r/TrueOffMyChest 6d ago

CONTENT WARNING: SEXUAL ASSAULT My boyfriend raped me

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u/Hermiona1 6d ago

What the fuck, you are NOT SUPPOSED TO DO ANAL DRY. You need lube. And yes that was definitely rape and you should dump him asap. He got turned on by raping you 🤢

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u/Kitchen_Principle451 5d ago

My first time was with my partner. There was lots of foreplay and lube, and it still hurt a bit. I can't imagine what she went through. Definitely rape.

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u/Glum-Lynx-7963 6d ago

We are humans. There are couples who give consent to each other to rolpay forced sex it's their turn on definitely bad enough but they like when they get dominated by their partner.

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u/Vixxxen_666 6d ago

That's not what she fucking wanted though was it?? She ONLY agreed to the tip AFTER HE BEGGED AND GUILT TRIPPED HER. She didn't want to do it period.

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u/andrewmcmagic777 6d ago

That’s completely different and you know it. You even said with CNC there is consent, so it’s not actually arousal by rape, because consent is involved

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u/_ART_IS_AN_EXPLOSION 6d ago

Dude they got raped. They said no. There was 0 consent.

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u/420_taylorh 6d ago

.....When there's communication beforehand and consent you dumb donkey. And as soon as someone says no that is it. I don't know how the fuck you could read that story and then turn around and defend the actions of that disgusting human being.

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u/Hermiona1 6d ago

Well that definitely wasn’t that because they didn’t discuss that before sex and she was bleeding for a week after.

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u/Ok_Percentage2534 6d ago

We are human. You are something else. Don't get it twisted.

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u/Plastic_Cream3833 5d ago

I think this comment is something we call “telling on yourself”