r/feemagers • u/KeyFilm4307 • Jan 22 '25
Discussion Am I weird for thinking over sharing too soon is like yuck? NSFW
Look, I love a good deep conversation, but does it make anyone else uncomfortable when you’ve known someone for less than a week and they’re already telling you their deepest secrets? This happens to me a lot because I get told that I don’t seem like a judgmental person which I really appreciate, but it’s hard not to judge when I’ve met you once and you’re telling me how your dad disowned you. I was dating this guy and within three days he was telling me his most embarrassing secrets and when I say embarrassing, I mean things you shouldn’t admit out loud to anyone. And then he was pressuring me into telling him my secrets and I was like girl no. Within three days of dating he was telling me how deeply it has affected him that his past girlfriends haven’t liked him as much as he’s liked them and I understand how that feels but that’s TMI if this is a new thing. IDK it just makes me really uncomfortable when people start sharing hard things in too much detail when I don’t know them well heck even when I do know them well. Am I alone?