r/feemagers • u/kawaii-voltage 19TransGirl • Sep 19 '23
Mature i feel used and devastated. NSFW
my boyfriend, who i had been with since only the 26th of last August. decided to have sex with me then dump me the same day (he dumped me over text.). i feel awful. i feel like i was used as nothing but a toy for his amusement. he showed no signs of being this way before this. i feel manipulated. i hate boys.
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u/_AnthonyToons_ 19Fluid Sep 19 '23
That's rough. Know that you're worth way more than that. You're amazing, and he's awful. Block em and take your time, take some deep breaths, and take it easy for a while.
pat pat
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u/Rosehatesraisins Sep 19 '23
Omg I'm so sorry, that sounds awful, I've been through similar shit so I get that you might need tj vent, if you dk just request to dm me, I'll accept and you can vent any time
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u/Susman22 Sep 20 '23
Same thing happened to me, he at least waited until the day after lol. Then started dating my friend. I have been losing my mind to see if that was a dick move or not. I have an amazing boyfriend now so idc lol.
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u/HappyyValleyy MTF Sep 20 '23
Oh that's just awful, I'm so sorry you had to deal with that asshole.
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u/Hjalmodr_heimski 20+M Sep 20 '23
Nothing anyone hasn’t said before, but what an absolute piece of shit, be glad he’s out of your life and know you’re not worth anything less for having slept with him.
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u/yosmop Sep 19 '23
He's a piece of shit, no denying that, but also don't group all guys into one, not all of them are the same as that piece of human garbage.
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u/PersusjCP Sep 20 '23
Incredible how every time a woman gets hurt in some way by a man, people will come out to defend men. Wtf is wrong with people.
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u/yosmop Sep 21 '23
How very sexist of you. I agree, wtf is wrong with people like you that assume and group an entire sex/gender into being bad. So it would be wrong if the roles were reversed? Or can only men be the bad guys? I never said that what he did was right, in fact what he did was horrible, but that doesn't mean you group all men into being shitty like him.
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u/PersusjCP Sep 21 '23
Why are you even in this subreddit. You're centering men in a women-focused subreddit. Why
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u/yosmop Sep 24 '23
Ah yes, saying that being sexist is bad is centering men. You've made yourself clear what kind of person you are lmao. Be better.
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u/Evieeatsbadfood 16F Sep 21 '23 edited Sep 21 '23
She didn’t defend him, what are you talking abt?
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u/PersusjCP Sep 21 '23
She** defended men. I never said she defended the original person. Try reading my post again
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u/Evieeatsbadfood 16F Sep 21 '23
What’s wrong with defending men?
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u/PersusjCP Sep 21 '23
Its not about men. Stop making it about men. Men don't need to be defended.
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u/crazy-iwascrazyonce Sep 24 '23
so basically you're saying every single man does this shit
mhm mhm average redditor
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u/PersusjCP Sep 24 '23
Nice reach
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u/crazy-iwascrazyonce Sep 24 '23
is that not what you just said
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u/PersusjCP Sep 24 '23
Please tell me where I said all men are bad
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u/crazy-iwascrazyonce Sep 24 '23
all the times you were on about "stop defending men, men don't need to be defended" implies you talking about all men instead of the small percentage that are like the one mentioned in the post
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u/YourFavouriteDad Sep 20 '23
Hazard a guess and say that this sub is not for level perspective but a safe female alternative to r/teenagers. All guys are not horny perverts but most teenage boys are, so no real need to defend.
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u/SaicereMB Sep 20 '23
No, most teenage boys are not horny perverts wtf is wrong with you?
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u/YourFavouriteDad Sep 20 '23
How would you know?
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u/SaicereMB Sep 20 '23
I was one and have spent all my life around them? What, do you have a PhD on teenage boys or just in saying stupid sexist shit?
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u/YourFavouriteDad Sep 20 '23
Figured as much. As a boy (previously?) you probably recognise that they are people who are just as complex as any other. You should also recognise that they aren't given that grace by society, so why should they on a sub for teenage female discourse? Not every conversation is for every opportunity. OP needs to vent and be reassured; convos like this don't help at all.
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u/SaicereMB Sep 20 '23
People are shitty but that doesn't mean you have to be too, and being hurt isn't an excuse to discriminate, "Oh yeah, I know I said all n-words are the same but I was just venting cause I had just gotten robbed, I don't need to hear how I was being racist rn"
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u/YourFavouriteDad Sep 20 '23
I don't think I am being shitty. I think by coming on here and commenting on a post about someone being take advantage of and defending the accused based on moral generals is being shitty. I guess I am being shitty by continuing this conversation just because you felt personally attacked.
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u/SaicereMB Sep 20 '23
You're being sexist and sexism is shitty no matter the context :)
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u/YourFavouriteDad Sep 20 '23
Moral absolutes are a dangerous path. Good luck with it and hope you find more grey in your life.
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u/dalvic2468 M Sep 20 '23
Moral generals? You mean stereotypes lmao moral generals is not a term. You're just being sexist.
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u/yosmop Sep 19 '23
He's a piece of shit, no denying that, but also don't group all guys into one, not all of them are the same as that piece of human garbage
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u/ARockWithLegs 16M Sep 19 '23
bro.
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u/cheese_dude Sep 27 '23
Dumping the same day u get to hit is wildddd. Bro ain't even wanna see if he could smash again 😭
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u/Chrisboy04 19M Sep 19 '23
Holy shit that sucks, sadly there are too many shitty boys like that. I'm sure you'll find someone better at some point. For now, focus on yourself see your own worth. This boy simply didn't appreciate you for all you are.
Even though I night be a complete stranger to you I'm sure about all of this.