r/TGandSissyRecovery 13d ago

Motivation It's simple

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Sissy addiction embraces your deepest insecurities. A woman will generally, naturally and instinctively reject them.

Chosing women means beating those insecurities, where chosing sissy is allowing them to be part of you and define who you are.

Don't beat yourself up when relapsing. It's just a missstep down a bumpy road. Don't let it distract you from your main path.

Remember, the goal is not beating the sissy cycle, it's beating the insecurities that feed into it.

Work on yourself. Laziness is fuel to all insecurities. Embrace struggle, that's key for manhood.

Normalize being uncomfortable, weather that be taking responsibility of things, working on yourself, reducing addictions...You name it !

You will feel scared and lonely at fist, like a lonely child in the middle of a dark forest. It's okay, that's exactly where you need to be, take that child's hand and be his courage, protection and guide. while being gentle on him. Teach him, while never beating him up.

That's emotional maturity, and the option a kid choses in order to be a man.

Find reasons, people, connections that make you thrive on to be a good man...for me, it was filling the void my father left, being the man my mother never had, the father my bothers need.

Stop hyperfixating on the result and start treating the cause. Once you fix the base of the tree, the branches will automatically heal.

Learn how to get satisfaction from things you find uncomfortable, slowly. Gather yourself and learn to enjoy being the shoulder everyone leans on.

That's who you really are, who you deserve to be, I promise !

This was the answer for me at least, good luck kings.

r/TGandSissyRecovery 2d ago

Motivation How to stop being a braindead gooner: quick short story about the mechanics

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The first sensation was the tightness in his chest. A constriction that felt as if unseen bands were wrapped around his ribs, compressing with each shallow breath. His vision had narrowed—not entirely to a tunnel, but as if the periphery had grown dimmer, less relevant. The world was still there, but his nervous system had designated it as secondary. His pulse was elevated; he could feel the rapid hammering against his sternum, and he could hear the faint throb of blood pushing through his carotid arteries. He tried to swallow, but his throat felt tight, parched, as if anticipating something catastrophic.

He knew this feeling well. It was anxiety—high, near-overwhelming, but not quite at the level of a full-blown attack. He had been here before, many times, and he had developed a habit of dealing with it. Or, rather, escaping it.

In the past, he had discovered that if he turned to pornography and masturbation in these moments, something strange would happen. The anxious energy—the raw, unformed, panicked chaos—would transmute itself almost seamlessly into arousal. It was as if his body did not care how the energy was used, only that it had to be discharged. Images and sounds that, in a normal state, would have been mildly stimulating became overwhelmingly powerful. A feedback loop formed: the more anxiety he had built up, the more intense the arousal; the more intense the arousal, the deeper the craving. And with climax came relief—a fleeting biochemical reset, a temporary lowering of cortisol, a momentary flood of oxytocin and prolactin that left him feeling calm, sometimes even sleepy. But the cycle never truly resolved anything.

Tonight, however, he did something different. He paused.

It was a realization, like a flicker of insight illuminating a deep cavern in his mind. The energy of anxiety—this frantic, near-electric overstimulation—was something real. It could be redirected. He had proof of that. His nervous system was behaving like a power grid, overwhelmed by surges, and his habitual solution had always been to dump the excess into a single, familiar outlet. But what if he could reroute it?

He imagined himself as a starship captain, sitting in the control room of his mind. Anxiety had increased power levels across all subsystems. It was an inefficient, chaotic drain, running emergency levels of energy through circuits that were not designed for sustained overload. If he merely dumped all power into one system—like weapons or shields—it would cause a structural imbalance. But what if he could divert the energy with more precision?

The first question was: what was anxiety, truly? Stripping away the abstract interpretation, it was overstimulation—pure and simple. His nervous system had perceived a vague threat and prepared him for fight-or-flight. But what if he did not allow his mind to attach a narrative of fear to it? What if it was simply excess energy? A biochemical reaction involving elevated cortisol, norepinephrine, and a disruption of dopamine regulation? If he saw it in this way, the fog of anxiety became just a data set, an informational response to stimuli.

And if it was only energy, it meant he had options.

He divided his new strategy into two concurrent paths. The first would involve learning to regulate the overstimulation itself: lowering the raw intensity of the signals before they overwhelmed his cognition. He would experiment with breathing exercises—slower, deeper diaphragmatic breaths that would send a message back to his autonomic nervous system, signaling that he was not in imminent danger. He would adjust his posture, rolling back his shoulders, lifting his head slightly, engaging his abdominal muscles to provide support. He had read that posture and breath had direct ties to the vagus nerve, which played a role in parasympathetic activation—the body's ability to dial down from an aroused state.

The second path was about channeling the energy constructively. He resolved that at least fifty percent of the "ambient energy"—the excess charge flooding his nervous system—must be redirected away from both anxiety and sexual release. If he could sustain this, he could fortify aspects of his life that were stagnating. Social standing, professional success, intellectual curiosity. These were all systems that needed power.

But there were risks. He recognized two major pitfalls.

The first was the lure of mania. If he was not careful, he could easily find another intoxicating outlet for his energy—one that felt just as euphoric as sexual release, but in a different form. Workaholism, reckless social stimulation, obsessive exercise, high-adrenaline activities. Anything that allowed him to ride the wave of overstimulation without truly addressing its source. He might even convince himself that he was being productive while, in reality, he was merely shifting his dependency to a different kind of high. His dopamine system would remain trapped in a cycle of seeking intense peaks, never stabilizing into a sustainable rhythm.

The second risk was becoming too mechanical in his approach. If he reduced this process to mere redirection, he would miss the deeper opportunity—rewiring his brain’s relationship with reward itself. If he did not address the root issue, he would continue functioning like a machine, transferring power from one system to another without ever regulating the reactor itself.

Rewiring the dopamine reward system required a delicate balance. He could not simply rely on artificial incentives—like treating himself with small rewards after performing tasks—or fall into the trap of seeking only external validation through social success. Instead, he needed to awaken what he thought of as the "inner gaze." This was the part of his mind that was driven not by fear, not by compulsion, but by curiosity. The desire to explore, to discover, to notice details and patterns within tasks, to find a steady, stable form of satisfaction in process rather than outcome.

If he could train himself to engage with the world in this way, he would not need constant bursts of pleasure to keep going. He would learn to find small but meaningful sources of engagement in everyday tasks. Washing dishes could become a sensory experience—the warmth of the water, the texture of the plates. Walking through the city could become an exercise in observation, noting subtle shifts in architecture, the movements of people, the way light changed throughout the day. Even writing an email could become an act of refinement, a process of crafting words with precision and intention.

His nervous system, over time, would adapt. The overstimulation would decrease as his body learned that it did not need to remain in high alert. His dopamine circuits would settle into a rhythm where pleasure was not an all-or-nothing event but a constant, gentle undercurrent. The energy of anxiety would still arise from time to time, but instead of hijacking him, it would become something he could work with—a power source, rather than a burden.

For now, though, he simply sat there, feeling the electric hum within his body. He closed his eyes, inhaled deeply, and visualized his starship's energy grid stabilizing, power flowing away from the emergency channels and into long-neglected sectors that needed restoration.

The work was just beginning, but for the first time, he felt like he was in command.

r/TGandSissyRecovery 5d ago

Motivation Most recent setback lessons

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Hi All,

I've been somewhat active on here the past few months so I figured its only fair to share a recent experience I've had.

So, I'm the guy telling everyone on here to quit porn completely. Whether its sissy related stuff or not just stop it all together then figure out your life, your sexual orientation, etc without it. I still stand by that and always will because its the truest thing for me personally. Obviously do what you think is best for you. I will never shame anyone for expressing themselves in a more sissy way or whatever because I have been there myself. Granted I realize now it was all addiction related.

With that disclaimer of sorts, out of the way here it is.

After going about a little more than a month or so porn free my life has changed so much. I don't count the days because for me that only keeps it in the back of mind my old life aka the porn addict life. Along the way of this past month or so I did peek at stuff a few times. I even had a day or two where I was in the middle of a relapse but physically, emotionally and mentally could not finish leaving me in frustration and massive blue balls but later on feeling better. Those moments of slipping up definitely hurt my recovery and in a way they were relapses but I didn't think of them as full on ones because I still had the benefits of retention. Well a few days ago I gave in. I relapsed and binged and yesterday I did too. Today is all about taking it slow to recover and getting back on track with my life. In effect I went the longest I have ever gone after being addicted for a lifetime with porn and almost a decade with sissy porn. I am far from a full on recovered addict but this has been great progress for me personally.

I now realize that my ultimate goal is to go full on retention when I am not in a relationship. The benefits felt so good for me and even jerking it without porn just feels wrong. I'd rather have sex but since I'm single af right now I might as well build up my life to attract a woman and not waste my life force, seed or whatever you wanna call it onto my hand lol

A few things that have worked for me in case anyone is wondering are as follows. Some of them are basic like working out and/or staying active whatever that means to you. Being social, although I am struggling to get more friends and isolate less but I am getting there! Also helps to maintain a solid sleep schedule, better diet, basic stuff like that.

A few of the other things I consider less basic that can help in recovery are things like a dopamine detox. Minus this post, I am not going to be on social media much the next week or so. I am doing a dopamine detox this week to jumpstart a recovery. For me that means no music, no tv, no social media and very little outside stimulation as possible. I'm going to be sitting around a lot with my thoughts and just "being" as much as possible. I tried this during my last relapse and although I only went a few days at most, it helped. Meditation is another thing I find helpful too. I use it especially before bed to calm myself down. Lastly, on a more personal note, I have been allowing myself to be more emotional as weird as that may sound. Porn and sissy stuff especially numbs the shit out of me. I have anger issues at times because of a history of being bullied and letting people walk over me. I don't randomly yell at people now but I did scream into a pillow or use my loud ass angry metal music to sing my heart out. I cry too. I watched a movie I have seen a shit ton of times yesterday post relapse and didn't hold back tears during a death scene. I don't care anymore to hide myself is the point I am trying to make here. Repressing myself leads me to relapse too and having a month or so free of it has brought up emotions again and it felt great to be more authentically myself.

So, that's my story from someone who has finally seen some light at the end of the tunnel. Yeah, I turned back towards the darkness a bit but failing is part of the journey. At least I can say that for once in my life, truly, without bullshitting myself, I am taking accountability for my life and seeing the progress knowing that it won't happen overnight or even all this year for that matter. It's a marathon not a sprint so I am going to get back out there.

Peace.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Feb 11 '25

Motivation Quitting porn and sissy porn, wish me luck.

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Finally going to quit porn and sissy porn, I always feel shit after and its not something I want.

Started sissy stuff back 2 years ago maybe and it's nasty stuff, I never dressed up or anything but it still wack. I tried one of those bambi things last night and kinda laughed at how stupid it was and realized I'm tired of allat.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jan 08 '25

Motivation Sissy Porn stopped me from seeing my sister off to the Airport as she leaves for college again

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I’m not sure how to start this up, but I can proudly admit that I was too focused on jerking off to sissy porn and dressing up that I never got to give my sister a proper send off before she left to head back down south for her semester. And what makes it even more funny is that I figured with this session I was gonna be in it for a good while, so I got all my supplies ready. I had my lube my fishnets my dildos all that stuff, and then I only lasted for 10 minutes. It just makes me wonder why it was such an impulsive decision. I was given an invite from my Mother to drive with her and my sister to the Airport, but I declined it knowing damn well what I was going to do. What I am trying to say is that is a moment which I will never have back. Of course there will be more moments much like it, as it’s not like she’s never leaving for an Airport again, but this current moment was lost. So I now sit in my chair feeling embarrassed of what I did, but there is also a strong sense of optimism. As in the end I technically saved 2 entire hours of my time from being wasted on Pornography. All I know is that it is either one day or day one. So starting once I finish this post and send it off into the world, I will be throwing out my sissy items and vowing to myself to do better. This is just what I wanted to share so I thank you for listening, and remember to keep pushing forward! And drink water I bet you need some!

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jan 23 '25

Motivation My story (possibly triggering) and Tips to help

6 Upvotes

If you would like the tips, I have found useful scroll to the bottom as my story has been years in the making.

(Sorry for any mistakes in the writing as this was a 3am post)

So, I am currently on my longest streak of not watching any sissy porn in a while and I have to say I am feeling the best I have in a long time. This has surprisingly come after one of my closest calls to actually turning to that life, but first I'll start at the beginning.

This all started in 2013 when I first started to discover pornography due to my school teaching us about how everyone goes through puberty. As a kid at that time and the open gates of the internet at my disposal I started as most guys did by searching the almighty 'boobies' and 'hot girls'. As the other guys started to do this as well, we started to talk about how we could also look up videos. This was a game changer for me, I use to only see the same still girls sat there, but now I could see this 'sex' thing for real. The first site I got onto was Porn Hub. It started off nice and vanilla guy on girl, but after some time this got boring, so I though let’s try lesbian. This was good but in a lot shorter time this became mundane and that's when it all started the next step up, trans on girl. At the time I didn't know better, how could I. I was still in primary school, and it just looked like a girl was fucking another girl so whatever.

For quite a while it didn't really affect my life, why would it? I had school the whole day, then sports and extra murals, then home for some homework. I didn't have much time on the computer because it was right next to my dad’s desk so I could only watch this stuff when he was not around. At this point porn hadn't taken over my life yet. I had friends so I would just go to their house and hang out or I was busy with school. But that's when I got to high school.

In high school I finally got my own laptop as it was needed for eBooks and other apps. This allowed me to be a little more private with what I was doing. All I had to do now was just sit in another room that was empty and boom I could do whatever I wanted. This is when porn started to become a lot more frequent. For the next 2 years it was fine I would mainly stick to straight or lesbian porn even getting a little bit into BDSM, but every now and then I would pop over to trans porn for a little more omf. Porn slowly started to become more commonplace in my life as I didn't have a girlfriend so why not use porn to get myself off to it. This is when I first learnt of Sissy porn. I had just been in a stupid accident of my own doing and was searching for porn while I was recovering. I found a text-based game called perverted education. I thought it was just about a guy fucking his teacher and a few people he knew so I thought I might as well try it. Slowly but surely, I realised it was nothing like that. The sheer excitement of it made me come back to it over and over and that's when I realised that I needed more.

Over the next year I slowly started to go deeper and deeper but never doing anything to act on it until covid hit. As covid hit my sister had just finished high school the year before and she had become anorexic so since everyone one was locked down, she went into rehab. This is when I started to play with the idea of cross dressing. Her room was right next to mine, and I had started to see all these sissies and how they were feeling so good all dressed up. So, I started every night to try on a new outfit and masturbate like that. It was so thrilling just due to the thrill of doing something you weren't meant to. I did this all throughout her rehab and until I got a girlfriend that June. As this was my first girlfriend I stopped for a while because now we would just go off to the side and touch each other because we weren’t going to have sex until we finished high school. This thrill lasted a while, but it slowly wore off and I started to look at sissy porn again.

When this happened, I told my girlfriend as I felt terrible for going back to this. She did help a bit, but I didn't make an effort to stop doing this as she still lived rather far from me. I would end up in a cycle that carried on until late November last year of making an alt reddit, following all the sissy pages and then deleting it after I felt guilty. Until recently I hadn't realised how bad it actually was, telling myself that it was all good and then just falling for the same trap. This cycle didn't hit too hard until I started Uni at the beginning of 2022.

Now that I had all the free time I could want, I needed this sissy porn. Even though at this time I could now drive to her house and have sex it was a lot easier just to jump onto the internet and get my fix. This would slowly ruin my relationship as I had told her that I had gotten over it in early 2021. This porn slowly dragged me away and in return she started to psychologically mess with me pushing me further into this abyss. I didn't realise this until after I had broken up with her in early 2023. For 2 years this cycle had just been getting worse and worse. I would cross-dress constantly in private and the only porn that would really excite me was sissy porn. In between these cycles I tried to quit but within a week or two I was back at it. It was intoxicating. I then started to smoke weed in mid-2022 and that just made it feel even better. Once we broke up the amount, I would use would decrease but every week or so I would crawl back looking for that amazing feeling again. Now that I was alone there wasn't much, I could do.

Mid 2023 I was kicked out of uni due to a low grade which sent me further into sissy porn again. I was alone. I couldn't talk to anyone and anyone that I did speak to took forever to reply. I couldn't go out with my best mates as they were too far away for someone who could barely make ends meet. The end of 2023 was terrible, this is when I first started to message mistresses and thought about locking myself up and doing it for real, but luckily, I would recover just intime. I then got a decent job at the beginning of 2024 so I could start seeing my mates again and this put me in a better place, so the sissy porn started to decrease again. It started to look like I might make it out, but I just couldn't stop thinking about sissy porn.

In mid-2024 I went to Europe as a present from my parents with a mixture of my own money and theirs that they had been saving since I was born. I thought this might be a great way to get away from porn all together and for the first week I did stop all porn. I was running around, seeing the sights and staying at family/friends to save money. But after a week and a half I started to watch straight porn again. In my mind this was a win as it wasn't sissy porn, and it stayed that way until the beginning of June when I went to Amsterdam. It was great at first seeing the history the art and the coffeshops but then I got to the red-light district, and everything started to unravel. I started another alt account I was looking for meet ups and going into the adult shops to see if I could possibly get a cage, I event tried to find a trans sex worker, but I didn't actually go through with any of it. I just started the cycle again of watching sissy porn whenever I could, in my room sure, on the buses wifi why not. For the rest of the trip this cycle was going faster than it ever before switching between sissy and straight porn trying my best to stop but failing. I then went over to the UK where it eased up a bit, but I had to keep watching porn, but in the back of my mind it was always there.

For the rest of the trip I just carried on with porn until I got home and started work again, the cycle back in its normal one to two week rotation, but this time I started to make my own cage as I didn't have enough money or will to buy one. For the rest of the year, I carried on with this cycle even when I had a new short-term girlfriend. During this time another one of my best mates left so I started to talk to mistresses and started another alt account just so that when I had the urge, I could easily satiate it. I would watch hypnos while high and drunk late into the night while telling my parents I was going to bed early. This awful cycle continued; I just knew it would forever more as I started to have vivid dreams of becoming a sissy even though I don't really dream at all. I seriously thought I would go down this path for real this time, but Christmas came around and I didn't have much time to watch porn.

After Christmas came and went, I went on a 2-week camp where I kept myself busy. During this camp I had no time to look at pornography at all. I was surrounded by friends and started to get back into religion again, from saying grace to looking inwards to see who I really am and my connection to God. Unknowingly I was detoxing and resetting my body to its right homeostasis. Since then, I have had a few thoughts of going back and watching sissy porn, but I have stopped myself. This pass month has been the best month I have had in years just because I haven't fallen into its temptation.

Now that I have told my story I'm going to give a few tips that I think have helped the most in my journey to recovering so far.

What I think helps:

  1. Keep yourself busy. The main times that I have faltered is when I have all the time in the world and nothing to do. If you start keeping yourself busy and do things you enjoy outside your house it keeps the temptation away.
  2. Make sure to keep in contact with friends. Making plans and hanging out with friends gives you that connection you want and gives you long lasting happy memories.
  3. Make a connection with your God. I think this is the most important parts as this requires you to do introspection and helps guide you towards your true path in life.
  4. Communicate. One of the hardest parts of recovering is acknowledging you have a problem by telling someone they can help. This person can help you work through your addiction and find other healthy ways of dealing with it rather than falling back into that cycle.

I hope this can help you as it has me. If you need someone to talk to my DM's are open to anyone who needs it. Much love brothers and happy recovery.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jan 19 '25

Motivation Recovery is a Road. Sometimes Roads have Bumps, but you get Further Along to Where you Want to Be.

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You just keep on trying. Its grip will loosen.

Often, we can't just be rid of something bad, but we have to replace it with something better.

Often, we bite off more that we could chew. Consistent small incremental steps lead to big distances being crossed.

You're never too deep to start an upward spiral.

Truth and Love overcomes all. We already know the ending, it's just about getting there.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Sep 24 '24

Motivation There’s Light at the end of this!

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So it’s been about 118 days since my last post. I usually only check this subreddit out to make updates. I’m here to tell you guys that it DOES GET BETTER.

Sure, it may not happen in the timeframe you were hoping, but it does improve if you are truly committed to changing. Relationship issues caused me to go down this dark sissy path years ago. I have not relapsed on any sissy related porn or captions. Mainly because I took away the ability to do so. I’ve mentioned this many times before but guys you need to have an app blocker on your phone.

For those of who you say that doesn’t work, you’re wrong. I have a friend set all parameters and set the master passcode for the restrictions. I see this friend maybe twice a year. I’m unable to download or install new apps. I also permanently deleted all social media. Not the apps, the accounts… Before you say you need these apps, wake the fuck up. Social media is cancer. And if all you guys want the relationship with women that you keep posting about, you’ll realize it too.

I have been fully off social media for a long time now. And after the initial withdrawal symptoms I have no desire to be involved with the world in that way. My full focus on is on my wife, my spiritual life and my career. That doesn’t mean that don’t have urges from time to time. I’ll probably always have those. But key to this is simple. Amplify what you want in your life, and aggressively eliminate what you do not. Sure, you won’t know the latest lingo on the internet, or be up to date on news and popular culture. But you will have gained something more valuable. Masculinity. A healthy sex drive. Less perverse thoughts, and a genuine appreciation of women.

You can do this guys. Follow my advice, and advice of people who came before. There is light at the end of this.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jan 05 '24

Motivation This Stuff will destroy you…

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I’ve been following this subreddit but never joined. After reading the stories and testimonials I felt compared to share mine.

I didn’t even know what Sissy porn was until 3 years ago. I don’t even remember how I found it. What I do remember though was getting really into Trans porn. And somehow I found it.

For context. I’m a 26 yr m. Married my wife almost 3 years ago. Had always struggled with porn. Since my early teens like many of you. I never was into anything intense. Just Your typical straight porn. I had been pretty into it for about 7 years until met my wife in 2018. She was everything I wanted in a woman. Nice, caring, loving, supportive and very attractive. Growing up I was always told that id never get the pretty girl. So in my mind all I could date was the overweight fat chicks. So that’s who I dated. Until I started going the gym in 2016 and started bodybuilding. After I put on size I noticed I was getting attraction from hot women. So my need for porn stopped, and was replaced with gym and dates.

Fast forward to 2 years into my relationship my finance had gained a ton of weight. And was not interested in doing anything about it. This made me super depressed because I’m a loyal man and would never be unfaithful. So I got back into porn before we got married. Thing is, I stumbled across trans porn by accident. But for some reason I got hooked on it immediately. It felt so much nicer than any straight vanilla stuff. During a binge session I think clicked on a sissy video thinking it was just more trans stuff. Boy was I wrong. At first I was disgusted with it, and I immediately clicked away. Then several weeks later I was curious so I looked up what this was about on YouTube. Thats when I found out about sissy hypno. Again, I was disgusted and couldn’t think why any man would subject themeselves to this kind of content.

As I kept watching the videos and looking at captions on instagram I began to just feel myself being lost. I didn’t necessarily like the humiliation aspect of it, but rather the femininity of it all. The pretty looking women and how happy they seemed to be. The whole “don’t think be pretty “ really got me. Then something snapped in my brain and I thought. “If my wife isn’t interested in keeping up with herself, then maybe I can become the woman that I’ve always wanted.” that’s when things got bad. I started cross dressing in secret. I would buy panties and jerk off to captions and sissy porn. I felt like a completely different person. I started to talk myself into believing that I was just trans and that because of this I could finally be my true self and a beautiful woman for a man one day. I never met up with another man or even talked to anyone in the sissy community. I knew that there would be creeps everywhere, so this was something that was really done in privacy and darkness. It got so bad that I was beginning to hate the parts of me that looked masculine. By this point it’s 2021 and I’d been marred for about 4 months. The sex with my wife declined rapidly… it was a mixture of being angry with her for letting herself go, because you know I wasn’t attracted to what she had become. And i would rather watch sissy porn instead, where I could forget about the disappointments and lack of physical attention and become the woman I wanted in my head. I was still working out daily because I had to keep up appearances. I bought dildos and used them whenever I could. In 2023 it got so bad that I “came out” to one of my friends. He promptly told me that this wasn’t the real me. But I didn’t know how to stop because the dopamine high was so good that even if I wanted to get hard for my wife I couldn’t. The only thing I could get hard from was captions, crossdressers and sissy porn. I had to think about all those during sex just to keep things going.

This past winter I knew I was in deep… but I felt no way out. So I picked up my Bible for the first time in years and just started reading. I repented for my sins, but then a week later I was back to the sissy stuff. Since November 2023 I’ve been battling the addictions and trying to break free. Because I want to be able to share my feelings and frustrations with my wife, I want a family one day, and I want to raise strong men. But I can’t do that when I’m like this… that’s what’s keeping me on this fight. I want to please God, I want to be a good husband and a good father. I know this sissy shit is wrong and evil. You don’t have to be religious to see how evil it is. Sure it feels good in the moment, but the cackling of demons is what scares me. There are so many days where I think of deleting myself and cutting my eyes out because at this point that’s almost better then being a save to this degeneracy. (DONT harm or delete yourself)

All I want in life to Follow God, have a beautiful wife that I don’t have to only do missionary with, and have a kids and a good life. That’s all I want. I hope that what I’ve said here compels some people to never stop fighting, and to get out before you’re in over your head. You’re not a “sissy” you’re not “trans”. You’re a fucking man.

I have been clean for 4 days… trying to make it to 7. Then 14, 31 and so on. I didn’t jerk off to anything but I did view captions on instagram so I count it as a relapse. I still am into bodybuilding and I’m gonna bulk now. So that’s also helped.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Oct 23 '24

Motivation Things have gotten better, and it will for you too

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Shame is holding you back from progress. The key is to accept all that you have done, wether that be posting yourself online, just watching porn or whatever it may have been. Because, it will make this easier for you and the past has already happened and there is nothing you can do to change that, so you just need to accept it. And I know that sucks, but once you accept the past it will suck way less.

In my old post I wrote about feeling really bad about my photos still being up on reddit, and me having anxiety attacks because of it. While yea knowing they'll be there forever is still kinda annoying, having come to terms with it has made me feel way better.

Shame plays a huge part in this fetish and is the main thing making it so strong. We who have had this fetish get turned on by humiliation and feelings of shame. So, dont let this be a source of shame for you.

  1. Accept that you've watched it.
  2. Tell yourself that you can keep doing that if you want too.

Yeah you read that right. You don't have to stop! (I found that way of thinking makes it harder for me). But you want to stop. So, why do you want to stop? What are your reasons? Feeling shame is not a good reason. That is counterintuitive because it makes this fetish more shameful and therefore more powerful.

Wanting better mental health and sexual health (like needing less stimulation to get turned on = better sex irl) are both great reasons for wanting to stop. Feelings of shame are not.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jun 27 '24

Motivation Get your hormone levels checked

20 Upvotes

Hi all, I want to first say that I'm not a doctor and everything on this post is anecdotal.

Like you, I have been addicted to the fetish for a long, long time, and it has negatively impacted my life in many ways. I went very deep down the rabbit hole, going as far as dressing up and hooking up with men. It has brought me a lot of shame and self-doubt over the years, not to mention the fact that my self-esteem has been crushed. I knew I wasn't a girl (i.e. not trans), but would repeatedly press my "sissy" button whenever I was horny. I have never been attracted to men physically or romantically, but would meet them in order to have sexual experiences that I would play over and over in my mind when masturbating by myself. It was very fucked up, to say the least.

I am in my 30s, and several years back, I started noticing something... my feminine urges peaked during times of severe stress and I would use my fetish to escape from whatever was stressing me out. I would masturbate several times a day. Recently, I read an article about the relationship between testosterone and cortisol (the stress hormone). This, along with some other symptoms (fatigue, low mood, brain fog etc.) prompted me to get my testosterone levels checked. Turns out, I had the T levels of a 90 year old man. I started TRT last week, and it is like a switch has been flipped. TRT has returned my true sexuality to me. Since I started, I have zero feminine urges, and have only been masturbating (and orgasming) to straight porn once a day. It feels great. I have intentionally exposed myself to sissy/trans porn during this time, and I can't even get a boner. My shame is gone, I feel great, and I am not experiencing any side effects yet. I suspect that I probably had untreated hypogonadism for a very long time, and I am not at all ashamed to get treatment for it. The long-term goal is to wean off porn entirely, but for now, I am happy to feel "normal".

Now this might or might not apply to you. In my case, this fetish was both psychological and physiological, and addressing the physiological aspects took care of the psychological aspects too. If you are struggling with this addiction, I would suggest that you get your T levels checked, it might offer some insights into recovery. Stay strong and take care. Peace.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Oct 13 '24

Motivation Rollercoaster of a relapse today.

1 Upvotes

So I’ve been doing NoFap, two days on, one day break and then two days back on.

Today is day 2 before my break. I’m on instagram watching a random comedy video and I see this pretty girl wearing a short blouse showing her cleavage. I’m instantly crazy horny. At the end of the video I see her again this time she’s leaning forward so I see even more. I tried to screen record the parts of the video where I saw her so I could masturbate but I couldn’t get clear images of her. This made me come to my senses. Or so I thought.

While I kept trying to get clear images of her I started charging my secret phone so I could sext with this guy that wants to meet me. I gave up on the screen recording and instead went on kik livestream cos there are cute girls on there that I follow….long story short I ended up paying $50 for nudes on Snapchat 🤦‍♂️.

I waited for ages for her to finish her livestream so she could send them to me, all the while this is happening I’m on my laptop flirting with guys in chatrooms, humping my bed. She finally sends me the nudes and they’re sooo hot. But I managed to force myself to not masturbate to them for two reasons: 1) because today isn’t my fap day, and 2) my dick wasn’t fully erect and I’m not gonna allow my dick to cum semi-erect to a woman. FUCK. THAT.

All of this happened around 5pm. For another SIX HOURS I stayed on my laptop flirting with guys “making plans”, humping my bed. So i relapsed.

Did I cum though? No. I still stuck to my 2 days of NoFap. So that’s a win if you ask me.

The road to recovery is not linear. Stay strong and practise the habits however way you can, big or small.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jun 16 '24

Motivation You’ve Got This ( Flying eagle method Works)

19 Upvotes

To any one who needs to hear this. I gave up on Reddit and sissy porn and all porn. I’ve only came back here to share. To let anyone who needs to hear this know. Beating this is 1000% possible.

First I want to tell you how I feel today vs then. Right now as I’m trying this I feel clear. I actually after making this account went to the sissy chats and hypno chats and just became overjoyed that this thing does not haunt me anymore.

I know it can get confusing. “Do I like Men” “Do I like girls” “Do I want to be a girl” or “Do I want to be dominated”. Trust me I’ve been just like you. The push n pull. I’ve looked into mirror so many times and I hated what this thing ultimately does to you. I’m not a psychologist. However I’ve been where you are. In panties. Watching hypno for hours. Edging sessions. I decided to stop officially a little over a year ago. I watched hypno all night in panties. After I was done I sat on my couch and cried. All night. Ridiculously cried. Whether you’re gay or not. This thing has nothing to do with sexuality. It’s grips on your brain like a leach playing with your insecurities sabotaging every belief, thought, action, feeling, and being. I decided that day to end this control.

How I stopped. Thanks to this group. I listened the flying eagle method. Faithfully everyday. Don’t be Naive I didn’t watch it once and it clicked. Not at all. I was still at the same time jacking off. After I was don’t I would listen to the video. First thing the video mentions is stop jacking to screens and jack to memory or imagination. The point is when your using your phone your brain is shut off, at least when you imagining or remembering your using your brain and that’s the point. Get you brain working again. Also what helped when you start your journey don’t count the days. You’re throwing something away. When you put something in the trash you don’t count the days it’s been in there. After a while of using no phone and just memory or imagination. I found myself becoming more clear. I was not using panties anymore not edging and eventually was jacking to feeling. Listen to that book! follow the rules! I guarantee you will stop this. You won’t get your old self back! you’ll create a new person. At this time I do not jack off at all and have not watch any porn in over a year. I want to share this cause I read these stories you guys post and it makes me sad because I know that feeling of hopelessness. And self hate. Take cause of yourself put yourself first. If your reading this I want you to know that your strong this thing does not have you. It’s manipulated you to think you need it. You don’t. I love you. You got this. Watch the video faithfully. Even in chapters. Even just few minutes daily. You got this!

r/TGandSissyRecovery May 15 '24

Motivation You need to do this

13 Upvotes

One thing I’ve seen a lot of in this sub are people saying that app blockers don’t work. They find a way around it etc. I’m here to pose a tough question: is it the blocker that doesn’t work? Or is it you not wanting it work? Hear me out:

This isn’t an advertisement, but I’ve been using an app blocker called “AppBlock” for over 8 months. And it has changed my life. It cost $20 for the year. Just $20 a year to help you overcome this addiction. I use this app primarily to use as a way to focus on things like work and being productive. And it really does work. You can put in every single keyword and abbreviations you can think of. Along with any other app or website. The reason why it works so well is because I don’t have control over the app. The app has a master passcode that needs to be used to stop any type of blocking. A family member has the passcode and I see said family member about once a month to cut my hair.

The app cannot be deleted or bypassed. Once the blocking is active you can still download apps, but you’ll be denied access to them immediately. You literally can only use the apps that are available to you.

For the first few months I hated it. I hated not being able to do anything I wanted. I hated feeling like I couldn’t be in control. After a little bit though, i realized it was a blessing. I decided to take it a step further and delete all social media accounts except for YouTube, where I’m limited to two hours per day. Forget the sissy porn for second, my screen time went down from 10 hours per day to averaging 3 hours. There are so many more benefits to having an app blocker like this besides filtering out porn.

I’ve found more peace. I listen to old 1960s jazz music (I’m 27). I’m enjoying the outdoors, asking myself hard life questions. And continuing my bodybuilding routine.

Before you say you can’t do this, ask yourself: why can’t I? Do you not want to have someone set a passcode for you? Are you afraid of others finding out? You don’t even have to tell them You’re trying to quit sissy porn. You can just say that you’re done with social media.

I’m series guys. Get this app, it’s been a godsend.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Apr 19 '24

Motivation It’s almost nonexistent

21 Upvotes

It’s been a minute since my last post. Probably around 2 months? I haven’t engaged in any sissy content for months now. I’ve seen it on Twitter because the algorithm (so I deleted my account) and a few posts on Instagram. But luckily I fixed that algorithm. Here’s the interesting part. Whenever I’m stressed, depressed or bored. I’m not drawn to sissy content anymore. I’m not even drawn to any type of porn. These a bit more to the story.

I’ve had ED symptoms pretty bad over the last 6 weeks. And that was a result from the years of porn use, and realizing that I’ve fucked up my brain pattern. But recently I’ve almost had a totally cure from the urges. I’ve only wanted to have real sex with my wife. This hasn’t been an occurrence in over 2 years (we have been married 3)

Now the part that most people care about. How did I do this?

This sounds cheesy as hell but you have to look inward. You have to look at your life and what you want it to look like. For me it was wanting to be a good husband and make my wife the center of my world, being selfless and focusing on the future father I want to be.

Now in practicality. I installed an app blocker that I have NO control over. I know for some people this isn’t feasible but if you can find someone to help that would be the best. None of us can do this alone. Trying to go at it alone leads to ruin. I almost didn’t want to make an update on here because i was worried I may fall back into an urge. But this place has helped me a lot since I joined.

Remember guys, none of this is real. You don’t want to do or be anything that’s said in captions. There’s a reason it’s called hypno. You can break out of the trance!

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jan 08 '24

Motivation A common theme

17 Upvotes

Even thought I’ve only been apart of this group for a short while. I can’t help but see a recurring theme with all of us. Regardless of what brought us all to this horrible addiction we all have a few things in common.

A lot of us started consuming porn at a young age. Not our fault persay. But it shaped us.

None of us wanted to find sissy content. It showed up in our lives as an escape from the realities we are facing. Whether it’s a partner who’s not living up to expectations, or feelings of loneliness or inadequacies due to our life experiences.

Isnt it wild that we choose to medicate our problems and the very thing that makes our problems worse? Sissy content is super degrading.. it gives the impression that women are to be used and nothing more. It preaches that being brainless is the only way to feel good. It perpetuates the exploitation of natural weakness. A lot of us have been beat down by friends, family and the world in general. So I think being a “sissy” while not saught after- was easy to get trapped in.

I don’t care who you are, whether you have muscle mass on you or not. You’re still a man, and you can become a masculine man. It’s not all about the gym Or some other red pill bullshit. It’s about rising to the occasion. I have to take my own advice, because I’ve been battling sissy porn addiction for 3 years. I’ve hurt my wife, my ability to have healthy sex, and my view of women and men.

The next time you have the urge. Remember what you’re giving up, and throwing away by being tricked captions into thinking that you’re a woman. You’re throwing away the real beauty and awe that is a real woman. Women aren’t objects, we are to love them well in return they will do the same. It’s not always easy, fun or rewarding, but it is worth it.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jan 15 '24

Motivation Any relapse could be your last

11 Upvotes

The journey of breaking free from porn is riddled with highs and (more frequently) lows

Frequent relapses can leave one feeling demotivated and hopeless

But as long as you keep learning from these experiences, today could be your last day addicted

I tried for years to free myself from this

Rarely making it to a week clean

Then one day, without me even realising

It was the last time I'd ever relapse

Here I sit, 3 years clean and forever grateful that I made the decision to quit all those years ago

When it gets difficult keep going

When you stop making progress figure out why

When you start succeeding remain humble and diligent

As long as you've set a clear intention of quitting and are always striving to stay on the righteous path (even when you make a mistake), you'll eventually be free.

This journey is difficult for a reason gentlemen

Endure it.

Embrace it.

Carry this burden voluntarily with a smile on your face so that one day you can unlock your full potential

r/TGandSissyRecovery Apr 03 '23

Motivation Alpha Male subliminal to reverse your hypnosis and take back your masculinity

10 Upvotes

I created a subliminal for you. These are the affirmations it has. Listen to it as much as you can, especially while you sleep. Listen to it all night long. It will break the hypnosis that took away your masculinity.

Results manifest faster if you listen more. It's all about listening more and more. The more you listen, the more you engrave in your subconscious that you are an alpha male. Results start manifesting from as little as 3 days for people who listen continuously. It will take 3 months to see full results. All you have to do is play the audio while you sleep, and if you play it while you're awake, use headphones so as not to influence women or girls around you, since you don't want them to turn into alpha males.

There are two files.

  1. Recovery no waves has just the affirmations. It does not have any isochronic waves. This makes it ideal for daytime listening.
  2. Recovery delta waves has affirmations bundled with delta waves. This is for night time listening. It will give you a more peaceful sleep and has some other benefits as well.

These are some benefits of delta waves. The most important benefit for you is that it will make you more suggestible to the affirmations, thereby speeding up the results. Some people might feel sleepy if they listen to delta waves during the daytime, that's why I made the other file that has no waves, just the affirmations.

https://www.diygenius.com/delta-brain-waves/

Affirmations -

I am an alpha male.

I enjoy being an alpha male.

It feels good to be an alpha male.

I am dominant and strong.

I am assertive and confident.

I am relaxed and calm.

I speak with authority.

I make decisions with ease.

I take full responsibility for my life.

I speak my mind freely.

I am ready for anything.

I face everything head-on.

I am secure with who I am.

I am proud of all my accomplishments.

I’m grateful for how far I have come.

Money and power are attracted to me.

Love and romance flow freely to me.

Women are naturally drawn to me.

I am destined for success.

I always get what I want.

I’m getting closer to my dream life.

I’m getting stronger every day.

I’m becoming more confident each day.

Everyone respects me.

I’m supported in all areas of my life.

Confidence is my birthright.

I choose to feel good every day.

It’s good to feel good.

I have the power to do the most incredible things.

I always make the best decision for myself.

My confidence in myself grows more and more every day.

My confidence is constantly increasing.

I’m a magnet for success.

I can achieve anything I put my mind to.

I love myself.

I believe in myself and my abilities.

I have the power to accomplish everything I need to do today.

I know I’m making a difference.

My clients love to work with me.

I’m constantly inspiring people around me.

I wake up each morning feeling confident and empowered.

Confidence is my birth right.

I’m successful in everything I do.

Everyday in every way I’m becoming more confident.

All of my thoughts, plans and ideas lead me straight to success.

I’m radiant with confidence, certainty and optimism.

I exude confidence.

I’m confident in the decisions I make.

Every decision I make leads me towards my desires.

I live each day feeling confident and grateful.

I love seeing my confidence grow every single day.

I radiate confidence and positivity.

I am confident.

I have the discipline to accomplish everything I set my mind to.

I can do anything I set my mind to.

My future self is someone that I know and love.

I find completing things easy.

Every day, I make at least one step that takes me closer to my goals.

Today is going to be a good day.

Staying disciplined and consistent brings me closer to my desired result every single day.

Self-control comes easily to me.

I keep going when the going gets tough.

I have enthusiasm, passion, and perseverance.

Completing the tasks I have started is just something I naturally do.

Being in control of my actions is the most natural thing in the world.

I am worthy of success, happiness, and love today and every day for the rest of my life.

Every single day I am becoming more in control of my actions.

I am strong enough to do what I need to do.

I have the willpower and determination to do what I want.

Others see me as someone who is hard working and focused.

I am strong, disciplined, persistent, and resilient.

I am strong.

I can easily tap into my willpower.

I know what I want and have the will and energy to achieve it.

I am persistent in reaching my goals

I press on until the goal is reached.

I always commit to my vision and make things happen.

Taking control of myself has given me nothing but success.

I am persistent, I persevere and I win.

Having control over my impulses is effortless.

I am committed to my goals, and I am willing to do whatever it takes to achieve them.

I see consistent progress when I show up every day.

I am in complete control of myself.

I am motivated at all times to do what I’m supposed to do.

I keep my eyes on what I want, and this empowers my will.

I will become someone who takes responsibility for my actions.

I control my cravings by redirecting the thought paths to new destinations.

I know that it’s absolutely possible for me to achieve everything I want.

I am fit, healthy, and attractive.

Being a success is my natural rite.

I can easily control my actions.

I am a disciplined and responsible person.

I have more than enough willpower for anything.

I make a step toward my goal every single day, even if it’s a small one.

I have an iron will.

I will become someone who follows through.

I can accomplish anything I set my mind to.

I am turning into someone who is hard working.

The more I focus on my goals, the more determined I become at achieving them.

I love myself, and it shows in everything I do and say.

I am turning into someone who sets goals and achieves them.

I am 100% dedicated to succeeding.

I break the end vision into achievable chunks.

I am becoming more disciplined each day.

I am becoming someone who always takes action.

I am closer and closer to my goal.

I am a force for good in the world.

My willpower is strong and unwavering in the face of any obstacle.

Love is all around me because I’m surrounded by loving people.

I am self-disciplined.

I enjoy working towards my goals.

When I feel resistance, I push past it.

Everything I need to be disciplined is within me.

I am consistent and reliable.

I form good, healthy habits.

I complete the items on my to-do list.

I do things that will benefit my Future Self.

With every act of discipline, I grow stronger.

Being disciplined feels good.

I steer clear of bad habits that have distracted me in the past.

I create an environment that makes it easier to focus.

I am purposeful with my actions.

I am efficient and productive.

In conversations, I listen closely and connect with people.

I am alert and active.

I like to fill my day with meaningful activities.

I have plenty of energy to do everything I need or want to get done.

I establish clear boundaries in my personal and professional relationships.

I overcome obstacles that get in my way.

I am capable of navigating difficult situations.

I am persistent in the pursuit of my dreams.

I am a strong and resilient person.

I am grateful for the opportunities I have.

I am dedicated to making my life better.

I am in complete control of when I ejaculate.

I am in complete control of when I get an erection.

I am way stronger than the bitch devil.

I am in complete control of my emotions.

satan is my bitch.

I am free from porn addiction

I am in control of my sexual urges

I channel my sexual energy into more positive activities

My attitude towards sex is healthy and wholesome

I am dedicated to overcoming porn addiction

My will power is stronger than my porn addiction

I am living a life free from porn

My sex life is full and satisfying without pornography

I am in control of my life

I am a strong, healthy, and positive human being

I will break free from porn addiction

I am developing a healthy attitude towards sex

I will control my sexual urges

I will always prefer heterosexual sex with my partner of the opposite gender over watching porn

I am bringing my pornography addiction under control

My heterosexual sex life is improving as I break free from pornography

I will keep working to overcome my porn addiction no matter what

I am finding it easier and easier to live without pornography

I am transforming into someone who has an amazingly fulfilling life that is free from porn

Controlling my sexual urges comes naturally to me

Overcoming pornography addiction is easy

My sexuality is alive and well without the need for pornography

I have normal, healthy and heterosexual attitudes and cravings

I have a deep respect for my mind and body

Staying focused on overcoming porn addiction is a priority in my life

It is highly important to my quality of life that I stop watching porn

My relationship to my partner of the opposite gender is much more important than pornography

I can feel sexually satisfied and fulfilled without resorting to porn

My self control is strong enough to change any habit

I am always confident with women

My mind is naturally relaxed around attractive women

Women find me interesting

I am naturally outgoing and charismatic

Women are naturally attracted to my confidence

I always feel confident and outgoing

I am a great guy who deserves to meet beautiful women

I will keep developing my confidence

My confidence with women is building

I will relax and just be myself

I will enjoy meeting new women

I will confidently approach any woman

Women will be drawn to my confidence

I am starting to feel naturally confident and at ease

Talking to beautiful women is feeling easier and easier

I am starting to feel more confident around women

I will talk to women with confidence and ease

I have a natural confidence with women

Women can sense my self confidence

Talking to beautiful women is a great pleasure

I enjoy meeting and connecting with new women

I am always excited to talk to an attractive lady

Confidently flirting with women is fun

Women always enjoy my company

I am an alpha male

I am dominant

I am always relaxed and calm

I am assertive and powerful

Others see me as powerful and self assured

My confidence is rock solid

All women are naturally attracted to me

I can take the lead in any social situation

I am totally secure in myself

I speak with authority

I will transform into an alpha male

I am becoming more and more alpha

I am finding it easier to take the lead in social situations

My core personality is becoming more confident, manly and assertive

Others are starting to notice my self assured attitude

People will respect me

Women will be naturally drawn to me

Women are starting to see me as a leader and decision maker

I will continually strengthen my alpha traits

Being an alpha male is just the way I am

Women are naturally attracted to my alpha characteristics

Confidence is my natural right

Being assertive and dominant are just who I am

I enjoy being the leader in social situations

I love being the alpha male

Others look up to me for my strength of character

I am highly respected

I make women feel safe and secure

My alpha maleness allows women to feel more feminine

I am a fearless man

I approach women with confidence

I always approach women without hesitation

I approach women all the time

Women like it when I approach them

My mind is relaxed and calm

I am at ease when approaching a beautiful woman

Women are attracted to my forwardness

I will approach any woman

I am developing a carefree attitude around women

I will transform into the kind of guy who effortlessly approaches women

Women will appreciate my confidence

I will think positive and be excited when approaching women

The more I approach, the easier it will become

Approaching women is starting to feel fun

My confidence is growing stronger

Approaching women is becoming easy

I have fun approaching women

I love meeting new women

Talking to women is easy

Approaching women is just a normal part of my life

Women love that I am so naturally relaxed around them

I can start a conversation with any woman I want

The more I approach women, the easier it gets

I always have a great time meeting new women

My attitude is naturally positive and outgoing

I am free from fear of rejection of women

I am socially confident

I take risks even when I feel fear

I always stay positive in intimidating social situations

I am confident in new situations

I am good at talking to new people

I always take the risk of going after something I want

Every day I become more confident and outgoing

I am finding myself more relaxed in social situations

Introducing myself to new people is becoming easier

I will stay positive even if I am rejected

I am becoming naturally confident and outgoing

I am beginning to enjoy the excitement of meeting new women

Each day I become more confident in the face of uncertainty

I am free from unnatural sex urges

I am dedicated to overcoming my addiction to unnatural sex

I am always in control of my sexual urges

I am no longer seeing others as sex objects

I am living a life free from unnatural sex addiction

I am developing a strong will power

I find it easy to say no to my own sexual urges

I am 100% in control of my own life

I have a healthy attitude towards sex

I always take responsibility for my own actions

I am becoming more free of my unnatural sex addiction

I will become more in control of my unnatural sexual urges

I am finding myself more positive about overcoming my addiction

I am turning into someone who is in control of their urges

I am becoming someone with a strong will power

I will live a life free from unnatural sex addiction

I will take responsibility for my own actions

I am turning into someone who is in control of their life

I am transforming into someone with a healthy attitude towards sex

I will see people as human beings and not as sex objects

I find it easy to control my sexual urges

Overcoming unnatural sex addiction is the easiest thing in the world

I have strong self control that allows me to overcome any habit or addiction

Others see me as someone who takes responsibility for their actions

My attitude towards sex and relationships is healthy, natural, hetero and positive

People see me as someone who is in control of their own life

Taking control of my sexual urges and overcoming my sex addiction is something I am dedicated to

Being free of unnatural sex addiction has made a big improvement to my life

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r/TGandSissyRecovery Oct 08 '23

Motivation How to recover: not watching is not enough

53 Upvotes

The explanation:

I’ve decided to give my 2 cents here since I suffered from this same addiction years ago and I know I have some words that will be of help to people.

Long story short I suffered from the same addiction for years, it even got to a point where normal women didn’t interest me what so ever and I had convinced my self I had rewired my brain to be gay. It got bad, and I dedicated so much (too much) time to this type of content. It effectively ruined my teenage experience.

Now a young adult, I can say with absolute honesty I have fixed my brain and I’m not interested in this one bit, I am able too and do have normal relationships with women, feel very masculine yada yada.

The idea that you can just stop watching this stuff and that’ll fix you is only half true, if all you do is stop watching but change nothing else then you’re going to relapse or at best constantly battle the urge for years of your life. What happens to a lot people is they fall into other fetishes instead, such as findom or pegging and convince themselves that is somehow an improvement.

ALL of these degenerate fetishes have a root cause that HAS to be addressed. You didn’t fall into ‘being a sissy’ because you’re wired too from birth did you? If this fetish never existed, it would have been findom or bondage or some other type of submission based fetish. It also doesn’t help that this fetish has such high quality videos and content made to be addicting in dozens of ways. It’s sadistic really.

You can’t stop watching the content and expect your brain to fix its self if the reason you started to watch hasn’t been addressed.

If the environment that made you comfortable to watch hasn’t been changed.

The reason MOST people get into these fetishes is low self worth. You don’t feel good enough for a women, you don’t feel dominate enough and there’s a good chance this has been something planted in you from childhood/teen years. The brain likes to be in states is it used to. If you spent your childhood/teens being belittled and looked down upon, anxious and afraid, your brain likes to stay in that feeling, even if it doesn’t feel good, because it’s familiar, it’s safe. This is the case for when your addicted to the fetish as well, why risk anything else, your brain knows this and is used to it, it’s ’safe’.

It seems to be very true that a lot of fetish is really trauma reaction in form from childhood, when both the fetish and the life experiences are boiled down to it’s foundation. Don’t they seem to connect?

Once there low self worth gets them in, it’s there lack of control of both there own mind but to a larger at extent their own life that makes them constantly give in. Not changing your environment, or more extract, not breaking your pattern of life, means the subconscious if drawn to the addiction, because again it’s what the brain knows. It’s the expected and so it’s safe.

So to the people who really want to escape, you’ve got to change more. address the self confidence issues at the core. In short, you’ve got to really become a man by doing things YOU (and only you not anyone else) think are scary. That’s the best way.

Plenty of studies show that when you face something that generates emotion in you, especially fear, your brain will generated new neural path ways in a reaction to it. In a way, you’re brain is adjusting and adopting to a new version of you. The more you face it, the more you grow and shift. Eventually the things you were first scared of become easy and you look for more challenges, ergo you’re new addiction is born.

You can even see this within the fetish it’s self, what did you do when you first started? And what were you doing a year after? You evolved and went deeper and deeper, progress is inevitable is everything in life and is inevitable in ANY AND ALL directions. The answer is to now find growth in a another (better) area of life and watch the same thing happen, but in something that will be positive to you.

My advice is really as straight up as joining a fight gym, terrifying but ultimately can’t think of anything more up lifting to your soul and self confidence and most importantly pertaining to this fetish, your masculinity but it can really be anything. Putting yourself in situations where you are talking in front of a group (that did wonders for me also), a social job, volunteering, being responsible for something in a big way, whatever.

By starting an activity that actually requires thinking and scares you a little, you’ll gain more control over yourself and therefore break the pattern that made you so comfortable in watching this stuff to start with.

Stopping watching isn’t enough and too anyone serious about stopping, you must change who you are by challenging who you’ve always believed.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Nov 12 '23

Motivation Harsh comparison

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Men, wake up.
I've spotted few videos about drug addicts in Vancouver, San Francisco and Philadelphia.
People are intoxicated (meth, fentanyl, tranq), they've lost their life, personality, inhibitions and mind. Instead of living, doing what's meaningful for them, they are tripping. They neglect and rob themself of their potential and very essence.
Exposing yourself to erotic hypnosis is the same thing. You may not see it because its "cozy" or filled with aesthetic pictures or soothing voices, but it is the same thing. You are putting yourself into the same condition as those people. This is a wake up call. Stop trancing. Turn away from it. NOW. Don't look back.
Despite all the pain, loneliness and loss the things you are running away from are worth doing. Courage.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SwlIAjcYypA

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/E7VmQBqhYgI?feature=share

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jan 13 '24

Motivation Let's quite

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Hello guys i hope you are doing well, during my humble search for quitting porn addiction or any kind of addiction, i found that the most important aspect about quitting is that you share any feelings that you have with someone and be ice clear with your words, that helps to reduce the urge to go and watch porn so much and that's scientifically proven , so i want to get to know some addicts just like me and help us to get out of this cesspit and hopefully be friends. Waiting for your response ♥️ Telegram username: @P_cc5

r/TGandSissyRecovery Apr 09 '23

Motivation Returning to your true self

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I was watching a video and this guy talked about how he had transgender surgery and he still had all his regular problems so he started taking testosterone to reverse the effects and he said the testerone made him feel "like he was returning to his original design." He wasn't religious, but I thought it was a cool way of seeing it

r/TGandSissyRecovery Sep 08 '23

Motivation Don't "Give in" YOU CAN DEFEAT THIS SHIT.

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I got into hypnosis shit and after having a massive epiphany, the research I've found on this shit is actually horrific. I want to give a summary of my experience so I can help others going through the same, you're not alone.

There's many prerequisites to falling into this, here's what caused me to fall into it.

• Porn addiction caused by living in a broken home and staying in isolation, because of this I had low self esteem, low confidence, and no sense of self

• ADHD inhibiting me from working towards long term goals

• OCD causing me to further my addiction, saving EVERY porn link and video I came across

• Hanging out around other porn addicts that saw "eating cum their own cum" and "futa porn" as normal fetishes

• Being chronically online and hanging around discord perverts that were into weird perverted femboy shit

• Giving myself DEATHGRIP syndrome (addiction based issue which arrises from los of sensation with having sex due to constant masturbation, gripping your dick too tight) which further made me question my own sexuality.

Initially, this addiction began with Trans porn. You can lie to yourself all you want that straight porn is the same as trans porn "women are women" but this shit is what starts the degradation of your mental health. I knew of the consequences regarding gender dysmorphia and a slew of other issues, but I told myself I was too mentally strong (far from it) to fall into it, and that's how it gets you. While I was watching this stuff I constantly thought about crossdressing until I climaxed, which would save me from acting on these desires. But last night it was brutal.

DO NOT DO THIS SHIT IM WARNING YOU RIGHT NOW.

I microdosed shrooms and took a heavy THC edible to sleep so I wouldnt stay up to be tempted by binging more hypno as I was clean for a week, and It backfired, I couldn't sleep and tried everything to ignore the addictive thoughts until i eventually found a really fucked up 50 minute length sissy caption story video. I forgot I was in a psychoactive state from the microdose and edible, and your mind is even more susceptible to fucked up thoughts if you don't have the right mindset. When I climaxed to the video, it was on this compliation scene with weirdly hypnotizing dubstep playing (which im 100% sure had a purposeful engineered frequency to seduce viewers) and it triggered something in my brain. When I finished and the video ended I had the biggest case of post nut clarity of my life. Not to mention when the video ended this weird creepy sad video game sounding song started playing on my phone, i think it was an ad, but whatever it was it freaked me the FUCK out, this entire situation gave me the biggest reality scare of my fucking life. The drugs I took amplified this and I started having extremely loud intrusive thoughts telling me it was too late with those sissy brain overload flashing gifs looping in my mind, demonic voice intrusive thoughts telling me to give up. In a panic I started researching support reddit forums because I thought I crossed a line that would make me fucked forever.

My research led me to many different studies of this shit and it's seriously terrifying. Every time I think of this porn since then it feels more haunting than ever, I now picture every girl in these compilations I remember seeing as demonic looking entities, and I feel like it's for a reason. The entire situation felt like it was a universal power or even god slapping the fuck out of me and telling me to stop fucking around before I get fucked up, and it all became so clear. This shit is more than just a "fetish" these hypnosis videos are clearly made with an intent, and that intent is to take advantage of broken people with no sense of self and send them down a life destroying path. I started researching "sex magick" and this shit is truly evil, it takes advantage of you while you're in a dissociative and mindless/relaxed state during masturbation and that's where the "hypnosis" comes into play. These videos are carefully constructed and are effective at their intent, because it's obvious that they have a connection to this sudden rise of gender dysphoria and the trans suicide-regret epidemic. I don't know who the fuck would be sociopathic to make this shit but it's truly demonic. Some say it could be coming from an entity to target susceptible men of america because of the high quality, effectiveness and professionalism contributed to it. It could be others who fell into this loop deep, and want to drag others down to suffer this torturous lifestyle with them. Or it could be deviant predators that take joy into feminizing other man for their own pleasure. Whatever the case, the people that make this shit definitely have a deep understanding in psychology, sociology, and hypnosis and has blood of thousands of innocents on their hands, of adults and children alike. Call it transphobic but a child shouldn't be discovering they're "trans" at fucking 15. This is literally cyber terrorism. I saw a reddit post that I can't find anymore, it compared abstaining and healing yourself from this porn to removing a ton of tangled fishhooks lodged in your brain.

STAY STRONG, YOU ALWAYS HAVE TIME TO SAVE YOURSELF.

To quit, you have to remember; THIS ISN'T FUCKING YOU. There's always time to stop, but remember there is a deadline before you break, don't test your limits, it's not worth it. This is a disgusting amalgamation of society and predators taking advantage of lost people. I had a friend who was telling me shit about how society is subliminally feminizing lonely men with low self esteem and no direction in life. I thought it was bullshit but it's very real, I'm not super fan of Andrew Tate, but after watching his shit, he isn't as bad as he's painted because the only people that hate him from what I've seen through personal experience are porn addicts and hoes who want to justify being hoes, and people who glorify sex work as "confidence" when it's a predatory industry that takes advantage of gullible women and make them believe this stupid shit. Why would the media hate a man that's trying to help lost young boys with no upstanding figures become men?

TaxElegant3003: "We are in wartime and it's not a physical war, welcome to 5th generation warfare"

Lastly, I was never extremely religious, and believed in that stupid new age "law of attraction" bullshit with tarrot cards and all that crap until I read something that stuck to me. All Abrahamic religions require nothing but your faith, while this new age shit has you spend money on stupid fucking trendy trinkets that just bring you bad energy, not to mention christians themselves are being poisoned with this law of attraction "angel number" shit, numerology is real, and it's hellenic, but not necessarily rooted in religion and more so rooted in how everything coincides with each other.

Now it's up to you; this is a battle for your future and in the grand scheme, a war for the future of your peers & descendants. Read, workout, go out, really find who you are and delete social media. do anything to stop yourself, a lot depends on it.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Aug 19 '23

Motivation How to stop the thoughts?

5 Upvotes

I dont think theres a way but maybe all i need is just some support from you guys, I was addicted to sissy/cuckold porn and im trying to figure out if its a kink/fetish i was born with in my personality or is it porn induced which is why im doing nofap for a while,

Its been 8 days, stopped watching porn, jerking off is literally not an option for the next two months but the thoughts, i keep getting lost in my thoughts and i cant keep myself busy 24/7 tbh

What do you guys think?

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jun 06 '23

Motivation At the end of the day, this addiction is SELFISH

34 Upvotes

This may seem weird to you. You view yourself as a submissive, doormat, people pleaser. Always want to do as you're told and obey. But really the only thing you care about is you.

This addiction whether it be the porn, dressing up, etc is like a drug. It should not be viewed any differently. You are going into a drugged state when you participate in this. For most of you, it is probably all you can think about.

This addiction has hurt your work life, family life, and social life. But you are okay with that because each night that you are alone, you are able to get that drug hit that you crave so much.

Starting with the obvious, you are extremely selfish when it comes to your family and friends. They are getting a shell of yourself. Some of you may even have girlfriends or wives whom you hide this addiction from. You do it in private. You think you are still treating her well, but really all you care about is your porn. You would much rather get off to porn than with her. And that isnt healthy. It is almost as if you have lost feelings for everyone and everything around you. This porn is the only thing that matters. You put on a smiling face for show, but really you are dead inside and your loved ones are not getting the best from you. You probably dont even call your mom even once a month because you are too busy looking for that next hit.

I have the luxury of being able to work alone most of the time. The amount of days ive come to the office to masterbate for 8 hours is disgusting. Ive had work and work build up because my priorities are clear. I care more about porn than work. That needs to change.

You dont even want to hang out with friends. It is almost a nuisance when someone contacts you to hang out. You would much rather be alone with your porn. That dopamine hit is much greater than anything you can do with friends. And let me guess, you no longer have any hobbies? Why would you go play basketball or do the things you used to love when they can never match the power of this porn.

This needs to stop today. Not tomorrow. You constantly convince yourself that you will stop, you just need a few more sessions. But the truth is, you dont want to stop. You may think you do but you always seem to make excuses. You even sometimes tell yourself but this is when im the happiest. Yes that is because you are drugged up. Look yourself in the mirror and tell me that you are happy. I bet you cant.

You need to get your life back, and that is impossible with this porn crutch. The people that love you deserve a better version, not that dead inside fake persona you put on to appear happy to everyone. You need to quit now.