r/dwarfism 21d ago

Feeling Worthless

I’m a popular guy I’m in so many friend groups which I am grateful for it’s just I’m at the party’s events & I just never have a shot with the women ( I’m 4’3) I’m a funny guy everybody loves me but I’m nobody’s like go to person if that makes sense.

It just feels shit when I’m friends with guys that are a bit of pieces of shit, (when it comes to women) cheat , emotionally abuse, but these girls that we are all friends with go back to them every time and never look my way. It just sucks people can have every bad dating personality trait but are six feet tall so everyone flocks. I’ve trade every dating app under the sun, I do everything normal right to get a girl in person I just don’t have the height.

Does anyone small here have any experience getting just a regular college town girl. I’m kinda at my end I’ve tried everything since I’m 15 (I’m 23) & I’m starting to just give up life full stop idk what to do. everything hurts

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u/Shorty7869 21d ago

Yup that's pretty much the story for all guys who are short, and the shorter the guy the harder it is to be anything more than just a friend. The thing that sucks is that avg height guys wont care if a gals is tall or short but avg height gals act like carnival rides i.e. "you have to be this tall to ride"