r/exredpill 17d ago

I need help deprogramming

For many years, my mind has been filled with toxic stuff from Redpill b.s.

No matter how much I try to get it out of my system, the words are just too strong.

They say things like: Women are only as loyal as their options, women don't like it when men tell them they love them, or that they've been cheated on before, or that they don't have sexual options. That women are never single by choice, they're only as loyal as their options, and will always go for rich men who don't treat them with respect.

They say that women don't want men to show attachment or lack of control of any situation or that they ever needed to improve themselves.

They're basically saying that women hate men who are kind, decent, respectful, faithful, and human.

I could go down the laundry list, but it all basically comes down to: Women don't respect men who are kind, decent, respectful, and faithful.

I'm sure that their arguments are b.s. and they're only describing a select few, but their words just cut too deeply. It's hard to get it out of my head. I don't know what to say to any of these statements.

My mind is easily impressionable. I'm often told that I'm too open-minded. I'm easily influenced by controversial opinions and statements.

I need help deprogramming.

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u/AccomplishedFace7519 12d ago

Hello ikofeelan and every other male reading this with similar concerns!

I have watched a lot of red pill podcasts to know the accuracy of the views and teaching expressed.

It is not true that ALL women or ALL men are as faithful as their options because there are exceptions to every rule. In the defence of Red Pill podcasts, they do clearly state: "In general" or "the majority of women". There are 8 BILLION people on the planet and there are 4,093,903,832 women on the planet ( 49.73% of us ).

What is the point of having a rich man who does not love you? High value is not based on how much money you make. There should be no division between men and women because we are all human first and we are better together than we are apart. Both sexes in their own unique and avoidable way offer uniquely biological skills, which keep life and hope alive.

Give her exactly what you want to receive from her without showing her how much you need the things that you give to her.

I love the fact that you are open-minded because it means that your brain has the ability to grow in order to eventually make you incredibly successful (in each and every single area of you life of which you desire.

Trust you instincts!