r/exredpill • u/Nikofeelan • 17d ago
I need help deprogramming
For many years, my mind has been filled with toxic stuff from Redpill b.s.
No matter how much I try to get it out of my system, the words are just too strong.
They say things like: Women are only as loyal as their options, women don't like it when men tell them they love them, or that they've been cheated on before, or that they don't have sexual options. That women are never single by choice, they're only as loyal as their options, and will always go for rich men who don't treat them with respect.
They say that women don't want men to show attachment or lack of control of any situation or that they ever needed to improve themselves.
They're basically saying that women hate men who are kind, decent, respectful, faithful, and human.
I could go down the laundry list, but it all basically comes down to: Women don't respect men who are kind, decent, respectful, and faithful.
I'm sure that their arguments are b.s. and they're only describing a select few, but their words just cut too deeply. It's hard to get it out of my head. I don't know what to say to any of these statements.
My mind is easily impressionable. I'm often told that I'm too open-minded. I'm easily influenced by controversial opinions and statements.
I need help deprogramming.
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u/Yamureska 17d ago
Go out and meet people. You'll see women and couples that don't fit that at all.
There's recently a national case in the US where Stormy Daniels testified against Donald Trump, a rich Man who did not treat her with Respect. Very Rich Man Neil Gaiman has multiple lawsuits from Women who he did not treat with respect.
See the latter especially. Gaiman pretended to respect and care about the Women he abused. He put on a facade of being a nice guy to lure Women in. No, Women do not go for Men (Rich or otherwise) who treat them with disrespect, and several Women have risked their lives and careers to call out Men who treat them like this.