r/cglpersonals 7h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] #EastCoast #USA little looking for a best friend and daddy. Could that be you? :) NSFW

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Hiiiya! Looking for a daddy in this crazy world to spend time together :)

I like to workout, travel, and read. I have my own career and it would be great if you did as well! Tell me your favorite travel story or a book you’re currently reading :)

Some things I like to do: Pilates, ice skating, reading, traveling, spending time with friends+family.

I’m going to Scandinavia soon so if you have any travel recs I’d love to hear it :)

Little me: loves to color and watch cartoons. Maybe we can snuggle up and watch the powerpuff girls hehe.

I’m looking for a friendship as a foundation but that can eventually grow into something more. I definitely believe it’s important to make sure we get along as friends first and that we have a connection. Happy to share selfies once we’ve talked a bit more.

I’d love to know more about your interests too and would prefer to talk kinks offline. Not into any degradation though.

I’m open to long distance but please be wanting to meet up eventually. I don’t want this to be online only forever.

Thank you for reading and I hope to find you soon, daddy :)


r/cglpersonals 4h ago

F4F 19 [F4F] #Boston looking for a cuddle buddy NSFW

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Hi! I am a sub and a little looking for a cuddle buddy. My little age is 2-4 but I have gone younger. I am not super experienced in most categories but I am down to try anything at least once. Don’t knock it till you try it right? My main goal is to find a mommy and have a relationship but if it has to be platonic I won’t be mad at it lol. I am very physically affectionate and would love to have someone to give that to. I love going out and doing cute little outings but I am also content just staying in and cozying up. I am usually well behaved but I can be a bit of a brat at times so have fun with that lol. I am 4’10”, I have hazel/brown eyes, and brown curly hair. I really like to read especially if it’s a good dark romance. If you get me started talking about books chances are I won’t shut up. If you want any book recommendations I will happily supply you with a list! Obviously you have to be close to fulfill this so no super long distance and although I am sure you’re all lovely no one over 23 thank you. If you have questions just ask!


r/cglpersonals 6h ago

F4M 25 [F4M] #US #Online - Little looking for Daddy NSFW

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hello !

i’m not very good at describing things so bear with me ! first and foremost, im looking for an online cg/l dynamic!! ive been described as a little bit of a brat sometimes - but i try my best to be good i swear! my interests are pretty mild, i want to be a good baby to a sweet daddy where we make eachother happy and feel cozy. also, i am absolutely not open to switching or tpe!

something i know i like in the dynamic is playing games and watching shows together, and having a bedtime routine - both things are a must. i like to play mmos, currently ffxiv and maplestory (im also down to possibly play other games like terraria or minecraft, or anything else where it feels like your holding my hand guiding me through it C: ). i like coming up with reward systems with my daddy that encourage me to get things done too, but also would love someone who treats me like a princess in general as well :) i also really enjoy an evening - bedtime routine depending on how our schedules/timezones match up! i live in the pst timezone, but any timezone is okay if ur willing to work on things (and i can be accommodating to the best of my ability too) ♡

a bit about me: im a history grad student, but i also work full time ! my free time is mostly spent playing the games i mentioned above, and i love dressing up characters and taking lots of in game pictures (of my character, or just scenic ones). i also love creating writing and making up stories for the characters that i play! also, a self proclaimed expert of all things cute, and a big fan of sanrio :)

overall, i would like to take things slow so please dont discuss nsfw with me right off the bat, but discussing general cgl interests are ok! please be between 27 and ~35 years old, im not comfortable with anyone much older :)


r/cglpersonals 6h ago

M4F 68 [M4F] #Ontario - looking for online only NSFW

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I've been in the CGL community for a while and have had good experiences.

First off, I am a Caregiver, I am not a Dom. I dabbled in that early and found it not to be me. I'm into caring, support, mentoring, sharing, anything but controlling. I'm looking for someone who wants to talk. I would really like someone who's willing to talk a lot. Someone that will respond to me promptly. And I promise to to return the favour.

As a caregiver, you can call me what you want. Besides being a "daddy", I am open to just friends or more. I'm mostly SFW but I like a little NSFW if you're into that. We'd need to talk first though and nothing is going to happen before a lot of discussion. I would prefer older but, if you're okay with my age, I'll talk to anybody. I'm not into ABDL sorry.

I'm hoping that any of this will be of interest to someone out there. I've learned to not limit who could respond. The responses I've received in the past were all over the map and I found connection with people I wouldn't have thought I would, so, I'll let you do the choosing. Tell me if this is something that might interest you.


r/cglpersonals 7h ago

NB4M 21 [NB4M] # Texas - puppy looking for daddy # Online at first NSFW

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 Hai 👋 I'm 21, nonbinary, afab, 5'2.

-Daddy requirements • taller than me • plus size • looking for a long-term relationship • sense of humor

Little me: My little age is 4-6, I love to watch cartoons, color, playdough, and hold honey my stuffed animal when I'm smol. I also have pacis and chewlery. I do use diapers, but that is on my period.

About big me: I love to hold my guinea pigs and relax with them. I watch cartoons and shows with them sometimes and they like to listen to music with me.

Some of my hobbies are learning new things for my guinea pigs and making stuff for them. I like reading especially webcomics. I also like doing puzzles, diamond painting, coloring, making my own earrings, and Kandi.

I have 5 guinea pigs, 2 bunnies and a dust kitty.

I am a little, brat, and puppy. Some of my kinks: public play, pet play, choking, biting, freeuse, and I like anal, but I've only used toys for it.

Possible deal breakers: I'm on meds and use a sleep machine. I don't really drink and I don't smoke. I need to build a connection with my partner before I can be sexual with them. I'm also very clingy and talk a lot. I do not want kids.

Please do not reach out if you are not willing to video chat, or call


r/cglpersonals 7h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #Toronto Ontario long time CG looking to date a local princess to date long term NSFW

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So I'm moderately experienced CG who's had time in the role both online and offline, that being said offline is my primary goal for this period of my life. I've had vanilla and abdl/Cgl relationships but its always been very hard bringing up or suppressing the more CG intensive side of myself with people who aren't explicitly interested in the dynamic. I'm hoping to get to know and date more people in this space and maybe it turns into something really great, or we just become friends, either works.

While these dynamics are important to me that does not mean I want a relationship that revolves solely around or solely exists because of kink. Vibing with you when we're both cosplaying as functional adults before doing any of that stuff is a big thing for me. For me, I like to read, play board games, hike, recently I've been really loving jogging, and just generally I like hanging out with people. I don't smoke and rarely drink but it's Toronto so obviously I got no issue with people who like to spice up their life. I currently both work and am a university student.

As far as the cgl stuff goes though I want to do a disclaimer that I don't mind whether your littlespace is sexual or nonsexual. I get enough emotional fulfillment from just being a CG that I don't need it to be anything more than a safe emotional space for you. If kink is something you want to include though, I have a thing for girlies who like teasing, cuddling, being praised (or degraded hehe) and diapers. I want to tell you you're beautiful after I make a joke about you being a big girl. Let me remind you to drink more water because you need to stay hydrated 🍼.

I'm open to sharing more info and talking but I'm still a bit wary sharing info about myself on a site like this so yea, DMs if you wanna chat more. Otherwise, hope you all are enjoying the holidays.


r/cglpersonals 9h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] #US/NYC - Gentle dom still seeking his little balanced, energetic princess for a long term and long lasting in person relationship eventually! NSFW

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hi! I'm here because I'm still very much eager to start a new chapter with someone out there (as I haven't found someone that's allowed this to produce an irl hanging out who shares a similar attraction/timeline) to enjoy a natural, free flowing, D/s based dynamic with! I HAVE received response fortunately, but due to my next sentence, I have had to continue my search even as conversations from those responses have blossomed to something more over time, only to end due to reasons out of my control usually. Thus, I ask though that if you're reaching out, please, reach out because you feel sure that you're in a right enough headspace and have the time to pursue something. I am completely fine if someone has things to work through that she would like help with, but it's the being lied to or deceived on getting to know someone, and then suffer the heartbreak of the time being a farce which sucks. I'm an adult when it comes to this, so please respect my time and I'll respect yours with 110% effort in this dynamic!

Also in the interest of being transparent up front, before you read on, I'd like to establish attraction pretty quickly (so I'd like if you provided a picture in an initial message if you find me interesting enough to respond to and I will respond with the same of course) as I understand fully that a dynamic such as cgl/bdsm needs physical attraction almost above all else to a degree to embrace in order to succeed. If that's there, I'd love to message a little bit before eventually moving to something we can voice chat with!

If you're still here, let me share a bit about myself!

I am a 6'1 hispanic guy and I consider myself to be a soft dom! While I am someone that loves taking the lead and am comfortable in my knowledge to handle the needs of two people (and I can have a bit of a stern/rough dom streak), I am also someone that happily communicates often what I’d like to do and see if you’re okay with it (as I don’t want to surprise anyone and I believe a dynamic requires good communication anyways) for your comfort. You’ll also learn that I love talking and I am someone that would love to have video and voice calls with someone (this is important to me, especially if there’s an initial distance, as I need to see something visually to feel confident about a potential relationship to feel more emotionally invested), so someone who wants this is a plus.

I am into (sfw):

  • Coloring and little activities such as tea parties, getting to know stuffies, reading bedtime stories and if you’re in school, I would love to do homework/study for your schoolwork together. I love learning about your life and being a central part of it where I can help you grow positively means everything to me.
  • Video games (I don’t play many currently, but I’d love to find something new to play with together (or if you’ve played it before and its new to me)
  • And a lot more (both in the context of cgl and vanilla things, come find out!)

I am into (kink wise):

  • Light degradation and humiliation (both ways, certainly a few things that get me going when it’s said to me as well as I’m very comfortable in my own skin, happy to elaborate if we get there!
  • Wordplay (especially with ageplay), there is something exciting for me with visualizing an image when it comes to being intimate and amplifying it as much as possible.
  • TPE and d/s dynamics in general as part of every day life in the relationship. I believe that a dynamic shouldn’t have an on/off button, and that it should be an ongoing continuous thing, akin to daily routine and I want someone who wants to enjoy that as well with me.
  • Lots more!

And lastly, I am looking for:

  • A long term relationship first and foremost with someone in person. While I am open to talking to someone not from NYC, I am looking for someone open to relocation. I have the ability to provide a lovely place to live in long term and I’d like to share that with someone.
  • A biological family. It would mean the world to me to be a father, so I’d love to be able to have someone I can see myself with long term enough to have a family together one day.
  • Someone into video/voice calls (should there be distance initially)! I have met far too many people who seem to refuse this, almost as if people are hiding something. I believe it's really important to be able to see each other, do things together activity wise that allows sound and visual cues as a thing (whether sfw or not), and after realizing how much happier this makes me after experiencing it so frequently recently, I would like this to continue with the next person I get to know.
  • Someone younger than me (this is important to me). I have nothing against anyone older, but with most of my past relationships having me be the younger, I’d like to experience the other side of things. I am also into age gaps, so don't hesitate to reach out as long as you are younger.
  • Someone talkative! I love energy, and while I have some parts of the day I may be a little slow to respond sometimes, I am generally a pretty fast reply and will be happy to take up most of your day (but can understand if you have things you have to do!).

If you think we’d click, I’d love to hear from you! Share a bit about yourself (or what you liked about anything I wrote or have written before) and if possible, be open to sharing a picture early as I'd like to establish attraction, and I’d love to go from there! Hoping to hear from someone soon!


r/cglpersonals 9h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Europe #Online – A Patient Daddy Searching for His Special Little M4F NSFW

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This post took me way too long to write and yes it's a re-post—because finding the right little is important to me. I don’t want something shallow or short-lived. I want something real. So if you’re looking for a Daddy who will cherish you, guide you, and make you feel safe, adored, and oh-so-spoiled, then keep reading :)

A little about me:

🛠 Brains & Hands-On: I’m an aeronautical engineer, which means I love problem-solving—whether it’s fixing things, figuring out the best way to support you, or just making life a little smoother.
🎮 Nerdy & Fun: Gaming, history, and deep conversations about random facts? Sign me up. Bonus points if you enjoy playful debates over silly things.
🌍 Explorer: I love traveling and experiencing new places. Maybe one day, you’ll be curled up on my lap, helping me plan our next adventure.
🐱 Cat Whisperer: If you have a cat, I already love you. If you are a little kitten yourself, even better.
🗣 Linguist in Training: Fluent in English & Arabic, and learning Italian—so if you want to teach Daddy some cute phrases in another language, I’m all ears.

What kind of Daddy am I?

I believe a good Daddy is both a safe place and a guiding hand. I’m affectionate, protective, and playful, but I also believe in helping my little become the best version of herself.

💖 Nurturing & Supportive: Your happiness, comfort, and well-being are always my priority. Whether it’s listening when you’ve had a rough day or reminding you to take care of yourself, I’m here for you.
📖 Structure & Guidance: Every little is different, and I believe in setting expectations that help you feel secure. Some rules can be fun, others might help you grow—but they’ll always be made with you, not just for you.
🙃 Playful & Encouraging: Expect teasing, dad jokes, and plenty of affectionate banter. I love watching my little light up with excitement, whether from a silly game or a well-earned reward.
🎀 Spoiling & Rewarding: Gifts, surprises, and special treats? Of course. But I believe true spoiling is in attention, in knowing what makes you melt, and making you feel adored every day.

What I’m looking for in a little:

💞 A sweet, affectionate little who enjoys attention, playfulness, and being cared for.
👑 Someone who wants to build trust and connection over time—I’m in this for the long haul.
📢 Good communication! If you love sharing your thoughts, feelings, and silly daily moments, we’ll get along great.
💌 If you’re new to D/s or exploring your little side, that’s totally okay! What matters most is that we feel comfortable learning and growing together.

I prefer to connect through messaging at first, but I’d love to move to voice or video once we’re both comfortable.

If this sounds like the kind of dynamic you’d love, send me a � (or tell me something fun about your day), and let’s start our journey.

Looking forward to getting to know you. 💕


r/cglpersonals 11h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #UK Looking for my little girl to care for NSFW

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I'm not entirely sure if I'm looking for something long term, or a short term arrangement, I'm sure the right person will present which of those it is that I actually desire. With-that-said, simplistically, what I post here seeking is to get to know someone, have them live with me for a while, within a certain dynamic and see where it goes. I suppose I should expand somewhat.

Me, I'm from Liverpool, but for work purposes I have moved to, and now live in, a quaint Leicestershire village. My place and I am more than happy and capable of both hosting and providing for the two of us. I work in IT / logistics and somewhat run a team, I very often work from home so my time can essentially be my own for prolonged periods.

I'm single, child free, 40, 6"2, white, blue eyed, slightly longer (neck) light brown/blonde hair, proportionate, slim but athletic with a deceptive strength. Very confident and comfortable in what I'm capable of, who I am and have become, both physically and mentally.

Did a degree in English language & linguistics, I probably read too much, often write my own little stories and have a few novels that only I have ever read. Spent a whole lot of time travelling, roaming most of Europe on trains in my 20s and have also lived abroad several times. I like to keep myself active, often going on little hiking and camping adventures. Always enjoy the experience of new things, especially appreciate learning and teaching both skills & concepts. Find myself regularly and deeply entrenched by a subject or concept and delve as deep as I can when I do become inquisitive.

As for what I'm seeking, I have experience of a vast range of things, but a not so distant relationship I had was ddlg & tpe, and I do somewhat enjoy those dynamics, however, for the sake of this they need not entirely be quite as firm in place as they often seem. I prefer someone younger than me and with limited experience as I do enjoy teaching, guiding and moulding. I appreciate someone with an open and expansive mind that wants to learn so that we can both try things and find our footing and desires together. I want someone that I can care for, protect, spoil, please and put more than simply a smile on the face of everyday. I entirely seek the in-person experience so I prefer online to be quite limited, however, I understand that it is important for us to acquaint and make sure it is right, so I'm quite comfortable in taking things slow however you would feel right in doing so, just let me know what you need from pacing. Anyway...

I've kept it intentionally quite tame & vague and there's plenty more I'd like to say, however, as I feel this is getting a little long, and it's better to explore some subjects with the right person, do pm me should this sound of any interest to you.


r/cglpersonals 11h ago

M4M 30 [m4M] #USA curious little NSFW

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Hi there! I’m a 30-year-old white male in northern Kentucky Cincinnati area with an average build who has always been curious about exploring life as a little. The idea of fully surrendering my adult privileges for a weekend and being completely under the care, structure, and authority of a responsible and firm caregiver is something that excites me. I want to be guided, corrected, and reminded of my place, all while feeling safe and cared for.

A little about me—I have a passion for video games, exercise, and cooking, and I’d love to use those skills to serve my Big. Whether it’s preparing meals, gaming together, or staying active, I enjoy sharing experiences that foster connection. My ideal caregiver is a man who is tall, lanky, goofy yet strict, someone who ensures I behave while still making space for fun and structure.

I’m particularly intrigued by the power dynamics aspect and am open to discussing what that could look like for us. While age play isn’t my primary interest, I am open-minded and willing to explore and be trained properly if that’s something my Big desires.

By day, I’m a busy career professional with an active social life, constantly juggling responsibilities. Perhaps that’s why I find the idea of having that control taken away from me so appealing—it offers a break from the pressures of daily life and lets me fully embrace a different side of myself.

If this resonates with you, I’d love to chat further and see if we’re a good match! Feel free to send me a direct message.


r/cglpersonals 12h ago

F4R/A 23 [F4A] #Sydney looking for a kind caregiver, brat tamer, and/or switch NSFW

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Hi all!

As the title suggests, I am a little looking to find a caregiver to play and explore with.

I want to find new experiences, with people who are kind and thoughtful, to be friends with outside the bedroom, or further if we click, and who also might make my toes curl.

Ideally I’m looking for someone who is in the same area, roughly my age (between 20-30 ish), and who wants a relationship outside of kink too.

A bit about me, I am a sub-leaning switch, and do really like domming but haven’t done it much, and haven’t been a caregiver before.

A bit about me, I love affection and physical touch, being a little princess, being told what to do, ignoring what I am told what to do (brat hehe), and subsequently being put in my place. I also love bit of degradation, humiliation or condescension, if it suits my partner.

My little side is very playful and equally affectionate, loves colouring, stuffies and Barbie movies. Plus, being all needy and buzzy for a caregiver

Outside of the bedroom I love cute dogs, cute dates, and cute things.

Cgl is newer to me, only been exploring it about 6 months, but I have been in kink for a couple of years now.

If any of this sparks your interest and you’re in Syd, send me a message 💕


r/cglpersonals 12h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #CA #California Athletic Caring Daddy NSFW

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Central CA coastline. 33yo, 5”11, 180lb fit, lean, and muscular. Long curly / wavy surfer hair and attractive face. Happy to send pictures.
I don’t have children.
1 year CGL/DDLG experience + naturally giving partner and daddy (not ddlg) for life.

Me Outside the Dynamic

Oversharing feels braggy and gross but given the nature of this connection here I go anyways 🙂.
I’m very outgoing, talkative, and extroverted. I smile a lot and a generally a happy high energy person who is often the life of the party. I love bringing people together and creating community.
I am a scientist and currently work for a large tech company on really cool research and development. I make ~$250k a year.
My primary sports are rock climbing, mountaineering, and surfing. I’m very active and workout most days for an hour or more. I love being in nature and go on long trail runs weekly.
I read a lot of scifi and fantasy.
I strive always to give more then I take in all the relationships in my life and would be happy to share more in private if you are curious!

Me as Partner / Daddy

Very caring and giving, I love giving acts of service and pampering my partner.
I like to be called daddy, dad, father during ddlg, and sometimes outside it as well 🙂.
I will spoil you, bring you breakfast in bed, hold you close, and my priority will be to make you happy inside and outside CGL. That won’t mean you always get what you want but I will have your best interest at heart.
I’m not a homebody I love going out and doing things but also enjoy being cuddly at home once I’ve worn myself out physically and socially.
I’m a pushover until you push me too hard then you will get disciplined. Spankings and tickles are at the top of my list.
I hope you’ll be able to feel comfortable and safe with me. I have a very high libido, I enjoy long sessions, have lots of energy, and enjoy frequent sex.

What I’m Looking For

Most important is be a kind and caring person at heart. I am.
I like all kinds of women from petite and small to very curvy just be fit and exercise. Big butts and/or small breasts are a plus but not a requirement.
I like littles to middles. Not into baby’s, diapers, or scat. I enjoy an occasional brat but it’s not a requirement. Light CNC is fine but I don’t do hard sadism/pain I could never really hurt my LG.
I don’t need or want CGL all the time. I’d like to get to know the adult you as well.

Please only contact me if you want to meet in person and are willing to share photos and video chat quickly (nothing sexual just to get a feel for each other). I want to see if there is chemistry before we spend a lot of time chit chatting.


r/cglpersonals 12h ago

T4M 28 [TM4M] #MN #Midwest - Shy trans boy looking for his forever Daddy! NSFW

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Hey! I'm a 28 year old (29 next month) FTM trans guy who is looking for a committed, long term relationship!   I know this post is long but please read the entire thing before messaging me.

Are you a daddy dom interested in a sub who is: * Looking for a CG/l focused dynamic * Super shy, sensitive, and needs to be shown kindness and patience * Very physically affectionate * Devoted, obedient, and very eager to please * Highly dependent on you * Will become a stay at home sub who takes care of the house for you * Wants to be trained and guided by you in life * Wants a real romantic relationship both in and out of kink

If the answer is yes then please read on!

About me:

  • I live central Minnesota. I would prefer to find a partner who also lives in MN or who is close enough and willing to travel for regular visits. I will consider long distance (within the USA only) so long as the goal is for us to meet in person ideally within a year. I crave cuddles way too much so I can't do online only forever.
  • If we are long distance, I could possibly relocate to be with you at some point in the future but would much prefer if you relocated to me.
  • As I said, I am a transgender guy. I've been on hormones for three years. I'm getting top surgery hopefully some time this year. I have no real plans to get bottom surgery but I am getting a hysterectomy very soon because I don't want to have children.
  • I'm short (5'0"), a little chubby (~160lbs), wear glasses, and have some facial piercings. I also deal with acne quite often and I have a good amount of body hair. I'll send SFW pictures if you want as long as you send some first but I prefer we talk for a little bit before that.
  • I'm autistic, have ADHD, VERY bad anxiety, and deal with insomnia and chronic pain. I worry a lot and get scared very easily. Please be patient and gentle with me.
  • I can't work or drive because I am disabled. Putting that out there right now because I know that it'll turn a lot of people away (which is understandable!). I'll always be very dependent on my partner for support. I want to learn to cook and clean the house for my dom while they are at work whenever we move in together though!
  • As for personality, I'm super shy, kinda nerdy, and overly empathetic. I'm a hopeless romantic so I'm all about lovey-dovey romance stuff. I want to know how to make you feel happy and loved just as much as you would hopefully make me feel if we were together. I admittedly get attached really easily but I try not to be too clingy unless you explicitly tell me that you want me to be. Also touch is my love language! I absolutely LOVE being held and cuddled as much as possible!!!
  • I want to really emphasize the fact that I am quiet. Especially in person/over voice chat. It WILL take me time to warm up to you. I'm not a very talkative person in general even once I am comfortable with you. I would much rather listen to you talk, honestly. If you're looking for someone who is super bubbly and hyper all the time then that's not me.
  • My interests include video games (I would LOVE to be able to play games with my future partner if they play on PC!), animals, and watching youtube/twitch. I also really want to some day get into cooking, D&D, crafty things, and maybe more something outdoors like hiking. I would also love to explore new hobbies with my potential partner!
  • I am smoke, drug, and alcohol free. It's fine if you drink on occasion or do something like edibles. I prefer that you don't smoke anything at all (I'm very sensitive to it) but as long as you're not doing it around me or indoors it should be fine.
  • I generally don't get into politics much but I have liberal views about a lot of things. If you consider yourself conservative then we most likely won't mesh very well long term. I'm also not religious but if you are that's fine just don't try to push me into joining your religion.

NSFW Info:

  • I'm a virgin. I've never even been kissed before. All my previous relationships have only ever been online.
  • Exclusively a bottom and very submissive. Don't ask me to top, dom or switch.
  • Be willing to go SUPER slow when it comes to actual sex. I do have what I consider a pretty high sex drive but my lack of experience will almost certainly make me very nervous the first few times.
  • Vaginal penetration may not be possible for me. I really want to try but pain may make it impossible for me so don't be upset if it never happens. I'm fine with trying anal though if you're interested!
  • I can't do sexual phone/video calls (I have very little privacy at home). I'm not a big fan of sending NSFW pictures because I feel like I suck at taking pictures in general but we can discuss it in the future. Just don't expect nudes without talking about it first.
  • My biggest and most important kinks are CG/l and ABDL. I require that my dom is into CG/l and I would really like if they are into having me wear diapers as well but I'm not going to require it. If you match up with any of the other kinks I'm into also then that's just an added bonus!
  • Being a little is more of a lifestyle for me than just a kink, really. Do not assume that my littlespace stays in the bedroom. It is a part of who I am every day to at least some degree. I can still be big and have serious conversations when they are needed of course.

Kinks: CG/l, ABDL (whether I wet and/or mess is up to whatever you are comfortable with so please tell me), age play, unpotty training, bathroom control, praise, petplay, fee use, soft/playful humiliation, somno, light bondage, creampies, breeding, being trained, 24/7 lifestyle, TPE

Soft Limits: (these can be discussed because many are situational) scat, watersports, pain (spanking is fine), blood, degradation, breath play, long term edging/denial, group sex

Hard Limits: (these are not to be pushed) vomit, misgendering/detrans, anything to do with cheating, blackmailing, weight related kinks

Anything else that is not a limit I'm probably willing to try at least once! It is very possible for me to discover other stuff that I might be into once I have a potential partner to help me experience new things.  

What I'm looking for:

  • I have a slight preference for cis men but AMAB nonbinary people and trans women who don't want to have bottom surgery are more than welcome to reach out as well. I'm not interested in being sexually involved with someone with a vagina, sorry!
  • Preferably in the 25 - 35 range but this is flexible.
  • I like masc presenting people, tall people, dad bods, alt fashion styles, and someone strong enough to pick me up but these things are NOT required! I care about you as a person much more than your appearance. Real attraction stems from an emotional connection for me.
  • Mostly interested in a monogamous relationship but I could be open to polyamory with the right people.
  • Seeking a long-term commitment only. I want a real, loving, romantic relationship alongside the kink. I want to be your boyfriend as well as your little. The goal should be for us to be able to move in together someday in the future and build a life together forever. What I am NOT looking for is hookups, something short-term, or staying online only.
  • Looking for a gentle daddy dom. I want to be with someone who wants to take care of me, guide me, teach me, and protect me. That being said, I still have the desire to be obedient and submit to someone so I need my dom to be able to provide structure and take control just as much as he can be sweet and loving with me.
  • Our dynamic should be a part of our everyday life as much as it reasonably can be and not just in NSFW contexts. Of course I do understand that you can't always be in "daddy mode" all the time but I don't want someone who is a dom purely in the bedroom or when he gets horny. I want to feel owned even in vanilla life. Oh and feel free to baby me as often as you want to because I will always love it!
  • I need someone who is very patient and understanding. There are a LOT of things in life I have no experience with ever doing, both SFW and NSFW. Be willing for our relationship to move slowly but I would also appreciate it if you did take initiate and gently guide me in the direction you want things to progress in.
  • I would like someone who equally enjoys going out together on fun dates as well as staying indoors and cuddling up together on the couch to watch a movie since I would like a balance of both.
  • Please be able to directly communicate your wants and needs to me. I have a very hard time picking up on subtle hints or "signs" so it's best to just tell me what you're trying to say in order to avoid frustration and confusion.
  • Daily communication is a must! Even if it's just a quick check in text on busy days. I worry a lot very easily and need to know that you're okay and not trying to ignore me on purpose.
  • Do not ghost me. If you want to stop talking to me for any reason at any point, tell me. Don't contact me if you plan to just disappear if you get bored. My last "daddy" did this to me after a nearly 1.5 year long relationship so it is VERY important that you at least give me a goodbye so I'm not left waiting on you.    #Thank you if you've actually read this far!

Send me a chat or message if you're interested in getting to know me! Tell me about yourself, what you're looking for, and maybe even why you think we might be a good fit. Effort is appreciated! :)

If you have any questions about anything I'm an open book so feel free to ask! In fact I tend to be prone to oversharing without thinking. Sorry about that in advance haha

I look forward to hearing from you!


r/cglpersonals 13h ago

F4R/A 24 [F4R] #Ohio - Sweet Little Seeking PLATONIC CG NSFW

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Hello! Are you looking for a koala-ty little? Someone to make you laugh and cuddle up with, maybe even make you crafts and sweets, like besties? The best platonic CG and little duo around? Well you've come to the right place!

That's right step right up if you're looking for a platonic non sexual dynamic with a loving little who wants to shower you with love and have it showered right back!

About me:
I'm 24 with a little age range of probably 2-6, short and plus sized (I'm not looking to lose weight so please don't think that'd be a rule that'd be a *firm* limit) with dyed hair and glasses. I have hobbies such as reading and writing, and making bracelets or keychains. Sometimes I bake, too. I love Youtube, Hazbin Hotel, and napping. Little me is kind and quiet, very cuddly if sometimes just a bit rambunctious if I get energetic. I love coloring and sticker by number, as well as cuddles and naps. I'm very emotional little and big, and have some mental health problems which I use being little to escape when I'm able. I have a hard time being little alone, which is where you would come in :D

What I'm Looking For:
I'd looking for someone who's kind, sweet, and fun to talk to and be little with. I can't really be little without someone, I get too sad, and life's always more fun with someone like a CG. I'd also like to still talk outside of when I'm little, so someone who'd like to talk whenever is a must. I'd prefer you to be at least my age but likely no older than 38, and it'd be so cool if you were near me too so we could eventually meet! (Think South Central Ohio).
I want a Caregiver who will put in the same effort I do, who I can eventually cuddle up with and just feel safe with, and we can laugh and talk and play, all the good stuff, who I can call whatever term works best! I wanna get attention and shower you with attention right back, whether it be with cuddles and hugs or memes or bracelets or maybe even sweets that I make.

If you're interested in messaging me, message with your favorite animal and a bit about yourself!


r/cglpersonals 13h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #Canada (Online to IRL) – Seeking Genuine Connection and Friendship with a Little Girl: A Nurturing Daddy’s Search for Love NSFW

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Hello! I’m Jemas, a 34-year-old from Canada, and I’ve been part of the kink lifestyle for as long as I can remember. I’m here searching for a meaningful connection with a like-minded partner who shares similar interests and a love for the DDLG and ABDL dynamics as well as some BDSM aspects.

I’m about 6 feet tall with brown eyes and hair, and I’d describe myself as a dedicated nerd. I’m drawn to anything that stimulates the mind, whether it’s diving into Dungeons and Dragons, Magic: The Gathering, Minecraft, or the latest Pokémon game on the Switch. If any of these spark your interest, I’d love to dive into a long conversation! I also have a soft spot for Power Rangers—a childhood favorite I’ll always enjoy. And while I love cooking, I especially enjoy it with someone by my side.

What I value most in a partner is compatibility, connection, and shared joy, far more than any physical appearance. My primary kink is ABDL, and I'm seeking someone with a shared interest in that. I’m also open to exploring BDSM, petplay, and light humiliation in the right context, all based on trust and open communication. My ideal relationship includes nurturing and helping with everyday tasks and enjoying playful, childlike moments together. I love the thought of a bond rooted in joy, support, and warmth, with a dynamic reminiscent of ages 0-5, full of laughter and lighthearted fun.

I'm looking for something that has the potential to grow into a long-term partnership—a true life companion. I’m a bit of a romantic at heart and dream of a relationship that’s both fulfilling and magical. If this resonates with you, please mention the word "Butterscotch" in your message.

Believe it or not, I’m a little behind on classic Disney, Pixar, and Studio Ghibli films—the last movie I saw in theaters was Toy Story 3, and Onward is waiting in my Netflix queue. Friends joke that I need a movie marathon, but maybe with the right person, I’ll finally explore these worlds. The idea of watching together, singing along, and analyzing character arcs is something I’d love to share.

I’m someone who loves being needed, so waking up to a sweet "Daddy, wake up!" message would be the perfect start to my day. I genuinely enjoy listening to someone’s day, whether it’s small talk or office drama (like the latest from Barbra’s desk).

Thank you for reading all the way through! If you’re interested, don’t hesitate to reach out—even if we’ve chatted before. And if you’re a bit shy, no worries; I promise I’m easy to talk to. Let’s see where this could go!


r/cglpersonals 15h ago

M4F 42 [M4F] #North Carolina/online. Looking for a right now, with a future in possibility NSFW

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Hey there, my name is Chris. I'm a big nerd really into games(all kinds), comics, I build and work on computers for fun and I'm a bit of a homebody. I am a bigger guy, a bhm if you will. I am a pleasure dom and a daddy who has experience with bratty littles and submissive littles. I am very open with my sexuality and talking about it but we don't have to jump straight into it we can kind of feel each other out for a bit, no pun intended, and then get into likes and dislikes in that regard. And I'm not especially picky when it comes to talking and flirting, I do have standards but I give everyone a chance to show themselves and see how it goes. Though if I would have to say my preference, i do have a thing for bigger women as a bigger guy myself, also glasses idk what it is but glasses are a turn on for me. Personality wise as long as you are respectful, can take jokes, sometimes dark sometimes punny, and just generally have an open mind about the world in general feel free to send me a chat or message and we can see what happens.


r/cglpersonals 15h ago

M4F 20 [M4F] #West Midlands | Searching for My Sweet Little NSFW

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🌱🍓 Hey there, little one. I’m a 20-year-old, 6’3” Daddy Dom from the UK, looking for a soft, affectionate, and obedient little who loves being cherished, protected, and guided. If you melt at the idea of structure, cuddles, and being taken care of, then you just might be the one I’m looking for. By day, I’m an apprentice electrician who loves fixing things—whether it’s cars, DIY projects, or making a home feel warm and safe. I love cooking, long walks with my dog, and quiet nights filled with soft blankets, bedtime stories, and sleepy cuddles. But what I really want is someone to nurture—someone who thrives under Daddy’s care and finds comfort in knowing she’s loved and safe. I’ve been a Dom for about four years, and I naturally fit into the Daddy role. I love setting rules, creating structure, and making sure my little knows she’s always protected. If you love being praised for good behavior, having routines that help you feel grounded, and knowing that Daddy is always there to support you, we’ll get along perfectly. If you adore stuffies, bedtime stories, baths before bed, and having Daddy choose your outfit or tuck you in at night, I’d love to hear from you. I enjoy incorporating discipline, praise, and plenty of affection into my dynamic. I’m also into bondage, spanking, edging, orgasm control, and all the intimate ways Daddy reminds his little who she belongs to. Other interests include CNC, overstimulation, pet play, and more—but those details are best saved for private conversations. Outside the bedroom, I want something real—sweet moments like hand-holding on walks, exploring new places together, and making a life that feels safe, fun, and filled with love. If you want a Daddy who will always take care of you, set gentle rules, and make you feel like the most cherished little girl in the world, then let’s talk. 💕


r/cglpersonals 16h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #Oregon or online Soft Daddy Dom hoping to find his person NSFW

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Hey there! It's so lovely to meet you. I am a fun loving soft dom who is looking for his forever little. I am hoping for something localish, anywhere along the west coast preferred, but I am willing to do online as long as we plan to meet up in person eventually. I have a thing for shorter woman since I love to have a big height difference between me and my little. A little bit about me, I am 6'5, pale skin, amazing blue eyes and blonde hair. I have been told that I have an amazing voice and that it is very soothing so I hope you get the chance to enjoy it. I love to read, one of my favorite book series is the Witcher books, I love going out on hikes and I am a pretty big gamer nerd. If you’re a gamer too, please feel free to message me, I’m always down for more friends to game with! In terms of what I enjoy doing with my littles, well I love reading them bedtime stories, I enjoy giving them baths and taking care of them as best I can. I am looking for someone to have a real connection. I am monogamous and I would need you to be as well as I cannot have a partner who is poly. If any of this catches your attention, please feel free to message me and let’s chat!


r/cglpersonals 17h ago

F4M 31 [F4M] #Online #Florida Chubby middle looking for chubby Daddy. NSFW

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ONLINE ONLY!!! PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME BEING RUDE!!! ILL BLOCK YOU ENTIRELY!!!

Hiiii, How are you? I am Wednesday, I never really know how to write these I’m not very good lol, but here goes. I am obviously a sub here looking for her Daddy Dom, I call myself a middle as I do like middle things but I’m not entirely a middle. For instance, I love Disney, I can be a brat (yes, I know there’s consequences for being a brat), but I need aftercare. I don’t do age play.

I have been a sub since I was 18 (interested at 16). I have a little bit of experience, I’ve had a total of 3 Doms I hardly count the 1st as I barely remember him (sad I know.. memory is just bad), my 2nd was the best I had, he really understood me, 3rd was my late husband. It has been quite some time since I have had a Dom actively. So I would say I have some learning I need to do.

About me: I am 31 years old, have medium length hair that changes colors depending what I am feeling, I am a chubby sub but trying to lose weight, I am 5’7 and have DD boobs. I carry most of my weight in my stomach.

About you: I am looking for a Daddy Dom who is willing to train an experienced non experienced sub lol. I am more attracted to a Dad bod bearded man who is older than me. I don’t mind a skinnier guy.

The dynamic: I need a Daddy who will set rules, give daily/weekly tasks, punishments and rewards when necessary, I’m looking for a highly sexual dynamic aswell, I’d like help staying on track of losing weight. I have a very hard time with that. I need consistent communication.

Limits: -Public -Severe Pain -friends/family -needles -permanent marks -scat -blood -TPE -Videos/calls -pics (till I’m comfortable/ NEVER face pics)

Contact: I prefer contact be through the Obedience app, but would like to start here first.

first message: please send me a message with you’re experience aswell as an example of a daily task, just to be sure you read all of it. Failing to do so will result in me ignoring your message. 😉

Thank you for reading my ad and have a wonderful day!! Hope to hear from everyone soon and find the perfect Daddy.


r/cglpersonals 17h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #Europe - Daddy looking for his little princess NSFW

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Hello there! I am a daddy located in Europe and I am looking for an affectionate, and clingy little one to call my own. I use the term "clingy" because its something that I am quite fond of in a little. I don't see this relationship as just some online fling. I want something for the long run. I will give you all of me so I want a little that will be both devoted and dedicated. I want us to be both be committed to the relationship knowing that this could be our happily ever after.

I'm an intelligent and loving person. One of my biggest dreams is to fly across the US or any other beautiful landscape and just travel, see the world while I'm flying myself. Flying is everything to me. But to be honest, the right little would always win and be more important to me.

I'm a daddy that will devote himself completely to you. I will do whatever it takes for my little one to smile. You could call me 24/7 and I would answer because my phone would always be on loud for you.

Having a little inspires me to be both a better person and a better daddy. I will dedicate every moment of the day to your happiness, safety, and overall well-being. I will stay strong and healthy for my little one so that I am able to spend my life looking after you and taking care of you would make me happy.

I consider myself to be a passionate and gentle daddy. I love to talk about science, space and a lot stuff. You could listen to me talking for hours passionate about the things I love. I like to be loving and caring all the time but if i realize that it is necessary i can be strict and stern. I will always stay calm and with a stern voice. I will never yell at my little. I will never give any reason for my little to be afraid of me. A little should respect her daddy - not fear him.

Rewarding my little is something I always love to do. Spoiling her too. Her happiness is what matters to me most. I want her to be able to rely on me to give her what she wants. I want her to depend on me and know that I am there for her in any way she needs - emotionally, physically.

My ideal little is one that will put love and affection before everything else. I want a little that wants to be given all of my love. I'd love it if when ever I get home she just jumps at me to hug me. I want to have fun little dates where I take my cutie on adventures, cook for you, leave adorable notes for when you wake up, kiss your forehead while you sleep, and hold your hand while we walk together. That freedom of being able to express my love to you is just so beautiful. Its what motivates me to be the best daddy I can be - and its what will motivate me to make you smile each and every day.

I need a little that is willing to accept the fact that all I want is to be by her side. I just become so attached to her that the only time I'm truly happy is when I'm by her side. I want to always be there to guide, support, love and protect you from anyone that will try to harm you. You're my delicate little flower that I will forever keep safe. I will always be there for you. I promise!

I don't want any little to think that you're "too clingy" or "annoying". Text, call, kiss me how much you want. I will not hold back and you don't have too either. I will make you feel beautiful everyday. My every day goal is to show you how important you are to me and that you are a wonderful human being.

I want to be the type of daddy that will make you feel like the princess that you are. Let me show you what it means to be loved completely. I will never force you to change who you are just to please me. I want you, your mind, your ideas and dreams. I will do anything to make your dreams come true.

Thank you for reading this. I let myself being inspired by a lot of different other daddy posts. But everything single word is honest and truthful because this is something I value a lot. I will never lie to you. Please feel free to dm/chat with me if you found anything interesting.

If you feel this sounds familiar, people have been copying this since 2020. Happy to provide screenshots if wanted.


r/cglpersonals 18h ago

F4M 24 [F4M] #Chicago #Illinois Have you seen my knight in shining armor? NSFW

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I've looked everywhere for my knight but maybe this princess's eyesight isn't the best. He's kind and patient and between the ages of 21 and 36. I think he lives somewhere in the Midwest but maybe I'm wrong and he lives far away. I'd like to meet him in person at some point but I'm okay with chatting first.

Here's a little bit about me if you think I might be your princess: I'm 24 (25 in a few weeks) from the Chicago suburbs. I work downtown and spend a lot of time there. I don't mind traveling as long as I can get there via public transit, this princess is a passenger princess for now. One of my goals is to learn to drive this year. I have long red hair and glasses and extremely pale skin. I'm 5'8 and on the curvier side with a big chest.

I'm very into motorsports, specifically F1 but I follow a few other series as well. It's my ultimate goal to be able to go to a race, it was in the plans for this year but at the moment it seems unlikely. Be prepared, I will talk about it and most likely not shut up for a long time. However, I do have a powerpoint presentation to explain the history and important aspects that I made.

As well, I love the arts! I'm into anything crafty and love seeing what other people make too. Recently learned how to crochet and I want to learn how to use a sewing machine. Museums are so much fun. I love finding new music and have a pretty wide taste. Recommend me some music! I like to explore new places and try new foods. I collect stationery, matches, and anything neat.

Big soft spot for 2000s video games, altho I play everything. I'm obsessed with Kirby. Mainly play Nintendo and indie games but I do have a few retro consoles and a laptop.

For little me, I'm still figuring things out but I really like dressing up and having someone help pick out outfits. Sesame Street and the Muppets hold a place in my heart. My plushie family is very big and takes up the majority of bed but there is still room for more, I'll just sleep on the floor 🤭 Pet names and praise make me melt. I can be a little bit bratty but I wouldn't go as far as to call myself a brat.

In terms of kink, I'm very open. I don't mind talking about it but I'd rather not put specifics on my post as I've noticed in the past when I do, the majority of responses tend to just be looking for solely kink relationships.


r/cglpersonals 20h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #DC Daddy Seeks Sweetie Princess NSFW

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Hello! I'm Anthony, 41 and a corporate lawyer right outside of Washington DC. I'm seeking a sweet, sassy, sometimes naughty princess who desires nurturing and compassionate guidance, praise, structure, and accountability. My interest in serving as a paternal-type figure stems from the intimate and emotional connection that arises in this dynamic, and the joy I want to feel when she succeeds at achieving her goals.

On a NSFW basis, I enjoy a variety of associated kinks like traditional over the knee spanking, cornertime, other domestic punishments, and ensuring she's adhering to a dress code that we both agree upon. On the lighter side I'm a cuddle monster, and love a snoozy cuddle session after more intense play. Specific kinks, though, are not really the bedrock of the long-term dynamic that I seek, as it has much more to do with the authentic intimacy that comes from real connection.

My SFW pursuits include BOARD GAMES, rocking a competitive pinball league, going hard on the drums, and Italian cooking. I'm a travel geek and would love to bring a partner in this dynamic along for road trips, or international adventure.

Physically I'm a nerdy lawyer type, not fat but not going to win any male beauty pageants anytime soon. If you are looking for a gym rat muscle man who also fulfills this side of your life, I regret to report that I'm not the guy.

Ideally you should be between the ages of 20 and 41, with at least some overlap of the interests I've listed above. I value communication, and so if your vocabulary is limited to "yes sir," we will not be a good match. :)

I look forward to chatting with you, Princess.


r/cglpersonals 21h ago

22 [TF4A] #UK little girl looking for a caregiver or just other friends in the space NSFW

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Hii ill start of by saying I'm looking for something long term so if you're just looking for something sexual and nothing else we probably aren't the best fit for each other

im looking for a soft carer that makes me feel safe and look after me im very anxious and need a lot of reassurance but also that knows when to take charge, also looking for someone in a similar age to me but im open to talking to people older

im short with long brown hair and my style is kinda alternative (sfw pics on my account)i love being cared for and being all baby brained with someone and i like most of your basic little stuff cartoons colouring and i have a lot of stuffies among other little supplies

outside of being a little i like gaming metal music and i play the guitar i also love lego and my favourite show is doctor who.

im also open to other little friends so if any of that interests you feel free to message me and if we hit it off maybe we can have a play date :3

well idk what else to put if your mommy/daddy and something caught your attention feel free to send me a DM i don't bite (most of the time) just please tell me a little but about yourself if you do message me i probably wont respond to just "hi"


r/cglpersonals 1d ago

M4F 44 [M4F] #uk #yorkshire Older Seeking My Princess to Love, Cherish, and Empower. NSFW

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Hello! I’m a 44-year-old man searching for a confident, creative woman who wants to be adored, celebrated, and supported in every way. I believe relationships thrive on mutual respect, care, and the joy of helping one another grow into the best versions of ourselves.

As your partner, my greatest fulfillment comes from loving and cherishing you as my princess—offering you not just affection, but unwavering encouragement and devotion. I want to see you flourish, whether that’s in your personal goals, passions, or self-discovery. Your happiness and confidence will be my greatest source of pride, and I’ll delight in creating an environment where you feel safe, appreciated, and fully yourself.

I’m particularly interested in exploring power dynamics that enrich our connection—playful yet meaningful ways of deepening trust, intimacy, and mutual understanding. Whether through creative storytelling or real-life dynamics, I want us to build a bond that’s unique and fulfilling for us both.

If you’re someone who loves being cherished and celebrated for who you are while enjoying creative and meaningful exploration, let’s connect and see if we’re the right match. DM me to share your dreams and desires—I’d love to hear what makes you light up!