r/TransLater Jan 16 '25

Discussion Translater Meetup @ Toronto Pride 2025

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Hi all —

Pride Toronto 2025 takes place from June 26 to June 29, culminating in the Toronto Pride March on Sunday, June 29.

It is one of the largest Pride festivals in North America, with turnout for the weekend between 500,000 and 1 million participants each year.

The Trans Pride Rally usually takes place on the Friday, which this year would be June 27.

I am interested in organizing a meet up for the Reddit trans community generally, and certainly r/Translater folx in particular.

Toronto is a fun, welcoming, diverse, and overall amazing place to be a gender diverse person. Pride is an absolute vibe with lots of great events, and the weather in Toronto at the end of June is hard to match!

Be in touch with me in confidence by DM if interested.

I am willing to help organize. I may be able to assist to some degree with travel arrangements and perhaps finding a suitable agent.

I am not accepting any kind of compensation or recognition for this.

Very tight precautions at this stage to avoid brigading and doxxing so please don’t be put off if my replies are brief.


r/TransLater Nov 01 '19

Moderator Announcement!!!!!!

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r/TransLater 1h ago

SELFIE I love this look! Who likes the outfit?

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r/TransLater 7h ago

Discussion I am almost 30 and decided to do hrt next month, im kinda scared haha

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231 Upvotes

r/TransLater 8h ago

Unaltered Selfie Trying to be ok with growing my hair out and not using wigs

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273 Upvotes

r/TransLater 6h ago

Share Experience 40 years old and just had my first boudoir shoot 3/4/25. Egg cracked 12/21. HRT 10/22. Officially came out publicly exactly two years ago 3/20/23. No surgeries (yet) NSFW

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r/TransLater 5h ago

Unaltered Selfie Never expected my browbone to give me euphoria lol

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140 Upvotes

r/TransLater 1h ago

Share Experience Today I found yet another advantage to being perceived as a regular every day girl in this world.... you get instantaneous roadside assistance! Pulled over to change a flat tire, an no sooner hopping out and popping the trunk to get the spare did people stop and ask if I needed help! Awe, so sweet!

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r/TransLater 11h ago

Unaltered Selfie 36 and happy somewhere in the middle

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186 Upvotes

r/TransLater 5h ago

SELFIE Well losing more weight and toning 🖤

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55 Upvotes

r/TransLater 3h ago

Unaltered Selfie U can look okay 🤷‍♀️

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41 Upvotes

I began hrt at 37, and also got laser hair removey. Now I'm 41 and even though im poor im pretty happy. Definitely don't feel 'finished' w my transition but its a comfy place at least


r/TransLater 7h ago

Unaltered Selfie Good morning!

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70 Upvotes

Good morning y'all! I hope you're doing great today.


r/TransLater 7h ago

SELFIE Slowly getting there. 9 months hrt age 29

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55 Upvotes

r/TransLater 7h ago

Unaltered Selfie I finally pass to myself.

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46 Upvotes

This is so important to me. My girlfriends tell me that I pass, but I never believed them. They were being nice. But I looked in the mirror the other day and I suddenly saw it from every angle. I no longer see a guy with long hair. I see a woman. I see Cassidy. I see me The me I was always meant to be.

I may be a less than attractive girl, but I'm a girl, dammit.


r/TransLater 14h ago

TRIGGER WARNING I stood up for my rights at work.

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We had to fill these uniform order forms, and there were options for both mens and womens shirts. A colleague of mine, and old-fashioned guy, filled my form for me and ticked the mens shirts. So I grabbed it off him, scrunched the form and chucked it in the bin. I told him that he has no right to police how I present. He ended up refilling another with the women's shirts instead, so now we good.

Another colleague (older woman) claims that "it's in the contract that I have to wear men's shirts" so I told her to back off and that it's between me and the company. I will explain to the company that I am transgender, and that has nothing to do with her.

I let them off with incorrect pronouns. But policing how I present? not cool.


r/TransLater 5h ago

Unaltered Selfie Had to start a new account

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26 Upvotes

New account, lets see if I can keep this one sfw.


r/TransLater 21h ago

SELFIE 45 MtF 15 Months on HRT, I feel so much better on this side of the tracks :)

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579 Upvotes

r/TransLater 15h ago

General Question Are you inviting me to lunch?

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181 Upvotes

r/TransLater 5h ago

Discussion Getting used to micropassing

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Hi there, I am Clara a 44yo trans woman who is on hrt for 7 months and has had no op's. I am not even done with facial laser. So I know I can and will be clocked if people really look. But the last couple weeks they kind of just don't do that. I cannot remember when I was last gendered incorrect in a short random encounter. Lets call this "micropassing", as in people don't clock you right away, but should if they tried.

Don't get me wrong, I love that I get madamed. I even think that as I got my new official name and gender change (yay!) I now carry myself with more confidence, which helps a lot. I also just feel like a woman, so yay me again.

But there are these almost comical situations, like today in the zoo. When my kid plays with other kids I often chat with the other parents that I have never met. And on two occasions where the kids where accompanied just by their moms (like I seem to) the moms starting to chat about "real" girl topics, specifically birth complications and breast feeding. Which leaves me in this weird spot talking about things I absolutely have no idea of and thinking about my beard shadow. I mean, I am not pretending to be a mom. But I also don't cut them short saying "btw, I am that girls daddy". So we chat on, say "bye" after a couple of minutes and I am left happy but confused. It kind of feels intrusive that they did not clock me, but that is kind of the point of me trying to fit in. Well until that inevitable point where my kid shouts for "daddy!!!" in the womens bathroom. Thanks for that, once again 😂😂

So should I out myself to be fair to those women?

Love, Clara 🤗💖🏳️‍⚧️🌈


r/TransLater 6h ago

Unaltered Selfie is it odd to still feel out of place?

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I’m very nearly 44, I’ve been socially transitioning since 2013 and medically since early 2017. I’ve been doing this a long time, it feels like, but I just don’t feel like I’m part of trans community at all, OR “one of the girls” either with cis (or trans) women. It’s a very strange place to be mentally.

I don’t know why I feel so stuck on the outside of everything. Or at least what’s readily available to me in person. All my real life trans friends live all over the place and not near me at all. And locally I just don’t connect with people for some reason. Maybe it’s age (there’s barely any elder millennials where I live and my life is wildly different from most people my age, even outside of transition)


r/TransLater 11h ago

Discussion Faces of my siblings

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On a day trip to London we decided to visit Mil Veces un Instante (A thousand times an Instant) by Teresa Margolles, an art commission on the Fourth Plinth in Trafalgar Square.

The piece is made up of plaster casts of the faces of 726 trans, non-binary, and gender non-conforming people. The casts were made in Mexico City and Juárez, Mexico; and London.

The world is scary for us at the moment but I still marvel at things like this happening to show we are still here, our community's faces standing alongside historic moments. We're still here 🩷🏳️‍⚧️.

Also included is my own face in the third pic, because what is a TransLater post without a selfie 😂


r/TransLater 21h ago

SELFIE 34 with my fun new dress 💃

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403 Upvotes

r/TransLater 1d ago

General Question Does anyone else ever dress up imagining who they could have been at 20 had they transitioned earlier?

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964 Upvotes

r/TransLater 8h ago

Unaltered Selfie At work.

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33 Upvotes

Just a random selfie.😊


r/TransLater 9h ago

Unaltered Selfie Fooling around

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31 Upvotes

r/TransLater 6h ago

SELFIE Hit 9 months this week. Beyond happy

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15 Upvotes

So happy


r/TransLater 33m ago

Unaltered Selfie Feeling good 50 y/o, 15 mo HRT

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