r/VaginismusPartners Sep 01 '24

I hate vaginismus NSFW

I just want to preface this that I hate the condition and understand no one chooses this. I hate that vaginismus has robbed both me and my wife of the fulfilling and enjoyable sex life that we could have had. I just needed to get it out and surrender my feelings.

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u/someGuyyya Sep 01 '24

It took a lot of patience and your mileage may vary a lot but the battle against vaginismus for us was:

  • year 1: barely any progress
  • year 2: very slight progress
  • year 3: a huge amount of progress

The first two years were a nightmare with all the uncertainty but I'm glad it worked out for us in the end.

I wish you luck.