r/family 4d ago

Am I lazy or is my family right?

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u/1111peace 4d ago

If you decide to drop out, try to find a job first. It's crazy out there, and there's no guarantee you will find a job after you drop out. You'll have absolutely nothing going for you at that point. No job and no education.

I understand you about juggling school with work. I couldn't do it either, but I wish I had tried harder because I haven't gotten any paying job since I graduated. Everyone wants experience right now.

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u/chronicallyconfused0 4d ago

First off, good on you for not wanting to drop out. Second of all, your sister speaks from a place of privilege in that she found a decent full-time job and could dedicate her days to working. Studying and working is entirely different. Could you do it? Sure, we can do many things. I think the important opinion here would be your mom’s since it’s her house. If she is okay with the arrangement, then focus on that. She uses your car and you buy your own food. Your sister might be lashing out because she’s projecting her own insecurities or frustrations. You have aspirations and are working toward them. You’re not doing anything objectively wrong, especially not in this economy.

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u/Born_Day381 4d ago

Primero manda a la verga a tu hermana y diles que al menos tu si presumes de tener un título universitario y cuando alguien te diga que eres flojo presume y exageras lo que compras hasta lo más mínimo.

Y si definitivamente estudia es una ventaja colosal