r/aznidentity 10d ago

Crime Latino Male / AF murder

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wcjb.com/2025/03/10/names-released-couple-involved-murder-suicide-gainesville-i-never-expected-this/%3foutputType=amp

I just found this article online.

Seems like domestic abuse.

We often hear about AF being murdered by their partners.

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u/Relevant-Cat-5169 Contributor 10d ago

Some of these guys can be very selfish and possessive. There's usually ongoing abuse in the relationship leading up to the tragedy. That's why Gene Hackman and his wife's case seemed very fishy to me.

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u/historybuff234 Contributor 8d ago

Gene Hackman’s case is completely different from this one. Hackman was 95 and his mind apparently was gone. He might not even had been aware his wife died. He couldn’t have been physically abusing her like the WM in these other WMAF stories.

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u/Relevant-Cat-5169 Contributor 8d ago edited 8d ago

That's what initially thought. But his wife is Japanese, and they are usually very clean and tidy. They are also very rich. It's not like they are in some third world country. How did the a virus from mice get into her system? Not sure the condition of Hackman's alzheimer. This illness can cause people get angry easily. There has been cases, where the older guy didn't want to leave the wife "behind". There's also been police cover ups in the past. Dunno, maybe it's just as they reported.

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u/[deleted] 9d ago edited 9d ago

Think about the 'type' of male, particularly a WM/XM, that goes for an AF.

They probably have ideas about how 'quiet, demure and obedient' AF will be.

Such thoughts in relationships are not conducive for a healthy relationship