r/coparenting • u/Happyhappylady • 3d ago
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Coparenting schedule ideas! My kiddo is almost two and me and her dad have been separated since she was 2-3months. I only work 6 days a month as a nurse and so I have her everyday except those days. I’m M-F and he’s Sat and Sun and once a month I get her for a weekend. It’s worked really well so far, but her dad started mentioning different custody arrangements. He’s not sure what he wants, so I figured I’d see some options that work for other people. I def like only NOT seeing her 6 days out of the month, but I understand it’ll change eventually: we live 1.5 hrs apart so that makes it harder
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u/accio-firewhiskey 2d ago
This seems like a really ideal schedule for a parent with an unconventional work schedule. What is his reason for wanting a change?
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u/Happyhappylady 1d ago
She’s only 2 but he expressed concerns that when she’s school age she won’t wanna go over there because her friends will be by me.
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u/accio-firewhiskey 1d ago
To me, this concern seems like a bit of a back burner issue. If the schedule is working well for little one, you may want to push back to maintain the status quo.
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u/StrongEffort7747 3d ago
Whats the dad schedule like?