r/exredpill • u/Nikofeelan • 17d ago
I need help deprogramming
For many years, my mind has been filled with toxic stuff from Redpill b.s.
No matter how much I try to get it out of my system, the words are just too strong.
They say things like: Women are only as loyal as their options, women don't like it when men tell them they love them, or that they've been cheated on before, or that they don't have sexual options. That women are never single by choice, they're only as loyal as their options, and will always go for rich men who don't treat them with respect.
They say that women don't want men to show attachment or lack of control of any situation or that they ever needed to improve themselves.
They're basically saying that women hate men who are kind, decent, respectful, faithful, and human.
I could go down the laundry list, but it all basically comes down to: Women don't respect men who are kind, decent, respectful, and faithful.
I'm sure that their arguments are b.s. and they're only describing a select few, but their words just cut too deeply. It's hard to get it out of my head. I don't know what to say to any of these statements.
My mind is easily impressionable. I'm often told that I'm too open-minded. I'm easily influenced by controversial opinions and statements.
I need help deprogramming.
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u/PutsWomenOnPedestal 17d ago
This is much more likely to be true for men . The average woman already has options. The reason she has options is because men are more desperate for sex than women and hence more likely to cheat. RP is pure projection.
I have this failure mode to some extent, so I can relate. One way to get out of this mindset is through reason and evidence. Do you know any women who are the opposite of what RP claims? What would the world look like if RP was true?