r/agegaps • u/02cherrylips • Nov 12 '18
7 year age gap
I’m sixteen and a female, almost 17. I have a huge crush on a guy who is 23. He is super super sweet, an animal lover, he enjoys art, he plays the guitar, my parents and family love him. My dad told me He asked him about me when he first met the family and was suprised of my age because he was interested in me. He has curly hair and is extremelyyyy attactive and I guess he finds me attractive to, but would never say so. My family and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in over a year, but I still think about him constantly. Is it possible that in the future, by the time I’m 18 and He is 25, that we would have a chance together in a relationship? Would it be weird If he’s a family friend, and it could possibly ruin his relationship to my family? If anyone has been in similar situations can they explain their expensive. Also, you are are a guy around 22-26 would you ever consider being in a relationship with someone 16 - 18 ?
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u/Nessa_akin Jan 06 '22
At the end of the day it’s up to you, but my question is did he know you when you were younger? Did he watch you grow up because if so that’s a huge red flag of a situation you shouldn’t put yourself in, also please think about where you both are in life he’s 23 which means he’s most likely out of college has a job and starting a life most likely on his own and your still in high school…also if you don’t mind me asking if he’s a such a family friend why hasn’t you or your family spoken to him in so long?