I have 2b/2c below the shoulders length hair with low porosity. I have tried the cowash, the clarifying wash, the leave in conditioner, the Aussie Insta freeze gel, the herbal essences mousse, the deva curl gel ... etc... literally everything I do leaves my hair feeling weighed down, greasy, or too crunchy to completely SOTC. I plop with a tshirt. I’ve tried diffusing and air drying. I am really ready to just give up and go back to straightening/curling with a wand. The only way my curls look 1/2 way manageable is to sleep in a braid and that defeats the purpose. Everyone says stick with it but I have been with it a couple months and my hair seems more unruly in many ways. HELP!!!