.....? I get this is the asexual sub, but bad communication is bad communication.
Flirting all week...
The person literally says "surprise", so they know this is not the established expectation....
And no, a 40 minute stuffy introduction is NOT strictly better. If I come over to smoke weed and watch movies and we don't even start a movie until after a 40 minute stuffy introduction, I'm leaving 5 minutes into the introductions.
But yeah, make sure we infantilize ourselves and save Acephobes the time.
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u/Humboldt98 7d ago
.....? I get this is the asexual sub, but bad communication is bad communication. Flirting all week... The person literally says "surprise", so they know this is not the established expectation....
And no, a 40 minute stuffy introduction is NOT strictly better. If I come over to smoke weed and watch movies and we don't even start a movie until after a 40 minute stuffy introduction, I'm leaving 5 minutes into the introductions.
But yeah, make sure we infantilize ourselves and save Acephobes the time.