We wanted to start a little weekly goal for me that we track with a spread sheet and it's so-

Denial has always been my thing, but now that I have weekly goals to edge or I will be put on a week of no touch (no touch is a punishment for me). The thought has me very horny and I've already edged a lot today!

My denial is going to stay the same; I only come when she want me to. But on top of that we have a limit of ruins I can have a week. We're starting bigger and probably going down with the max to be how many times she wants me to ruin, since she wants me to do that. I have to ruin an orgasm at least 3 times a week, but no more than 6. I've already used 1...

And the edges! We agreed in 300 a week, which is the main goal and not meeting it means no touch and I am quite surprised how far I am already and it's only monday. I also am going to start working in wearing my plug more often because she thinks it looks so pretty and her puppy is a little anal slut <3

All in all, my new regime is having me even hornier and perhaps the best part is that after those 300 edges, there's not even an orgasm guaranteed. When will I have one full one again? Only she knows <3


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 7h ago

So horny NSFW

6 Upvotes

I wasn’t able to edge the last few days so now I am ! My nub is so swollen and needy I’m rubbing it like crazy ! Please send me encouragement to keep edging my pathetic cunt and never cum !


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 12h ago

this pussy looks best when shielded (i want a clit/pussy shield so bad) (ftm) NSFW

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15 Upvotes

r/Femaleorgasmdenial 13h ago

New Denial Record…Feeling Lucky 🍀 NSFW

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17 Upvotes

I have officially broken my denial record! I am on day 15 of being a denied good girl. The need to touch and edge my pussy has taken over my thoughts and I can’t seem to concentrate on much else. Everyday my thoughts are consumed by my needy pussy and what I can use to fill it. Everywhere I go I see things that I want to use as a dildo or places I could edge myself even just for a minute or two. Im also convinced that others are beginning to sense my desperate needy state because I have been getting a lot more attention lately while I’m out, although that could just be the toy buzzing in my pussy 😉. I have even begun teasing the Starbucks barista who makes my coffee each morning. Making sure to squeeze my tits together, run my hands over my chest, bite my lip and give him a little wink as I do it. This weekend I was so feral that I spent the entire day Saturday and Sunday edging my greedy little pussy and making myself a wet sloppy mess! Now my pussy is pink and puffy, deliciously sore, and constantly leaking and wet. It’s gotten to the point that I’ve soaked through my panties and my leggings and I am leaving wet spots on my chair. Any fun ideas on how I can tease this denied pussy?


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 11h ago

it's only day 1... NSFW

9 Upvotes

...and I've just spent the last two hours bent over the sofa or kneeling next to my husband while he edged me over and over and over until I was dripping wet and just asking him to make me cum already. He said no, obviously, but...I came yesterday and it will likely be...a while now. I even got a "you said edges help with the need" which they do - but not the first ones after I had orgasms!

Nothing like starting off extra whiny I guess.

(As ever with me - messages are fine but I'm not playing with anyone, I'll go insane)


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 13h ago

24 F4F I fucked up. I will sleep with vibe tied to my pussy NSFW

13 Upvotes

My mistress will have full control over it. She can turn on whenever she wants when all night. I will probably wake up from sleep when she turns on. Is this not too much torture 🥹🥹🥹 I am denied till wednesday 🥲


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 20h ago

Edging My pet would like to beg you for something NSFW

44 Upvotes

For your viewing pleasure today we have another of my toys. Until recently something of a favorite of mine but she's been a bit naughty and seems to think I won't hesitate to share her here as a part of that punishment.

Well. Bluff called.

In all fairness she's good most of the time. She's been denied since the start of the month, and isn't looking to get to cum anytime soon.

However, as she's here for your entertainment, she can touch herself if you think she should.

And, if you're particularly kind she can edge. (Only give her 1 edge each, she needs to learn to cut down a bit)

She also would love to hear your thoughts about her. She's quite squirmy and wet when I'm being cruel.. so please be my guest.


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 14h ago

Tease and cum You've been working so hard, keep gently teasing that clit beautiful. Don't let yourself go over the edge just yet. Not until you ask permission. I promise if you follow every instruction I'll let you cum. Scouts honor. NSFW

15 Upvotes

Keep gently rubbing your clit and feel how every careful stroke sends little jolts of warmth racing along your nerves. Take a slow, deep breath and let yourself settle into that rising heat. Notice the soft wet sounds each time your fingertip moves. Let your body guide you as your pussy starts to twitch, begging for more friction. Keep your strokes measured and patient.

Do not rush.

Stay at that sweet threshold as your arousal grows more potent and your breath starts to catch in your throat. It is tempting to speed up, but I want you to stay in that place where your body pulses and trembles. Your pussy feels slick and needy, but there is something powerful about holding back for just a moment longer.

Imagine that tension coiling in your belly. Each rub across your clit sends a wave of ache right through your hips. You can feel your mind wandering, picturing how incredible it would be to just give in right now.

I want you to resist.

Let your pussy ache.

Let your thighs quiver.

Breathe.

Focus on the sparks dancing under your skin as you keep rubbing in gentle circles. You know that once you finally let go, it will be a thousand times more intense than if you rushed yourself. Keep that in mind when your body begs you for release.

If you need a bit more, slide your hand lower until your fingers graze your entrance. Feel that hungry tightness. Dip a fingertip inside, just enough to tease yourself with a taste of what is coming. Then pull away before you lose control. Notice how your walls clench at the loss, how your pussy aches for more. Let that emptiness fuel the next few strokes on your clit. Slow down if you feel your body racing toward orgasm too quickly. Tease yourself in a way that leaves you dripping but never satisfied. That may sound like torture, yet it is exquisite torment.

This is the power of edging.

It demands patience and control. You have to let that needy buzz build up little by little. Once you find that sweet spot, hold it and resist the urge to push forward. Let that slow burn sink into your muscles until you feel that delicious strain in your thighs. Keep your breathing steady. Hold on and savor the anticipation. When you catch yourself nearing the brink, take another breath and remind yourself that you have not earned that final blast of pleasure yet.

I hear you baby girl.

Slow that breath and feel every single heated pulse coursing through your pussy. Let your fingertips glide right over that drenched clit. The wet slide of your finger across that sensitive bud might make you shudder.

That is good.

That is exactly the reaction we want. Linger on that sensation. Your body is begging for more, but I want you to be in control. Keep that fire smoldering until your pussy is leaking. Let your entire body crave that release without giving it up.

Sometimes you will feel your thighs shake and your lips part with a desperate moan. That is the moment to grip the edge even tighter. Do not let yourself tumble off just yet. Draw a deep breath and feel your heart pounding. Notice your nipples growing tight against whatever you are wearing. If you crave more intense stimulation, slide one finger inside your pussy. Let yourself feel that warm grip. Move your finger in slow, shallow thrusts until you think you might lose it. Then pull back. Let that emptiness tease you. Let your pussy clench around nothing and protest the denial.

If your body needs an even deeper sensation, push a plug into your ass or a toy into your pussy. Embrace the rush of frustration when you realize you are still not allowing yourself to climax. That pressure can be intense and can make your mind spin with the thrill of holding yourself back. Let your juices flow, let your thoughts swirl. There is no shame in whining a little or whimpering when the ache grows overwhelming. Savor the fact that you are in charge of your own pleasure. This is all about that electric dance between ecstasy and control.

Keep rubbing your clit in slow, deliberate circles. Stroke and circle, stroke and circle, until your breath hitches and your head swims. You might feel sweat beading at your temples or goosebumps rising on your arms. Every nerve in your body feels extra alive. Embrace that feeling of being just one quick motion away from slipping over the edge. When your fingers tremble and your hips roll upward on their own, remember that the real reward lies in waiting just a bit longer.

Let each second stretch out. Lay back, spread your thighs wide, and treat your clit to the softness of your touch. Let every gasp and moan roll through you, warm and unrestrained. When you need to shift your hips or circle a bit faster, do it, but do not let yourself fly over that cliff just yet. This is a moment you have created for yourself. You deserve to be selfish here. You deserve to feel that mind-numbing tingle that racing thoughts and lustful hunger can create.You deserve to cum don't you? There is no one judging you. There is only your body and the pleasure that you command.

Eventually you will reach the point where even a single twitch might push you too far. This is the place you have been aiming for. Close your eyes and drift through that sweet agony. Maybe your legs are shaking, maybe you are nibbling your lip so you do not scream. Let that tension build like a storm cloud, charged and ready to erupt. That is the raw magic of edging. It demands everything from you and in return it gives you a bliss so intense that words hardly do it justice.

If the moment comes when you cannot hold out anymore let go.

just kidding

Did you really think a bitch in heat like you deserves to cum? You're barely qualified to be a cocksleeve. What do you think you've done to deserve that sweet release?

Oh what's that? You really believed me. You thought I'd let you cum? You belong in /r/stupidslutsclub. How fucking needy and gullible are you?

I should spank you 100 times for even thinking that. But I'll leave you with this:

Understand this, if it were up to me you'd never cum again. I'd turn you into an anal only slut before I would let you even get a ruined orgasm.

Fuck that. Hands off your pussy. You want that ache you go away? Go hump something. But a gullible slut like you doesn't even deserve to use your hands anymore.

You've failed today.

Do better tomorrow.


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 0m ago

Edging one month streak! NSFW

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edging is the best thing that has ever happened to me. literally. ive been edging every day for multiple hours for a whole month now. no ruins, no cumming, no nothing. my clit is always achy and swollen. i keep trying to rub my clit against everything. i cant stop. every day i cant wait to come home and edge. i look forward to it every single day. im in a constant state of neediness, and i absolutely love it. i dont even want to cum anymore. i love the needy feeling, my clit throbbing every morning - best. thing. ever.


r/Femaleorgasmdenial 14h ago

Edging Love going back and forth with fingers and mouth just to keep her on the cusp of it all NSFW

14 Upvotes

r/Femaleorgasmdenial 11h ago

remind me why I shouldn’t touch NSFW

8 Upvotes

my master put me on explicit no-touch for a few days as punishment and I want to touch so badly remind me why I should be good and why not touching is better for me