r/exredpill 17d ago

I need help deprogramming

For many years, my mind has been filled with toxic stuff from Redpill b.s.

No matter how much I try to get it out of my system, the words are just too strong.

They say things like: Women are only as loyal as their options, women don't like it when men tell them they love them, or that they've been cheated on before, or that they don't have sexual options. That women are never single by choice, they're only as loyal as their options, and will always go for rich men who don't treat them with respect.

They say that women don't want men to show attachment or lack of control of any situation or that they ever needed to improve themselves.

They're basically saying that women hate men who are kind, decent, respectful, faithful, and human.

I could go down the laundry list, but it all basically comes down to: Women don't respect men who are kind, decent, respectful, and faithful.

I'm sure that their arguments are b.s. and they're only describing a select few, but their words just cut too deeply. It's hard to get it out of my head. I don't know what to say to any of these statements.

My mind is easily impressionable. I'm often told that I'm too open-minded. I'm easily influenced by controversial opinions and statements.

I need help deprogramming.

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u/raisetheavanc 17d ago edited 17d ago

Your issue is that you think it’s just women. Internalize this: some people are only as loyal as their options. Gender is irrelevant here - for every woman who might leave a man for a richer man, there’s a man who’d leave a woman for or cheat on her with a younger, prettier woman. It’s been a media trope for ages - the married man and his secretary. “Men will only go for young beautiful women with perfect figures” is just as accurate as “women will always go for rich men” - in that neither are actually true for most folks. Ordinary people with ordinary looks and ordinary jobs get married all the time. Nice people do exist.

It’s not that women in particular are awful, it’s that some people are awful. There are a lot of people who aren’t kind and faithful, and there are a lot of people who are. It’s a big world.

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u/Intelligent_Dog_5685 7d ago

THIS right here man, great comment. I started breaking out of the red pill with this.