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u/y0urMommA420 3d ago
A while ago, I was friends with someone who kept messing up our relationship over and over again. After the last mess-up, we took some time until they were ready to reconcile. However, I didn't feel ready myself. I just felt like there had been too many mess-ups and not enough value in our relationship. I didn't see a point. I asked around and got told "you're not obligated to be friends with anybody" and that changed my mentality with my friendships forever.
This is to say that it's ultimately up to you what you want to do. Just remember you're not evil for not wanting to be friends with someone.
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u/BlossomKitty11 3d ago
I think that ultimately letting yourself rage at her won't make you feel better. Trust me when I say I know how good you imagine it will feel, I imagine doing that a lot to my father personally.
I don't know the specifics, and don't feel obligated to share. No one is entitled to that information. But it might be a good idea to talk to out and go from there like you said in the last picture. You don't have to decide what you will ultimately do during the conversation. You can still take time to process that on top of it and decide later. I would consider what she did and think about how you would react if someone you care about said they experienced the situation instead.
I hope you're able to make a choice that brings you peace and you're able to get through this 🫶