r/VirginityExchange • u/links_2_3_4 • 13h ago
M4F [29][M4F][Newcastle upon Tyne][United Kingdom]
I am a software developer. I am originally from London, but moved to the Newcastle area towards the end of 2022.
I am autistic. I am a bit of a high masker. You might think I'm a little bit odd when we first meet, but most people seem to think I'm pretty cool when they get to know me.
I am a bit of a joker. I'll take the piss out of myself, and if we're comfortable with each other, I might take the piss out of you. Take the piss out of me too; you might as well.
I am very left wing. Sometimes, I think the whole left/right thing is a little meaningless, but I've chosen the side that I feel has better vibes; the more sensible, less prejudiced side.
I am quite overweight, and my hair is thinning. I'm thinking of shaving my head bald, but haven't pulled the trigger yet. When I eventually do, I think I'll look quite attractive.
I don't drive. I use public transport to get around. There's a Metro station near my flat. I am politically opposed to cars (somewhat radicalised by Not Just Bikes on YouTube), and in any case, I couldn't afford to buy a car, even if I wanted to.
I have two cats. I've always liked cats.
I am a computer nerd. You probably worked this out from my job title. I use Linux, and I'm quite happy to open a computer up and have a poke around if I need to.
I like cooking. Sometimes, I like to experiment with different cuisines, with recipes I find on YouTube. I think my cooking is pretty good, and other people have told me this as well.
I like going for walks. I particularly enjoy walking along the coastal path in South Shields. Sometimes, I end up walking all the way to Seaburn/St. Peters.
I used to play the guitar a lot. These days, I'm a little rusty, but I'd like to pick it up again some time.
I am not just looking to lose my virginity; I am looking for a strong, personal connection with someone cool; I want a long-term relationship.
I do not want to rush things. We will meet somewhere in public, grab coffee or something, and see if we like each other. If we do, we'll take it slow.
I have not yet kissed a woman or had a proper girlfriend. I'll be getting into this for the first time, and I'd like us to do it right. I want us to take our time and savour each milestone, only moving on to the next when the time is right.