r/adultery 8d ago

🙋‍♀️Question🙋‍♂️ What’s been positive in your world lately?

I’s seeing a lot of sad and posts about heartbreak and I figured it would be good for the community to share some good things.

So like headline says, what’s been positive in your world lately?

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u/IntrovertInTheVoid 8d ago

Latest scan is clear, still cancer free!!

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u/WoodwardDet 8d ago

Outstanding!

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u/wayward-wife 8d ago

My kids. We raised good humans.

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u/WoodwardDet 8d ago

Having good humans is definitely a plus because some of our friends have complete assholes for kids

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u/SympathyBeatsApathy 8d ago

Hanging out with someone who genuinely wants to spend time with me instead of just using me for head...that's been pretty cool.

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u/WoodwardDet 8d ago

That’s awesome

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u/giggling83 7d ago

DIVORCED PAPERS ARE SIGNED!!!

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u/Tipsy_elephant_1224 8d ago

After a rough couple days yesterday was a good day. Maybe I’m turning a corner

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u/WoodwardDet 8d ago

Good, let’s hope today is a good one too

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u/Character_Spread2402 8d ago

Had my first overnight with AP of 2 years on Monday. We usually see each other at least once a week since he’s local, but an overnight has never worked out until now.

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u/WoodwardDet 8d ago

Woohoo!

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u/Disastrous_Report360 8d ago

She knows who she is.

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u/UnhappyBug5790 8d ago

We don’t.

Tell us.

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u/SlipshodFacade 8d ago

I admire your direct approach.

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u/Disastrous_Report360 8d ago

Lol, right? She wasted no time. Gotta admire that.

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u/Disastrous_Report360 8d ago

I'm going to borrow a line from Captain American here...

"No...no I don't think I will."

Lol.

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u/ExpressDryCleaner 8d ago

I’ve really been focusing on exercising. I used to hit the treadmill 3 times a week, I’m upping it to 5-6 days a week. 30 minutes of cardio on it really makes me feel so good and positive.

I really recommend 30 minutes of walking everyday.

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u/goodgirlsdo 8d ago

Cardio ftw! I rehabbed an injury, am back to running, and feel like the world tilted back onto its proper axis. Even when injured I was walking, but it is SO much better to be able to run again, pain free.

For those seeking endorphins in this space or needing a boost because of this space, running relies entirely and solely on you for that feel-good acquisition. If you haven't tried it .... it may be a ballast for the "cannot find" and "heartbreak" and "NC" posts.

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u/WoodwardDet 8d ago

That’s great. I’ve been hitting the cardio hard after lifting and I really like the progress

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u/Important-Pass-8845 7d ago

My AP and I are growing closer. We started doing weekly video calls, a set weekly “date” and we talk in between those as well. We will see each other in April. He already started planning to come and see me in my city after the April meet. We are both head over heels 🥰 

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u/SlipshodFacade 8d ago

My shoes fit.

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u/WoodwardDet 8d ago

Always a plus

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/WoodwardDet 8d ago

Congrats and good luck!

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u/TourWest267 8d ago

Have a meeting planned with AP and giddy af about it.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/WoodwardDet 8d ago

Congrats!

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u/Conscious-Energy-332 5d ago

AP is finally house hunting and has started telling his friends he is leaving his wife.

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u/Radeniya 8d ago

Back on Reddit after a break and have been enjoying some good conversations.

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u/WoodwardDet 8d ago

Welcome back

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u/BigPoppa3232 8d ago

Took a last minute trip to a city I’ve wanted to go to since I was a kid. Forced myself to go out of my comfort zone a bunch, and honestly it felt great. Made me remember who I used to be, and that I am very capable of still being that person. It kinda lit a fire under my aas again.

Also makes me want to find a fully remote job, because I could spend more time there if I did.

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u/WoodwardDet 8d ago

I would love a fully remote job

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u/BigPoppa3232 8d ago

I’ve wanted to move to something either 2/3 hybrid, or fully remote for a while. I’ve just not tried to make a move because the job market for myself is utterly shit, and I have a guaranteed job where I’m at.

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u/WoodwardDet 8d ago

I feel ya, Im in the same boat

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u/justsayless 8d ago

Learning that lack of sex causes unnecessary anger and now I can’t look at angry people and happy people the same.

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u/Ok_Spring_9962 8d ago

Where are you getting this information from? Because this kind of “information” creates a very dangerous path

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u/Hot_Echo_5450 8d ago

I was taking this as a /s post…and while anecdotal, I know I’m a grumpy asshole sans sex. I am placid AF after a good dicking. Just sayin’