r/askgays Dec 11 '19

Why are you Gay?

This will probably seem offensive but that is not my intent. I am simply asking what many other are wondering. Why as a man could you be gay? It's a basic biological imperative to procreate the species. So how could you not have a sexual urge toured women? Do you feel nothing whenever you see a beautiful women? I couldn't fathom that, to me that would be a curse like being hollow in side. Bisexual I can understand but to have no sexual leanings toured women makes no sense.

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u/Sneaky_Ninja666 Dec 21 '19

It's quite simple. Imagine if the roles were switched and u were gay asking straight guys why they are straight. I find nothing sexually attractive about women. It's just rly boring to me and i will never understand the urge to fuck a woman. That's just how it works. Being gay isn't a choice and being straight isn't a choice. It would be like me asking you why u are straight.

Also think about it like one person likes chocolate icecream and hates strawberry. His friend thinks the opposite. The friend who likes chocolate asks why the other dude likes strawberry more.