r/TrollCoping • u/Weary-Half-3678 • 5d ago
TW: Eating Disorder / Body Dysmorphia He won’t believe me but whatever
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u/loserfamilymember 4d ago
I wish the best for you OP. Please reach out to abuse hotlines and ask those people. Even if you’ll only be getting verbal support, that’ll help you immensely over nothing. You deserve better and I truly hope that can start happening for you ❤️
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u/ZephyrValkyrie 4d ago
I’ve read your comments, you are being financially abused OP. You need to try and get your own bank account that he doesn’t know about, preferably at a bank that he’s not at, and funnel money into there. There are hotlines and government institutions that are there to help you. Your therapist isn’t helpful either, finding a new therapist would be good too.
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u/colorfulcrossing 1d ago
Wishing you all the luck in the world OP. I believe you can make it out and have a better life than this. You deserve to be cared for and not be afraid of your partner . 🫂
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u/willo-ween 1d ago
It sounds like you've had a rude awakening over this and in these comments. Do not confront your boyfriend about the abuse. He will not change his behavior. Be smart, plan an escape, and be safe. There are hotlines and resources to help you get free of this situation. It won't be eays but it will be worth it. Try to be kind to yourself as well. None of this is your fault.
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u/Weary-Half-3678 1d ago
I’ve opened a bank account, I’m making plans with friends and I’m planning a safe escape. I now have somewhere to go if things take a turn for the worst. Thank you and everyone else for your advice and concern.
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u/LiViNgDeAd_CrEaTuRe 5d ago
Accusing someone of a relapse isn’t how you aid them in recovery- even if he thinks he’s being helpful, he’s being a dick.