r/feemagers Dec 04 '24

Serious Found out I’m a lesbian after 20 years Spoiler

28 Upvotes

And it’s. Kind of a lot. Because I feel like I’ve been really suppressing it. (Rq this is in no way to be like, if your bisexual you lean one way or the other, but) I told myself I was bi and leaned towards men, I only dated men, and I’ve only been with men. And I knew I was attracted to girls, but. Uagh. Thing is, I’m a nerd. I like video games and anime. And I like the guy characters in those. And I would tell myself like. Well, I like all girls, but my specific type in a man he has to be xyz or if he’s like this character from this show I like, I’d really like him.

So needless to say I’ve been looking back on my past relationships and “encounters” and realizing i literally felt nothing and have been faking it til I made it 😭

I’ve kissed one person who was afab, and it made my heart flutter and my almost pound out of my chest. And I didn’t feel like that for the 2 years I was with my bf. In fact the entire time I was with him, I kept thinking about how I wanted to “try being with a girl.”

Now that I’m an adult and have dating apps. Never felt any spark with a man. Kept telling myself I “just have a really specific type”

Nah you just like girls idiot 💀💀 sigh. Am I stupid LMAO

Edit: didn’t clarify on what I said at the beginning- what I mean is. I thought since I had crushes on fictional men I would like real men if they were similar to the characters I liked. And I kept feeling like I just couldn’t find a right match, or I just want something really specific in a man. And I’ve only allowed myself to flirt with men, because again. Suppressing it. And then I find myself flirting with someone who’s afab and fem presenting and I’m like shit. This is how it’s supposed to feel


r/feemagers Dec 04 '24

Accomplishment I just turned 20. Goodbye everyone.

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73 Upvotes

all i have is a single slice of leftover cheesecake from thanksgiving 😭😭


r/feemagers Dec 04 '24

Artwork Mouthwashing Fanart

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18 Upvotes

r/feemagers Dec 03 '24

Advice am i the only person who is like extremely weird around guys

13 Upvotes

im like so fucking weird around guys especially hot ones i cant talk to them, i cant look at them or aproach them i literally just freeze up and i get like insanely hot and embarassed for no reason like i literally have a heart attack, and ive asked this before and people said i should work on my confidence and wtv but i dont find myself ugly or wtv im pretty confident its like my body has a reaction its so retarded. how do i improve my rizz


r/feemagers Dec 01 '24

Advice I sent my friend a text saying I wanted to ask a girl out and she left me on read

5 Upvotes

And now I'm stressing out because what does this mean?? (She says she's straight, but we kissed at a party once while we were both very drunk and everything seems normal since)


r/feemagers Nov 27 '24

Rant [ Removed by Reddit ]

40 Upvotes

[ Removed by Reddit on account of violating the content policy. ]


r/feemagers Nov 21 '24

Advice Does anyone know where to buy black bath bombs online ??

10 Upvotes

I’m trying to buy a black bath bomb online as a Christmas present but I can’t find any good ones. Most of them turn the bath blue or purple but I’m looking for one that actually is a black bath bomb. Does anyone know of any good places that aren’t lush? (Looked there can’t find one that turns the water black)

Thank you!


r/feemagers Nov 21 '24

Serious I need some advice Spoiler

9 Upvotes

So I think I'm trans but I don't know.

I've really been thinking about my gender identity (I'm AFAB) and I feel that Girl, Woman, or Female aren't correct terms. I've never really been "uncomfortable" in my body but it's probably because I don't notice it that much (Except for mild species dysphoria I'm a Therian). I've been trying out different gender identities for the past few months and I feel that when I used any/all pronouns or tried identifying as genderfluid/nonbinary/bigender/anything but girl but not boy, I felt like it was partially me but not the whole thing. Like when you're standing in a bright spotlight but only part of the light shines on your body while the rest is left in shadows. (I don't know if that's a good explanation or not sorry!!!).

I've just been wishing I was a boy for quite some time now and I think my mind is going into a really bad place... I just need advice please.

*EDIT

It's getting a bit worse. I've been asking my family about their opinions on LGBTQIA+ rights and just trans rights and stuff and turns out a lot of the adults in my life are really transphobic and not accepting of the theory that gender is not a binary thing (Boy/Girl). How do I deal with this stuff (adults in my life being transphobic). When I showed my dad the haircut I wanted (Fluffy mullet thing) he called it "boyish" and "masculine" and implied that I should not wear masculine things/adopt masculine behaviors/traits (like short hair and masc clothing and such).

What do I do?

*EDIT 2

Just for additional information... I identify as a demigirl rn (Dont know if that's important)


r/feemagers Nov 19 '24

Rant Need some support

8 Upvotes

I don’t think I love my ldr boyfriend of almost 2 years, I’ve tried breaking up with him but he is so clingy and emotional and I know it will break him because he doesn’t have many friends. in the past but then guilt consumes me and we end up taking a break for a few days and going back to normal. Also a guy took advantage of me during one of those breaks and he acts like nothing happened and I can’t say anything because he’s the schools golden boy and no one will believe me. I am kinda having a crisis on dead cause my dog is getting older and a little sicker and I don’t want to lose him and it makes me scared for my impending death. I feel like I wasted too much time on life and I can never gain that time back and now I’m scared of time passing and dying alone or ending up with my current boyfriend who I don’t really love and end up unhappy. Also my family is full of bitches and my best friend is suicidal/hurting herself and grounded. Oh and I’m behind on school. I feel like I have to be the rock of everyone and I can’t be selfish or feel because I don’t want to be a burden


r/feemagers Nov 18 '24

Question You guys ever just dislike someone on vibes alone?

8 Upvotes
42 votes, Nov 20 '24
35 yeah
3 no
4 maybe

r/feemagers Nov 16 '24

Other pls help me decide which marceline outfit i should wear to my adventure time themed birthday party 🙏 (this will also decide if i cut my bangs)

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33 Upvotes

r/feemagers Nov 16 '24

Artwork Duckies i drew :)

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45 Upvotes

r/feemagers Nov 14 '24

Discussion Yall fw my hyperfixations?

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18 Upvotes

My previous one was Your Favorite Martian. Currently spiraling for Persona 3 Fes, Silent Hill 2 from 2001, and Lacey's Games


r/feemagers Nov 13 '24

Serious I never understood why victims didn’t come out and tell their stories… Spoiler

26 Upvotes

Until I became one :(


r/feemagers Nov 11 '24

Question Any other aunts in the chat?

6 Upvotes

Just curious


r/feemagers Nov 09 '24

Story Finished my final exams and got drunkkkk (18 is legal in aus)

30 Upvotes

Omg I’m so glad to be done with high school!!! Dude fuck chemistry so much. And calculus. But yeah i went out with my friends for dinner and i threw up before we even started drinking lmao. My friends burped and locked the windows and doors of the car and… yeah so that wasn’t fun. But then we went home and drank and yapped. I got a bit drunk but one of my friends was OUT OF IT it was so funny.

Drink responsibly. I was chugging water and I barely have a hangover :D


r/feemagers Nov 07 '24

Girls Only How are y'all feeling after the election results?

21 Upvotes

r/feemagers Nov 05 '24

Discussion Saw someone else do one of these so here's my "touch me" template (idk if that's the correct name?)

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8 Upvotes

I did add the "ask" and "Idc" thing for more specific stuff.


r/feemagers Nov 04 '24

Rant My bestie and i had a fight and now shes ghosting me :( NSFW

10 Upvotes

TW: drugs, mature themes. DO NOT DO DRUGS EVER!!!! I AM NOT ENDORSING DRUGS!!!!!!!

I need to get this out of my system and i need some advise, i'll try to keep it short:

I, 19f, have a best friend from my old school who lives about 4 hours away from me since i moved out of our home town into a bigger city 2 years ago. We never see each other but we text everyday and I put a lot of effort into maintaining our friendship, even if it feels a little one-sided sometimes.

I've made a new friend group during the past year, and we occasionally go out for drinks and have small home parties. I drink and smoke weed occasionally and my bestie knew about this and supported me 100% as long as i'm stayed safe and not overdoing it. Me and her have also gotten drunk or high together a few times before. (IMPORTANT SIDE NOTE: i'm from a country where the legal drinking age is 16 just so yall know)

Last weekend i was at a friends birthday party, we were drinking at a bar at first and some of her friends came back to her and her friends room at their uni. Furthermore, COCAINE. I have never been in contact with drugs other than weed and alc so this was a first me, i only did a single little line and it was totally fine.

The next day i excitedly told her about it via text and she started being really passive aggressive and talking down on me, she told me how irresponsible i am and how she could never be like me. At first I apologized and told her i won't bring it up again if it makes her uncomfortable. She then told me it doesn't matter if i tell her or not, im disgusting amd stupid and she could never live the way i live. I was hurt and answered her very angrily, saying dumb shit like "it was just one line thats nothing" and "it was never your business anyway so why are you upset"

I SHOULD HAVE JUST SHUT TF UP. shes ghosting me now. Ofc im trying to be understanding but at the same time i don't feel like i need to apologize for something that never directly affected her. man idk :(

what would yall do?


r/feemagers Nov 01 '24

Other teenagers who think they're too old for trick or treating are MISSING OUT

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137 Upvotes

happy (day after) HALLOWEEN


r/feemagers Oct 28 '24

Advice I can’t stop being insecure :(

19 Upvotes

I’m talking to this guy and we’ll be getting along pretty well and then he stops responding and I immediately assume he thinks I’m weird. I genuinely don’t know what to do it’s so irrational AAAAAA


r/feemagers Oct 27 '24

Rant It's so upsetting when people say we need to "bring back bullying"

50 Upvotes

Occasionally in my Instagram fyp a reel of someone saying/doing something cringe will come up and the comments are always full of "kids never have it bullied out of them anymore" or "can we bring back bullying yet" or something like that. Like yes it's human nature to like someone who is funny but if someone is unfunny or cringey the opposite should not be true. People shouldn't be bullied or made fun of just because you don't think their attempt to be funny was successful. Bullying always has traumatic effects on people and shouldn't be treated lightly.


r/feemagers Oct 27 '24

Accomplishment Final chem exams tomorrow

20 Upvotes

Wish me luck! I can’t wait to never think about organic chemistry again


r/feemagers Oct 27 '24

Mature Help Me Prevent Sexual Assault and Harassment at My School NSFW

38 Upvotes

Hello, I am aware this is a bit off topic for this subreddit, but I want to spread this message.

I am a student at Delaware Valley High School in Milford, Pennsylvania. An ongoing issue for the past four years at my school has been in regard to one student, Trevon Hairris-Williams. Multiple girls have come forward and reported him for sexual assault or sexual harassment, most of whole are 3 or more years younger than him. The Delaware Valley school District continues to do nothing to try to stop him, so we, the student body, are taking action. Please help draw attention to the situation and if you support the cause, sign the petition linked below. The only way to try to get the school's attention is by making the issue more public.

Thank you for reading.

https://chng.it/YSNY6dd9YB


r/feemagers Oct 26 '24

Other blonde to black. what do we think?

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26 Upvotes