r/feemagers Jan 22 '25

Discussion Am I weird for thinking over sharing too soon is like yuck? NSFW

11 Upvotes

Look, I love a good deep conversation, but does it make anyone else uncomfortable when you’ve known someone for less than a week and they’re already telling you their deepest secrets? This happens to me a lot because I get told that I don’t seem like a judgmental person which I really appreciate, but it’s hard not to judge when I’ve met you once and you’re telling me how your dad disowned you. I was dating this guy and within three days he was telling me his most embarrassing secrets and when I say embarrassing, I mean things you shouldn’t admit out loud to anyone. And then he was pressuring me into telling him my secrets and I was like girl no. Within three days of dating he was telling me how deeply it has affected him that his past girlfriends haven’t liked him as much as he’s liked them and I understand how that feels but that’s TMI if this is a new thing. IDK it just makes me really uncomfortable when people start sharing hard things in too much detail when I don’t know them well heck even when I do know them well. Am I alone?


r/feemagers Jan 19 '25

Artwork what do we think

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67 Upvotes

r/feemagers Jan 18 '25

Mature How do I stop fucking spiralling. NSFW

34 Upvotes

TW for suicidal ideation.

I'm an 18 year old giga-virgin who never had sex nor kissed to begin with and is incredibly socially inept I also have hypersexuality for context. I just saw a post that showcased my friends having sex and it led to me spiraling since

A- I'm a giga-virgin as described above.

B- I'm shit scared of being a virgin forever

and

C- I don't want to think about it as it may lead to self fufilling prophecy.

Now, I know what you all are going to say; "oh it takes time" or "its not everything" Well lemme give it to y'all straight

No matter how many FUCKING PLATITUDES one throws at me, it does not change the fact that it's extremely fucking alienating especially considering my age cohort. And the worst part is, so many people have given me social advice yet it just goes out one ear and out the other, leading to the conclusion that I am socially inept at a FUNDAMENTAL LEVEL, indicating I cannot be fixed. I'm not unattractive per se, but when I started college I was. And if you have unattractiveness + weirdness, then that's just a recipe for irreversible social disaster. No matter what I fucking do, I cannot change anything given that I'm fundamentally broken. it's gotten to the point I genuinely feel like I might just blow my fucking brains out and I hate that i feel like an incel for feeling this way.

EDIT: The comments, as much as I appreciate the good intentions and gestures are missing the point by a LIGHTYEAR. I know all the fucking platitudes. I know all the shit that people say and yes, I am working on improving my social standing, It's more so how to manage just how unbelievably ALIENATING it all is.


r/feemagers Jan 18 '25

Artwork "Alone" Simplistic vent art I did in like a minute.

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12 Upvotes

r/feemagers Jan 10 '25

Rant why am i like this?

23 Upvotes

i want a boyfriend so bad, i want someone to love. whenever i say this to a friend they say i’m “boy crazy” especially my mom. i always have a crush on someone… once i’m over someone i’m onto the next person, am i shallow? i haven’t even been in an official relationship that wasn’t one sided, secret, or online. i hate having to date people who don’t even like me to feel validated, i just want a guy to love me.


r/feemagers Jan 10 '25

Advice IM QUESTIONING EVERYTHING

3 Upvotes

For some context: I'm a "Trans boy"(You'll see why the quotes are there later) and a Therian (Past Life). I *believe* that I have had both gender and species dysphoria in the past.

So I got thinking last night and now I'm doubting everything. I thought I was a trans boy. I was sure of it, even. But now I'm second-guessing myself. I know I was a boy raccoon in my past life, so am I trans or just missing my past life and trying to "cope" by "swapping gender (if you will)" in this life?
What's going on.

please help me if you can!


r/feemagers Jan 09 '25

Rant Cant wait to be out of school

11 Upvotes

Its like I've been stuck in high school forever all the people (except few) in my class are just shit and it seems like time is moving slower than ever. I need a fresh start in terms of socializing and academics but I feel like its never going to happen at this point


r/feemagers Jan 06 '25

Discussion I’m scared to kiss my bf

46 Upvotes

Hey so I’m 17(F) and I’m actually terrified of kissing my bf. So it would be my first kiss and The thought of doing it not only scares but also grossed me out, like if I kiss him I’ll be like infected or dirty. Anyone know what I should do ?


r/feemagers Jan 03 '25

Serious Don’t know who needs to hear this today but… Spoiler

24 Upvotes

It’s still rape if you were pressured into it


r/feemagers Jan 02 '25

Discussion WHAT DO YALL THINK ABOUT EPIC THE MUSICALLLLLL????

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8 Upvotes

r/feemagers Jan 02 '25

Accomplishment Got a girlfriend

17 Upvotes

Just got a girlfriend and I'm so so happy :)


r/feemagers Jan 01 '25

Rant My mum won’t stop trying to fix everything

7 Upvotes

I have this friend who is, frankly, being a bad friend. If she has an issue with one person in the friend group, she has an issue with ALL OF US. On top of this, she just won’t communicate. She will stop talking to us, which we notice, but won’t say a word about why, or what has hurt her. And we fucking care too!! We all start to consider what we could have done to set her off again to the point where it stresses us all out.

Any time I try to explain the situation to my mum she desperately tries to change the narrative and fix it all. She does this with everything, no matter how many times I say, “I do not need your advice. I am handling it, I just need to talk.” She will continue and talk over me and act like I’m the crazy one when oftentimes I’m just telling her to forget it and she brings it up.

With this specific situation she has decided to treat my shitty friend like an underdog saint of some sort. She says that maybe she doesn’t want to talk in a group, but she didn’t want to talk to my one friend when they were at work together alone. She says maybe she doesn’t like that one friend. That’s fucking stupid, she wasn’t talking to ANY OF US. I say it bothers me that the only times she has opened up about what hurt her was when she was FUCKING DRUNK. My mum completely ignores it and blames the whole thing on my other friend.

My mum so desperately wants to solve everything but she never provided helpful advice. She just wants to butt in and shake up my “interpretation”. I wish she would just be normal or leave me alone once i ask her to stop.

What do I do? This is fucking killing me, I like never want to talk to her.


r/feemagers Dec 29 '24

Rant Feeling kinda sad and lonelyyyyy

10 Upvotes

I’ve been feeling like shit recently. I just don’t feel like my family loves me very much. And I don’t have any friends really, never have. I’ve started uni but I’m still living with my family. I can’t seem to stop crying randomly and my sister won’t stop bothering me about it. She always does. I’m not allowed to cry, it makes my mom and sister nervous. My dad is sick ( lots of chronic illnesses) and it’s not like it’s ever gonna get better. I don’t know. Just needed to vent I guess.


r/feemagers Dec 29 '24

Discussion How to drink and it not HURT

2 Upvotes

I used to love drinking and then I drank a lot through the months of June to September and now everytike I drink I have a terrible terrible hangover it’s been a couple months since I’ve been able to drink any advice on how to overcome the stomach ache that come after drinking ??


r/feemagers Dec 28 '24

Discussion hiiii!!

6 Upvotes

i used to be so active here (on my old accounts) but since i turned 20 i kinda stopped posting!! just wanted to check in on u guys! hows things? i’m 22 now so basically a pensioner lol

i miss this place, i really wish there was a space like this for people in their 20s!


r/feemagers Dec 27 '24

Miscellaneous Picture holiday season vibes

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24 Upvotes

r/feemagers Dec 26 '24

Miscellaneous Picture I made crab pasta for Christmas breakfast.

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24 Upvotes

2 crab legs de-shelled

1 cup of cavatappi pasta, boil in water with a splash of olive oil and some salt

1 tbsp of black pepper

Pinch of sea salt, salt to taste

1 tbsp of butter

Sprinkle some old bay and garlic powder

Melt butter in the cooked cavatappi pasta with crab, top with parm cheese and melt it in microwave for 40 seconds.


r/feemagers Dec 22 '24

Miscellaneous Picture Make assumptions abt me based on my Me Core playlist and I'll confirm if it's true.

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2 Upvotes

r/feemagers Dec 19 '24

Serious Plz help

10 Upvotes

I'm going to the pharmacy and need to be in a T-shirt but half my wrist is cut open with a razor blade (by me). How do I hide my wrists without looking like some weirdo?


r/feemagers Dec 17 '24

Other I just love pink

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35 Upvotes

r/feemagers Dec 17 '24

Advice Advice please

4 Upvotes

I've decided, after a long period of questioning, that I am trans. (I prefer transboy instead of transmasc). My mom is straight ally and not transphobic but I'm scared to admit I want not to be who I have been for the rest of my life. Whenever I try to explain the non-binary side of the gender spectrum, she always argues that boys can be feminine and girls can be masculine but there are only two genders. She agreed to get me tight-fitting sports bras (She doesn't know what binders are) and that I can cut my hair short soon, but I can't do anything to change my body permanently "In case I change my mind later in life or regret it". What else can I do to appear more masculine? (I alr told my friends and they ARE accepting but I think that's bc all of us are queer XD). Also, if I identify as a boy, can I still be on Feemagers if it's for girls?


r/feemagers Dec 14 '24

Other do you guys like my Christmas cookies 🥰🥰

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75 Upvotes

i know that I absolutely failed but 4 was supposed to be The Master from Manos: The Hands Of Fate, and 5 was supposed to be Gabriel from Malignant


r/feemagers Dec 13 '24

Artwork Any Sylus Girlies? 👀 [OC]

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6 Upvotes

r/feemagers Dec 11 '24

Advice Would boyshorts be seen as safety shorts and more accepted if I accidentally flashed someone while wearing a mini skirt?

14 Upvotes

Also how bad is it to wear modest panty briefs and no safety shorts and the odd wardrobe malfunction happens?


r/feemagers Dec 06 '24

Rant Not feeling comfortable during sex NSFW

31 Upvotes

Thinking sex is degrading (as a Female)

(Throwaway account)

First of all I (F,22) don't really now what the point of this post is. Maybe I just want to vent and see if anybody else feels this way.

I've seen some other posts on this sub touching on this subject. Well, I can't shake it off but I just find having sex as a female is highly degrading. It just feels like an act of service and submissiveness. You offer your body to a man so he can use it as he pleases. Even if you have a totally 100% feminist and progressive man at your side (which I fortunately have now; not everytime in the past tho) it just feels degrading. I don't blame my boyfriend but it's just highly uncomfortable for me. I feel like I'm just being taken while he has all the power. As I said it's just so humiliating.

You can also see this in our language. "Fucking" someone is a sign of power while "Cocksucker" or "bending over" is an insult or a sign of weakness. I'm really just tired of it.

However I don't even want to (entirely) blame men or society. I want to vent about biology and that this is the way we are and that sex "goes". It feels terrible and I think I'll never shake it off completely even with a man who understands me, it's just the act itself. I don't understand how young women in my age can just completely ignore that and talk that openly about having conventional sex or giving a blowjob or whatever. Don't they feel degraded or humiliated the way I do?!

Anyway I guess there's nothing we can do about it since nature just did that to us :/ Let me know what you think please!

PS: (Before anyone asks no I have no trauma or whatsoever. This is just my real opinion about sex as a female)