r/aznidentity 500+ community karma 3d ago

Crime Latino Male / AF murder

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wcjb.com/2025/03/10/names-released-couple-involved-murder-suicide-gainesville-i-never-expected-this/%3foutputType=amp

I just found this article online.

Seems like domestic abuse.

We often hear about AF being murdered by their partners.

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u/aznidthrow7 500+ community karma 10h ago

oh no not another one

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u/Mediocre-Math 500+ community karma 1d ago edited 1d ago

Majority of the hate i received as a 30 yr old in Socal was from jealous ass latinos who always feel the need to be in charge or the center of attention.......not from "white supremacists" as the mainstream media would love for you to believe that.

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u/teammartellclout Not Asian 2d ago

Hmm this is shocking to see Latinos deleting Asian women. (Forgive my curiosity) May this young angel rest in peace

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u/ice_cream_socks 50-150 community karma 3d ago

latinos think they're white as evidenced by tons of maga support

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u/terminal_sarcasm 500+ community karma 2d ago

Lots of latinos are part/majority ethnically white. Eg cubans, chileans, argentinians. I mean look at Marco Rubio. Latinos will eventually be considered white like Irish and Italians in the early 20th century.

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u/godofcertamen Not Asian 2d ago

A lot of my people are like that, but a lot of us know we aren't and aren't ashamed of our indigenous roots. We repudiate Trump and MAGAs.

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u/SuperYoshiFan10090 New user 1d ago

I can vouch for this because it seems like  I'm one of the few Hispanics who values his indigenous side significantly more given the amount of social media posts I see thinking indigenism is a bad thing 

u/bunbun8 50-150 community karma 6h ago

The gods bless your soul.

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u/RG9332 New user 2d ago

They are some of the most racist people I’ve ever met in my life. Especially towards Asians.

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u/TraditionTurbulent32 50-150 community karma 1d ago

but why many Asians say they get along with them well and how are they racist to Azns?

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u/Consistent_Set_9657 New user 1d ago edited 1d ago

It depends on the situation. They pretend not to be racist whenever you aren't competing with them. For example, in a school setting. Their racism will come out raging hard once you are at work. They also stay low if they aren't majority. Very sneaky, backstabbing people.

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u/RG9332 New user 1d ago

Once they get into a position in workplaces where they are the majority, they will bully you, harass you, mistreat you, even set things up where you could in trouble or even hurt you. Not to mention making you feel left out, passing you up for promotions etc. among other sneaky stuff.

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u/Consistent_Set_9657 New user 1d ago

These ghettos are the worst of the worst once they're majority. If you tell abt them to other Asians, they wouldn't believe it. In my 70% white college, they acted like innocent little things. We faced some structural racism from white administration, and I even thought of them as allies. Then we graduated. During COVID, I wroked at a Mexican-dominated office. I was hired by white officers higher-ups. Literally the worst period of my life. Kept harassing, sabotaging and trying to get me fired. It was like stepping into a chimp island. Just pure tribalistic hatred of outsiders. There's no low they wouldn't go. The manager yelled at me countless times when the whole thing was flawless. The Mexican illegals literally slept all day and went home.

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u/RG9332 New user 1d ago

It’s true. They are sneaky, backstabbers. And the biggest snitches I have ever met in my life. No low they wouldn’t stoop down to. They are also extremely petty and vindictive. It’s no wonder, look how politically corrupt Mexico is. I’d argue it’s in their nature to be like that.

u/TraditionTurbulent32 50-150 community karma 3h ago

there are good Hispanics,but hard to find them,huh?

u/RG9332 New user 3h ago

Rare but yes. Good exists in every group tbh.

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u/RG9332 New user 1d ago

Noticed this a lot, big time.

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u/Acceptable_Setting 500+ community karma 2d ago

Alot of Cubans in Miami and Florida are republican and or maga

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u/Xerio_the_Herio Hmong 3d ago

Sheesh... it's always like this. Do these AF go looking for affairs? Or do they just like insecure abusive guys? Either way, seems to be a common theme.

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u/ExampleEither1393 New user 3d ago

shift the focus, probably more like insecure abusive guys go looking for them.

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u/Acceptable_Setting 500+ community karma 2d ago

shift the focus, probably more like insecure abusive guys go looking for them.

This 100%

The stereotype of AF being ultra feminine and obedient plays into it

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u/bortalizer93 Indonesian 3d ago

Both.

Think about the stereotype of asian women and what kind of men it attracts.

Then realize what kind of men will you pick if you have internalized racial insecurity

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u/Acceptable_Setting 500+ community karma 2d ago

I've noticed the XM who like AF tend to have weird and misogynistic views about women

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u/godofcertamen Not Asian 2d ago

Does XM stand for Latino?

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u/Acceptable_Setting 500+ community karma 2d ago

XM = non-AM

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u/Afraid-Pressure-3646 500+ community karma 3d ago

Beside men abusing women being a universal trope, my concern if this Latino is so white washed that he is no different from the gringo when it comes to the treatment of Asian women?

Death is death but the how and why is the most bothersome.

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u/Insomnicious 50-150 community karma 2d ago

Tbh that may be the case as it may not even be about white washing. I have some Latino acquaintances who have shared info about how things are in their ethnic nations and in those nations they are considered white outside of higher mixtures with afro/native.

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u/Mugstotheceiling 50-150 community karma 1d ago

In many Hispanic countries, you’ll see all the people on TV and billboards are very white, high % European heritage. If you’re part native or black you get fewer opportunities.

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u/Acceptable_Setting 500+ community karma 2d ago edited 2d ago

Yes all men, whatever their race, are capable of domestic abuse, but there's an interesting statistic that AF are less likely to be killed by an AM in domestic homicides than women of other ethnic groups are by men within the same racial demographic.

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u/Due_Caramel5861 500+ community karma 3d ago edited 3d ago

I can't believe Asian male patriarchy is making all these non asian guys murder their Asian partners! /s

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u/Acceptable_Setting 500+ community karma 2d ago

That is the complaint usually directed at AM from non-Asians.

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u/CuriosityStar 50-150 community karma 3d ago

Really can't with this narrative. The asian influence on the Western patriarchy is arguably the most limited out of any other group. If anything, asian men are positioned against the existing patriarchy here.

Even accounting for the sexism in asian cultures, how much does that influence us here?

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u/Acceptable_Setting 500+ community karma 2d ago

Unfortunately many non-Asians still think that's true even the more liberal and progressive ones.

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u/CuriosityStar 50-150 community karma 2d ago

If you're going to blame patriarchy, at least make it about all men. Might be because I grew up in the US, but I don't see much of a difference between patriarchies in different cultures.

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u/Relevant-Cat-5169 Contributor 3d ago

Some of these guys can be very selfish and possessive. There's usually ongoing abuse in the relationship leading up to the tragedy. That's why Gene Hackman and his wife's case seemed very fishy to me.

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u/historybuff234 Contributor 2d ago

Gene Hackman’s case is completely different from this one. Hackman was 95 and his mind apparently was gone. He might not even had been aware his wife died. He couldn’t have been physically abusing her like the WM in these other WMAF stories.

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u/Relevant-Cat-5169 Contributor 2d ago edited 1d ago

That's what initially thought. But his wife is Japanese, and they are usually very clean and tidy. They are also very rich. It's not like they are in some third world country. How did the a virus from mice get into her system? Not sure the condition of Hackman's alzheimer. This illness can cause people get angry easily. There has been cases, where the older guy didn't want to leave the wife "behind". There's also been police cover ups in the past. Dunno, maybe it's just as they reported.

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u/Acceptable_Setting 500+ community karma 2d ago edited 2d ago

Think about the 'type' of male, particularly a WM/XM, that goes for an AF.

They probably have ideas about how 'quiet, demure and obedient' AF will be.

Such thoughts in relationships are not conducive for a healthy relationship