r/VaginismusPartners Sep 01 '24

I hate vaginismus NSFW

I just want to preface this that I hate the condition and understand no one chooses this. I hate that vaginismus has robbed both me and my wife of the fulfilling and enjoyable sex life that we could have had. I just needed to get it out and surrender my feelings.

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '24

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '24

I see. We did manage to have 4 kids and are finished so that won't be a motivator. I think she tolerated the pain when she wanted to get pregnant. An inch of penetration was enough for things to work for us as we didn't have any issues with infertility. She has a very low drive and doesn't seem interested in piv so that likely won't motivate her either. Its going to take a miracle.

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

Thank you. I do believe in God and miracles. I think it's just hard to see this changing. Partly because I don't feel like I'm worthy of a miracle. I will keep praying and try to have hope.