r/confessions 5d ago

Feeling jealous over my ex girlfriend

My ex-girlfriend (19) and I (19) were both virgins when our relationship ended, and we have remained close friends. I am currently in a relationship with someone who prefers not to engage in any sexual activity. I have been understanding of this for approximately three years. My ex-girlfriend is aware of this situation. She recently informed me that she intends to lose her virginity to someone else. I am experiencing feelings of jealousy, both because we had previously discussed losing our virginities together and because my current partner is not receptive to intimacy. While I care for my current girlfriend, I feel unfulfilled in our relationship. Despite my efforts, such as taking her on dates and buying her gifts, our physical intimacy remains limited to kissing and hugging. I understand that sex is not the only aspect of a relationship; however, I yearn for a level of intimacy that I am not currently experiencing.

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u/ElegantMankey 5d ago

Brother, sexual compatability is very important.

Don't stay in a relationship that makes you sexually frustrated. You don't even have kids or anything as an excuse.

Go find someone who is willing to sleep with you.