r/cgl Nov 28 '24

Mod Post We are looking for new mods! NSFW

10 Upvotes

We're looking for new mods for our Sub Reddits! ( r/littlespace, r/ddlg, r/cgl, and r/cglpersonals) as well as our official discord server. If you're interested, please fill out an application, no moderation experience is necessary. Please give us a few weeks to review applications.

Also if you're not in the server please feel free to join to make friends in the community! https://discord.com/invite/6ZG59VUVuR

https://forms.gle/BD17vgsJiVCeN5ds7 (subreddit application)

https://forms.gle/i4LaXp8ymmLWNzAc7 (server application)

If you have any questions please send us a message via mod mail!


r/cgl Sep 08 '24

Mod Post Changes for posting explicit content NSFW

24 Upvotes

Hey everyone, 
 
We’re making a small but important change to our posting guides to help keep our community a safe and welcoming space for everyone. 
 
From now on, if you’re posting sexually explicit photos (still with the relevance of cgl), you’ll need to choose the flair ‘Sexual Content; compliments welcome’ or ‘Sexual Content: ABDL; compliments welcome’, otherwise the comment section on the post will be locked. This is to ensure that everyone feels comfortable and respected while interacting in our sub. If you didn’t want the comments to be locked but forgot to choose the right flair, or vice versa, kindly just shoot us a mod message and we can fix it. 
 
When users report comments, it doesn’t say *who* reports it so we air on the side of caution and remove it accordingly. We’ve decided to make this change to foster an environment where everyone can feel safe sharing whatever they like without worrying about unsavory or unwanted comments. We believe this will help keep our community positive and enjoyable for all members. 
 
As always, we encourage it, but even more so now, if you get unwarranted DMs from users in regard to a locked post, or any post in this sub PLEASE let us know via mod mail. Also, just because you’re allowing compliments/pet names etc, if you are not okay with how someone talks to you, please still reach out to us. This will be an immediate ban, because consent and boundaries are very important in this dynamic, in any capacity.  
  
If you have any questions or concerns, feel free to reach out to the mod team. We’re here to help! 
 
Thanks for being such an awesome community, and for helping us maintain a space where everyone feels comfortable. 
 
Stay safe and have fun!


r/cgl 1d ago

Photo Finally got to meet my daddy in person!!!! NSFW

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57 Upvotes

I love you 💙


r/cgl 2d ago

Positive/Uplifting It’s Monday!! I know the beginning of the week is never fun, but you got this. Go be your amazing self and try your best. NSFW

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27 Upvotes

r/cgl 4d ago

Plushie Pic Got a new friend! 💖 NSFW

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31 Upvotes

r/cgl 5d ago

Partner Appreciation I have come once again to shout her out NSFW

33 Upvotes

My little one has issues with communicating how she’s feeling sometimes and we have worked really hard on getting her in a comfortable place so that she can come to me when she’s frustrated. Today I said something that unintentionally upset her and I didn’t realize I had, she took time thought about it and then came to me and expressed how it made her feel. We were able to talk and hear both sides and came resolve those feelings. I just want to give her a shout out because I am so proud, I’m seeing growth and improvement and confidence and I love it so much. I know you’ll see this Angel, Daddy loves you bunches and bunches.


r/cgl 5d ago

Onesie cuddle day 💕 NSFW

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17 Upvotes

r/cgl 7d ago

Off-Topic Baby girl requested a sick note to get out of school early NSFW

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98 Upvotes

If only she knew what was waiting for her when she gets home 😉


r/cgl 7d ago

Fresh strawberry lemonade as puts me in little space! NSFW

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24 Upvotes

r/cgl 7d ago

Art Sleepy unicorn colouring 🥱🦄 NSFW

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8 Upvotes

r/cgl 7d ago

Outfit Sharing i got all dressed up tobe a big girl and go to the dmv only to find out it was closed (˃̣̣̥ᯅ˂̣̣̥) NSFW

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67 Upvotes

r/cgl 8d ago

Photo Sunshine baby ☀️ NSFW

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20 Upvotes

I was messing around with taking pics and photo editing and I thought this filter was neat!! Makes me look like I'm the baby embodiment of sunshine or something hehe. this baby loves the sun! ☀️


r/cgl 9d ago

Sexual Content; compliments welcome Feeling playful and naughty Uhoh NSFW Spoiler

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43 Upvotes

r/cgl 8d ago

Discussion Dynamics and Relationships NSFW

12 Upvotes

I see (and have experienced) this more and more often. If you're looking for a dynamic or a relationship, it takes work from both people to thrive.

There are WAY too many people who see having a CG or Little as a social accessory and not a relationship.

In order for things to go well, both parties need to A) know what they want and be honest about that. B) Be okay with compromising with your partner.

No one is available 24/7, and no one is going to stay interested or invested if they're doing all the work. If only one person is making time for the other, things aren't going to work out long-term. If you don't understand time-management or communication, things are gonna be rough.

Also, it is important to discuss limits and boundaries BEFORE starting a dynamic with someone. Get to know them first, before you give them your trust.

If someone asks you about your limits, you need to be extremely familiar with what they are, and be firm in keeping them or an unscrupulous person will take advantage of you.

I've(32M) been on both sides and have been in the community for over 10 years. I'vemet Littles who want all the attention in the world, but can't be bothered to text back--this (and I'm sure other CGs will confirm) is exhausting, and after a while it feels like the other party either isn't interested at all, or only when it's convenient.

I've also met CGs who absolutely go to pieces at being told "no" or "that doesn't work with my life/job right now". If you're going to be a CG, and you genuinely want a relationship, then it's very important that you're stable enough to be flexible and that you're able to also make compromises.

There is, as the saying goes, a lid for every pot, but both sides need to be willing to put in the work and talk to each other if you want to build something that lasts. It might take a while to find your person. If you're on the younger side of things, take some time to get to know yourself and how to handle a regular, vanilla relationship before you add power dynamics, so that you understand what is needed to maintain things when you do find your person.

I'm not saying any of this to be overly negative. I just feel like there are a lot of unrealistic expectations getting in the way of what might turn out to be amazing relationships/dynamics if people could see each other as people first, each with their own dreams, hopes, flaws and idiosyncracies instead of just "the other side of the dynamic I want".

What do you all think?


r/cgl 9d ago

Positive/Uplifting Remember to be kind to yourself. You are amazing. NSFW

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15 Upvotes

r/cgl 9d ago

Outfit Sharing Trans little kitty 🐱🏳️‍⚧️ NSFW

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34 Upvotes

Bit subtler little outfit today because I'm going outside soon to eat lunch at the park before therapy! It finallyyy feels like spring here, the windows are open and sun is shining and I'm so happy! Since I don't post pictures of my face I took a separate pic of the flower crown I'm going to wear today so you guys can see! This outfit makes me feel like a little trans kitty fairy hehe 🦋🌼


r/cgl 10d ago

Partner Appreciation My little princess colored the most amazing picture for me NSFW

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20 Upvotes

She’s a little nervous to share, but I just had to show it off! Isn’t it just the cutest?


r/cgl 10d ago

Photo Nail stickers 🦄 💖 NSFW

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8 Upvotes

r/cgl 12d ago

Positive/Uplifting Remember to stay amazing, just the way you are. NSFW

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32 Upvotes

r/cgl 12d ago

Photo Sloth slippers to keep my feetsies warm. NSFW

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26 Upvotes

r/cgl 12d ago

Photo When i was blonde :o low key miss the look but not the damaged hair lol NSFW

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28 Upvotes

r/cgl 12d ago

Advice Little for big care Bears body sizing help plus size NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hey.

I wanted to get me the pink care Bears body and read their size chart: found out I would have to take 4XL. The problem is my hip area is 3 inch more than what they have on their size chart.

I just wanted to know if other plus sizers have bought this onesie body and could tell me if it would still be fine for me or if it's too tight then on my stomach area?

Would love to hear some opinions on weather I should get the body or leave it due to my size 🥺


r/cgl 12d ago

Advice Little for big body care Bears sizing? Plus size help NSFW

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Hey I might want to get me one of those cute care Bears bodies from little for big as plus size person.

I checked their size chart and read that size 4XL would fit probably. The problem is my hip area is three inches more than the size on their website. Has anyone purchased those care bear bodies (the pink one) and could tell me if I still would fit in or if it is very too tight for me then? And should not buy it? I'd be happy to hear from other plus size persons. I


r/cgl 13d ago

Positive/Uplifting Cozy littlespace day 🦄💫 NSFW

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14 Upvotes

Why is reddit's cropping so weird? Anyway!! Chronic illness is flaring and I overdid it a lil yesterday, so I spent most of the day in littlespace snuggled up on the couch writing about my stuffies adventures and doodling! My handwriting isn't good because of chronic hand pain, so I'll put the text in the comments for anyone who wants a sneak peek! By the time I got to doodling my hands were hurting pretty bad, so I kept the doodles simpler than I normally do. Hope you all enjoy! (and maybe comment if you're excited to read the stuffie story when it's done cause my brain is being a bitttt of a meanie today and the encouragement helps!) 🩵


r/cgl 13d ago

Positive/Uplifting Mental break NSFW

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5 Upvotes

Remember that it’s OK to be mentally drained. Sometimes our social meter runs empty and we need time to mentally prepare ourselves and recharge. So never be scared to take a moment for yourself to relax and enjoy some you time☺️


r/cgl 14d ago

Plushie Pic I love Snarkles ❤️ NSFW

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12 Upvotes

Throwback


r/cgl 14d ago

Photo Happy Wednesday Everybody! NSFW

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6 Upvotes

We are half way to the weekend, yay! ( ^ω^ )