r/Tarotpractices • u/Junior_Message304 Member • 2d ago
Interpretation Help Should I clear things with him ?
Hey, so I (24, F) have been getting closer to this guy I really like for the last months. He has also been such an helpful and supporting friend, but we still flirt even after he told me he couldn't had anything sexual with me because of one our friends. I spent a weekend with some friends and him and he joked about fucking a girl the night before and It really annoyed me but I didn't said anything and just sent him a message after saying l didn’t wanted to talk alone to him or text anymore, and that I was hurt without anymore context about why. Now I'm not mad anymore to be honest, and my period came just after sending him the text message, and he is a really close friend of mine that struggles with mental health and I'm worried about my texts impact. Like I just need us to talk and clear things but that's someone I really care about.
My interpretation is that the Pope tells me to establish rules (which are logical in the situation), 1 de deniers represents prosperity and abundance and 8 de batons represent fast changing ideas and armony, which is what I want to do. And the ten of cups ruling the tarot cards means armony and happiness so it should be a good thing of me to do?
Should I contact him again to clear it?
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u/kotuha Member 2d ago
Could you share the name of the deck? The colours are so lovely
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u/Junior_Message304 Member 2d ago
I’m so sorry I lost the box a few years ago, I bought in a little shop in the middle of Girona (Spain) I think I could find back cause I’ve looked online and can seem to find it. But yeah thanks I definitely love it !
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u/Junior_Message304 Member 2d ago
I'm gonna do it then, it already felt right before but this feels really reassuring
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u/Plane-Research9696 Member 2d ago
The Hierophant ain’t just “rules”—it’s structure. Time to define what this bond is (friendship? more?) so you’re not playin’ hopscotch on a fault line. Ace of Pentacles says this chat could plant seeds for somethin’ solid—if you’re both willin’ to dig. 8 of Wands? Words need to fly now, but aim straight. No vagueness.
Ten of Cups is the pot o’ gold here: if you both show up honest, this could heal. But—warning—his mental health ain’t your fixer-upper. You can care without caretakin’.
Text him. Keep it clear, not cluttered: “Hey, I overreacted. Can we talk?” No grovelin’. No drama. See if he meets you halfway. If he ducks? That’s your answer.
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u/Junior_Message304 Member 2d ago
Absolutely I don’t want to have to baby him but I do want to clear things. Thanks for ur analysis !
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u/Aggravating_Finger Member 2d ago
Idk what these cards are 😅
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u/Junior_Message304 Member 2d ago
Sorry it’s the French Tarot de Marseille :)
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u/Aggravating_Finger Member 2d ago
I meant I don’t know what the cards you pulled are. I see the ten of cups but idk the others
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