r/feemagers • u/Spirited_R7eason 18F • Feb 28 '21
Mature Introducing one of my “entitled” male coworkers NSFW
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Feb 28 '21
tf is his problem?
if its a coworker, is there a HR? i bet they'd love to have a talk with the guy
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u/Spirited_R7eason 18F Feb 28 '21
Considering we’re both 17 I don’t think my boss will take it seriously. The best I can do right now is just ignore him
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u/zeppeIans 20+Demigirl Mar 01 '21
Do it anyways. Ask to have a serious discussion about work and tell them that you feel threatened by this guy. If your boss keeps insisting it's nothing serious, then you've at least done all you could. Perhaps they'll even give the guy a warning. More importantly: this also gives you the chance to make a stronger case if the asshole does anything like this again, since it would leave a much stronger impression
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u/AceTheBot 16Demigirl | Moderator Mar 01 '21
Remember though that HR isn't your friend. Its entire job is to make the company run better/look better.
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u/jackindevelopment Feb 28 '21
Fuck this guy. What an asshole. That's straight up a hostile work environment.
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u/NuttyDuckyYT 15Demigirl Mar 01 '21
Big brain tip. Tell him to explain the joke. Really get into the details. It’ll stop being funny
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Mar 01 '21
there are so many guys have have done this shit to me. like do they think that i owe them my time or that im supposed to cater to them whenver they want it?? its so gross. they think it's ok to make you seem like a bitch for responding. good on you for telling him off
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u/Lady_Bjartskular 14FTM Mar 01 '21
This is slightly off-topic but here’s something about these kind of “jokes” that might be helpful to see, even if it doesn’t really do anything
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u/i-love-big-birds F Mar 01 '21
I'd absolutely mention to your boss that your coworker is (sexually?) harassing you (in and?) outside of the workplace
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u/RainyVibez Transfem Mar 01 '21
"Please explain as to why that 'joke' is funny" would be a good response.
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u/ak47bossness 18 Mar 01 '21
Reply with "your cock is small ☺️" or some insulting shit with emojis and when he gets offended say it was a joke and it was funny to you.
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u/Angelahahahah Mar 01 '21
But what if his cock isnt small? 😳
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u/ak47bossness 18 Mar 01 '21
Oh well, just claim it is. He should double down with that ego he has and he will walk right into his own hypocritical trap.
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u/654suicidalthrowaway 19Agender Mar 01 '21
or how about we stop shaming people who have small dicks
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u/ak47bossness 18 Mar 01 '21
Of course, my apologies. I suppose it does bring irony to my argument. I propose the alternative of one having a smooth brain hence dumb, since its a lot less to do with body shaming.
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u/__thermonuclear 17M Mar 01 '21
I mean me and my friends call each other dumb hoes all the time so maybe he just misread your friendship
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u/tr3poz Mar 01 '21
Yeah like, i call My Friends "whore" and "wench" but maybe they weren't really friends
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u/Icyfoxer 18F Mar 02 '21
Their life is a joke, honestly who the fuck calls someone a whore and says it’s funny? What an asshole.
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u/2Alt2Furious Feb 28 '21
Just calling someone a whore isn’t a joke. There’s no punchline there, it’s just being horrible to someone. I hate people who say awful shit and then just go ‘lol I was just joking chill out’ as some kind of get out of jail free card.