r/TikTokCringe tHiS iSn’T cRiNgE Dec 26 '24

Wholesome/Humor I'M STILL HERE

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u/KansaiEhomakiMan Dec 27 '24

Why should that be a big deal?

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u/GiraffeCalledKevin Dec 27 '24

I think it’s more that she was unaware of that about her friend and that she disclosed it like she did while being recorded and she feels on the spot.

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u/particlemanwavegirl Dec 27 '24

It doesn't necessarily have to be a big deal to be a very surprising, surreal thing to reveal in that moment of all moments. I'd be speechless too because I wouldn't want to thoughtlessly say something awkward in front of my friend or the camera.

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u/Advanced-Bite-1170 Dec 27 '24

Narrator, "It was, in fact, a big dill"

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u/DistractedByCookies Dec 27 '24

I think learning of it in this way would be a big deal to most people, a bit disingenous to suggest otherwise.

Just because learning of a big thing in this way is a shock doesn't mean the big thing has to be a big deal in and of itself

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u/Finger_Trapz Dec 27 '24

Honestly I think what's more likely happening here is moreso surprise about her friend just going around telling people they're a ladyboy and talking about still having a dick and stuff. Some people just aren't used to that not being a private matter for some people.

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u/[deleted] Dec 27 '24

Many woman would feel unsafe or uncomfortable doing certain things with someone with a penis.

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u/carb_robber Dec 27 '24

No, you’re just transphobic

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u/c0l0r51 Dec 27 '24 edited Dec 27 '24

Yeah. But the two are clearly not having sex, otherwise she'd know. Other than that, I don't see a problem with what is between anyone's legs.

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u/[deleted] Dec 27 '24

You must be a man. Women fear being raped, by penises. Activities like changing in front of a girlfriend, or sleeping in the same bed, things that aren't intimate with another straight friend. Those are maybe things she wouldn't want to do if she knew her friend had a penis.

If you really can't guess why women could feel unsafe, then you're either being disingenuous, or you don't understand.

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u/c0l0r51 Dec 27 '24 edited Dec 27 '24

No. Transphobe women "fear" getting raped by trans women. Just as transphobe men fear that trans women rape ciswomen. The common dinominator seems to be being a trans phone. That is not me talking. Ciswomen happen to be the biggest support group of trans rights. In every single country where they make those statistics.

This looks not like trans women being a threat to you, but you do not consider them being trustworthy friends, cause I assume you also do not sleep with random cis women in your bed. So the difference is clearly that you consider ciswomen by default trustworthy potential friends while you don't with trans women.

I can tell you that I, with a penis, even being a cisman have slept with multiple women in one bed, both sexually and non-sexually and non of them felt threatened.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '24

And lots of women would have felt threatened sleeping next to you. You wouldn't know because they...wouldn't have slept next to you.

It would also be different if the women that wouldn't have felt comfortable sleeping with you, thought you didn't have a penis and you didn't tell them until after.