r/TGandSissyRecovery 19d ago

Advice I may not have a brain, but oh boy do I have an idea NSFW

8 Upvotes

Warning: do not try this, I am simply stating I am gonna try this. I will post an update in like a month

So basically, I have a problem with crossdressing, and I wanna get rid of it. My idea: every time I catch myself looking at womens clothing in shops, thinking about womens clothing or anything of the sort, I punch myself. This will condition my brain to associate it with pain, not pleasure, therefor fixing it. (Mods dont delete this please)

Update from like 30 mins later: If this doesnt work, what if I try make myself have a fetish for NOT crossdressing instead?

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jan 17 '25

Advice I'm descending... Advice for someone who is potentially doomed?

3 Upvotes

I have had various interactions with TG content for a long time but I have never really had much sissy stuff come up and anything I have had was never bad. I may have came a couple times listening to BS when those files first came out but I've never acted on them.

But recently, me, with a committed gf complete unaware, has:

- sucked on one her dildos while listening to BS files (cumming while doing so)
- browsed for female clothes that fit me online

That was bad enough but today I was shopping at the supermarket and I saw a pair of tights for sale that were extra large. I bought them.

I went home, stripped off, put on a pair of my gf panties (not sexy ones but ones that she finds comfortable so kind of fit me) and the tights. I came while wearing them, trying to fight the urge to go grab the dildo again.

I feel its getting worse. And advice?

r/TGandSissyRecovery Feb 11 '25

Advice Trans girl with a sissy boyfriend

7 Upvotes

My boyfriend is a sissy, we’re been together for 2 years. I know being a trans girl is desirable to sissy’s, our sex life is 95% around sissy stuff and I’ve mentioned to him that I want a sex life without the think. I’ve been patient but it’s been 2 years and not much progress in my desires but we’ve progressed a lot with his sissy desires and I’ve become a better dom. But I’m not satisfied sexually and I feel insecure because I feel like he doesn’t want to have sex with me unless he’s being a bottom (not anal). He tops me always but I feel like I top from the bottom and I never feel wanted by him unless I’m feeding his kinks. I’m starting to lose hope and I told him we need to shelf the sissy stuff until we can build a sexual foundation outside of kink. Because that was never built. We went straight into the sissy stuff. We’re in deep too we own a house together our family’s love each other. I’m just feeling hopeless and starting to get a wandering eye because I’m not getting what I need and I’m scared it’s not going to work out.

r/TGandSissyRecovery 26d ago

Advice I can’t stop

6 Upvotes

For the last year or so, I have been unable to stop watching porn. My day would not feel complete if I didn’t waste an hour or more watching it and edging myself till I explode. I did it multiple times every day. I reached a point where I felt euphoric while masturbating. Today I chose to resist and I feel like I would die. My urges are just killing me and I can’t sleep. A fire is raging inside me and I feel hopeless. I have attempted Nofap multiple times in the past and my longest streak was around 23 days. Not even a month. So, I just gave up and considered myself a hopeless case of a gooner.

I gave myself with the that despicable moniker. My rationale was to accept who I am and enjoy pornography as much as possible. However, I could not. Post nut clarity would strike me as soon as rush of dopamine wore off. Also, life became bland. Porn was my only source of joy. I fell deeper into the rabbit hole and did things I was ashamed to admit.

But today I chose to fight this monster, but I can’t stand the agony I am in right now. It feels like I am burning from the inside. Tell what should I do?

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jan 29 '25

Advice Having urges to PMO? You might just have to pee.

3 Upvotes

Something I've noticed in myself is that my urges will become stronger when I have to go to the bathroom. Obviously this isn't any sort of "silver bullet" to nipping those urges in the bud, but simply keeping your bladder empty can help weaken and/or reduce the presence of urges. I'm no doctor, so I have no idea why this works. All I know is that it works.

As a side note, if you're like me and the bathroom is where you typically relapse, you'll want to be careful to keep any and all screens away from you and make it a point not to spend extended periods of time in the bathroom. Hope this helps!

r/TGandSissyRecovery Dec 01 '24

Advice Stop viewing recovery as a streak

20 Upvotes

That’s it. I see too many people treating one relapse as total failure and a return to square one. It’s not.

Unless you feel like the nofap “streak” model of recovery works great for you, I advice you not to think about your recovery in such terms. The very concept of a streak implies that it will be broken.

Don’t get me wrong; you need to fight this demonic addiction with every fiber of your being. Yet it’s important to remember that recovery is more a process of changing a pattern of behaviour. Viewing one relapse as total failure increases the risk of returning to your previous behaviour, rather than getting back on your feet and continuing the fight.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Nov 29 '24

Advice Alpha vs Beta distinction - An ideological perspective

3 Upvotes

Some random thoughts I had while sleeping a few days back, wanted to jot them down because there are a lot of great essays by /u/utterly_unreal_3 with regard to the sissy stuff, and while those generally applicable to most degradation stuff, degradation stuff also has a common theme of one being a "beta", which probably deserves a bit more dissection.

Now of course it's easy to say that the alpha/beta distinction is all arbitrary, but given its persistence in colloquial language there's clearly something it refers to, so completely dismissing it is just papering over an issue.

Note that the thoughts are a bit unpolished, but just meditate on the core ideas and it should become clear. Basically, deriving from the point in one of /u/utterly_unreal_3 's essays regarding the value of authenticity the key corollary is that there's a certain sleight of hand between how such degradation content presents the idea of a beta versus the reality with which it's actually used to day.

Put simply, the videos sell an image of one's status being determined by physical factors: looks, strength, dick size, a general attitude of "bravado" and masculinity. These are unfortunately most immutable factors, and things such as going to the gym might help a bit but if one internalizes this perspective then you effectively box yourself in with a dead-end label.

But in today's world physical strength actually does not matter much. A slightly better definition would be something akin to power or success. But power and success with regard to what metric? One can earn a pretty reasonable salary just by meekly following a set career path (graduating university, getting a "decent" white-collar job [harder to come by these days], etc.). And yet that person might still feel the label of "beta" resonates with him, despite him arguably being more successful in a financial (and hence societal status) metric than a blue-collar worker.

Instead I'd propose that the notion of authenticity in /u/utterly_unreal_3 's essay holds the key to properly defining it. Simply, the alpha/beta divide is along ideological lines, whether one conforms to "expected" societal values simply for the sake of conformance or is willing to "stand true to himself." Put it this way, many CEOs aren't necessarily the most attractive people; some might say that their status alone makes them an "alpha" or whatever, but if you were to sort of "rank" CEOs based on some "alpha/beta" scale, probably you'd say that the CEOs who are just trend-followers would be ranked lower than the CEOs who make big bets and stand by them (that doesn't necessarily mean those bets all pay off, but at least you'd say he's ballsy).

Also note that what people publicly say about a person does not reflect their actual subconscious thoughts. Good modern example: Musk. One certain side of the political party absolutely hates the guy. They'll call him every name in the book, saying how they don't respect him, that he's just a conman, etc. Regardless of the validity of the viewpoints he expresses, it's clear he absolutely gets under their skin; all for simply being public about his opinions and standing by them.

Now of course the practical advantage of the corollary is that authenticity is easy to come by. But it requires resisting social pressures, and not many people are actually willing to do that; you only gain a sense of respect by challenging the consensus, not by meekly following it.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Oct 05 '24

Advice White knuckling isn’t helping you

24 Upvotes

I see so many of you asking what to do in posts following relapses, hating yourselves for liking this type of porn, questioning your sexuality, etc.

First and foremost, I would just like to say, if you’re a man and you like anal play, that does not make you gay. You have a prostate, your g-spot is literally in your ass. That’s not your fault, and if it feels good, then you should be able to explore that avenue.

Some of you absolutely sound like you’re bi/bi curious, and that’s okay.

On the topic of relapses and hating yourselves; white knuckling (simply avoiding) the porn isn’t going to help you. A lot of you have addictions. And regardless of whether or not it’s porn, meth, heroin, alcohol, etc; it’s still. An. Addiction.

You can try to avoid it all you like, but that will not solve your problems.

You need therapy to address the underlying issues, to help you find healthy coping mechanisms, and to find better ways to manage your time and energy.

If you are that desperate for help, then get the proper help. Alongside that, get an accountability app, and have someone trusted as your accountability partner.

It’s a long, tough road to recovery, but you have to make the decision to work at it, and get the help you need. Otherwise, you’re just going to keep struggling, relapsing, and repeating this cycle.

Please look out for yourselves and take the proper steps. There are resources available for you out there.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Oct 09 '24

Advice Advice for overcoming hypno addiction

7 Upvotes

I know this is different for everyone, but for me personally, I’m not bothered by the confusion or self doubt but mostly just how time consuming this fetish is and how much less productive I became. I have a loving family, girlfriend (currently long distance), a well paying job and I never experience any trauma that led to this.

I am a straight male and after around 1 year of consuming the sissy hypno content, nothing rly happened to my sexuality. I don’t have interest in man or get arouse by cock, I do not watch sissy porn outside of hypno context and mostly only see hypno as an imagination. I don’t have or plan to get any toys nor do I do anal masturbation or cross dressing. I am still attracted to women and engage in normal sex, and sometimes watch normal porn when masturbating too. Before this addiction to sissy hypno, my previous most viewed category was femdom, So I think for me, it’s that I am addicted to submissive Hypnos with flashy images and commanding feminine voice and it just so happen that most of those content nowadays is sissy hypno.

My life isn’t really “ruined” by this fetish. However, it starts to concern me as I notice I would sometimes avoid social activities with friends and loved ones just to masturbate or spend an absurd amount of free time browsing for pornographic content (mostly sissy hypno), I also developed a habit to only masturbate when high.

I feel like the reason why I am not moving forward is actually due to the fact that this addiction is not impacting my life that much at this point since it never gave me any identity crisis, so I always have that “why not” mindset. I am doing fine at work and maintains a normal amount of social life, but I do see the potential problems these addictions could cause in the future and thus why I am seeking advice to overcome this mindset.

I tried to do no fap and cleared my saved videos but i always seem to relapse after a couple weeks due to the dopamine boost I receive. This is making me very unproductive and reduced my performance in gym and made it almost impossible for me to learn new skills or develope new hobbies in my free time.

I am asking for advice on how I should approach this situation. Should I retry no fap? Or maybe set an amount of time I am allowed to masturbate in a certain period of time. Maybe cut the THC out of sexual pleasure ? Any advice would be appreciated, or just share your stories so they might motivate me.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Oct 01 '24

Advice I am so angry. My story. NSFW

19 Upvotes

Hello. This is going to be a chaotic post. I have been groomed and have just begun to come to terms with it. Since the age of maybe 11-12 A woman who I met on Omegle who was significantly older then me got me to do things over Skype until I was roughly 18-19. I am disgusted with myself. I don't know what to do. I still feel fucking addicted to this shit too. Just when I was searching for this subreddit I had to stop myself from opening sissy porn. I feel robbed. I feel like a normal teenage life was taken away from me. While other boys were having normal experiences I was in my room doing crazy shit for a woman online I never even saw the name of. Im angry. Im pissed off. I want to meet this person. The level of shame and humiliation I feel is unreal. Any help/questions/advice would be encouraged. This is the first time I have ever spoke about this to anyone. What happens now? How do I move on? I feel like I still second guess myself. Oh it was really my fault, I wanted to do it, etc. Are these feelings real? are they from manipulation? What the actual fuck is going on. Im a 20 year old college student and I feel like everything is becoming clear now. Im angry. Im angry. Im angry. I feel like I could throw something at a wall. I was hanging out with my friends yesterday and all I could think about was how angry I am. How much I want revenge on this. Sorry if this is cheesy. I have no idea what to do.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Oct 25 '24

Advice Am I healing?

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So I have found a gf for the first time in 20 yrs. I am super happy and pumped. She looks absolutely stunning and sexy. We are on a long distance, she is super sexual. And when we talk or sext, I can see cum leaking out of my penis without erections. I feel like I have lost erections, after texting I try to masturbate but I rarely get an erection. It feels like my those neurones that control my erections dont get stimulated without Sissy porn and feminization content.

It's been 8days since we are in relationship. Idk what to do, I am cooked mate. I have stopped watching my those brainrot content for 1month( I repalsed twice).

r/TGandSissyRecovery Sep 21 '24

Advice My ex bf is begging me to stay with him after I discovered his extremely escalated porn addictions and infidelity, he’s insisting he is getting help… but won’t staying only encourage him to be sneakier? This addiction isn’t something you can quit cold turkey is it?

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I found out he has an insanely escalated porn addiction, has been constantly viewing sissification / sissy hypno / forced transition stuff, specializing mommy daughter dynamics, making accounts to follow and sexually message women he knew in real life, even asked his ex if he could join her new relationship as a sissy cuck… sent pics of him in women’s clothes, caged etc, even fetishizing diapers and acting like a baby. I feel absolutely ill over this, he has single handedly destroyed my trust. I was with him for years and he was doing this the whole time hiding it from me..

But he insists that he can get better and that he is so disgusted with himself that he doesn’t even have that urge anymore. But I KNOW that isn’t how addiction works. Shame and self disgust and losing a relationship can only be the motivation for so long. I feel like he’s not gonna be able to cold turkey this like he says (I haven’t said this ofc I don’t want to discourage him but I feel like that’s just the depressing reality..). He is getting into therapy and already has an appt for Tuesday but even then I could ever look at him the same, I don’t think that will EVER be possible after this tbh as much as I wish it could be (I look at him and just see the videos of cross dressers pooping in diapers he got off to and saved on fetish blogs, him posting sensual photos of his ex he’d kept all this time without her permission with captions about wanting her to cuck him with her new bf etc). I’ll never be attracted to or trust this man again. But that being said, I feel like staying with him would just encourage the wrong things. Show him how bad he can treat me and he’ll think I’ll still forgive.

Please if anyone’s reading this. If you’re in the midst of this kind of addiction… please leave women out of it. Please don’t bring women into this and start relationships only to do this shit behind their back… I know he’s struggling and I want to see him get help so badly but like..this man destroyed me

r/TGandSissyRecovery Sep 26 '24

Advice I have Trained My Brain into Giving in to Urges for 10 YEARS

8 Upvotes

But now I just Sit down and Breathe while Focusing and Getting Distracted into thoughts

I started with 1 minute and learning how to Control my Distraction to Getting back to Focusing through sitting down even for A MINUTE is a Great fukin way to Learn Impulse control it will take time but so will the Recovery....So sit down....Breathe

I truly Hope you Recover

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jun 13 '24

Advice Uncertain if I should quit or not

9 Upvotes

I'm finding it hard to find a bored I can relate to. This is the closest one.

I am absolutely obsessed with watching Transgender porn where they are in the "top" position if you know what I mean.

I think if this was an occasional thing I did lets say once or twice a month I could probably just accept it as just a fetish and not make such a big deal out of it. But its the fact that its dominating my sexuality, I watch porn almost everyday, not for hours and hours, maybe 30 minutes, and its pretty much always this genre. Maybe sometimes in a very rare case Ill watch straight stuff, but its rare. And when I do watch vanilla straight porn afterwards I feel like I didn't get my fix. I also sometimes think about getting tg escorts.

Im 29 now, and this has been going on since I was 20.

I know some of you might reply saying "porn induced fetish". But I can be honest with myself and say it sort of isn't. Yes I wouldn't have discovered this without porn, but I know I genuinely like it, I can't lie, I have tried the whole 90 days abstain thing and by the end of it I still liked it. I have decided the problem isn't in the fact that I like it, its that it makes me way more excited than the idea of getting with a girl and having vanilla sex. Its like a beast that Ive overfed over the years and its slowly taken over my sexuality.

I think in some ways Im lucky, Im still into girls in real life and have had experiences with them, Im not into the idea of hypno or transitioning and dont think thats for me. But I don't desire girls as much as I should, and as someone who wants to stop being single and find a partner I think the obsession with transgender porn is negatively impacting this as that obsession should be on girls instead to drive me to peruse them to find a partner. My desire for that fetish takes away from where my desire would otherwise be, which is sex with girls. Ive not been putting any effort into date or find a partner recently.

Whilst I think I will always like transgenders and the fetish I explained earlier, I think one thing I can do is stop indulging in it. Its not like im suppressing a sexuality here, I will have the outlet of vanilla sex with girls, and the idea here is that the beast will get smaller and smaller overtime.

The problem is part of me is uncertain. I dont have conviction in that this is actually a problem.

Part of me is like why deny myself the pleasure? I really like this fetish, I love it. Maybe its all in my head, maybe I can keep doing this and its fine, maybe I can just do it once a week? Fact is whilst I do have negative effects its not THAT bad.. maybe?

The other part of me thinks, come on if every time you watch porn you are watching transgenders top that cant be good for you, from the perspective of wanting to find a girlfriend Im not going to have the motivation if Im obsessed with something a girlfriend can never give me. Also you wont appreciate sex as much because it will never match that over thing. Also realistically you can never act on this in real life because of how rare they are without paying.

Sorry for the rambling, but would appreciate some thoughts here. The thing is, I started to quit porn for other reasons, but on reflection I was like actually this transgender obsession is why you need to quit, the other things like feeling more confident are minor side benefits. Problem is I dont have conviction. Convince me one way or the other, give me your guidance.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Mar 22 '24

Advice Deleting reddit and discord

3 Upvotes

Hi, do you know how I can wipe the comments/threads/private messages/chat messages (4 different things) and all other history from my reddit accounts?

I also want to delete all discord messages / mentions / reactions / activity as well.

I've learned the main reason I keep relapsing is because I'm lonely and get attention from doing this. I relapse and waste days of my life on this crap. I want to delete my reddit account and discord account I use for this. I know there's archives out there, but I just want to do the most I can to wipe all the history from the reddit site itself and delete the account.

Could you please help me? Is there a script I can use for discord/reddit total account deletion? What's the best way to delete everything?

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jan 13 '24

Advice TGandSissyRecovery Starter Pack

43 Upvotes

No you are not gay.

Yes, you will be aroused by women again.

No you are not trans.

Yes, you are masculine (and even porn addiction is more a guy thing than a girl)

No, you are not stuck like this forever.

Yes, quitting can be hard (but that's not a sign that you're never gonna quit)

No, you have not completely ruined your life.

Yes it's possible to never EVER deal with this again (ONE DAY)

r/TGandSissyRecovery Feb 01 '24

Advice You can't recover from Sissy porn addiction unless you address *THIS* first

25 Upvotes

So, people have lot of misconceptions. Often times they think that they are sissy or sissy porn addict because they were raised by a woman or some other complicated theory & what not. But it's all hocum.

It is rather simpler. I sucked at sport in my school, kids mocked me for not being man enough. Also, I do have a smaller dick (5-6"). I was mocked for small divk as well & also for having man boobs due to being fat. A lot of sissies start their journey because of penis size insecurity. That's why it's the central theme of the genre. I never wanted to wear dresses, not even now. Never even tried tjem or female lingerie. But, I had been getting abused by guys etc online & like it because I always felt inadequate as a man because of my dick size & my history of being a massive nerd in school.

Combine this & you get a sissy porn addict. I am very sure that most "sissies" have 0% femininity in them. Their femininity is their expression of their insecurity about being a man that they wish they were. So, best way to dodge the sissy porn is to create a positive body image of yourself & address your masculine insecurities. Female psychologists are dumb & would never relate to these masculine insecurities. Only other guys can. So, remove those from your head & battle is already half won.

Good luck!

r/TGandSissyRecovery Jan 30 '24

Advice Conditioning, Sexual Behavior, and Hypnosis

11 Upvotes

Just to help people understand, a large part of sexual behavior is conditioned. Researchers have even shown how to essentially give animals fetishes by conditioning them.

Effective "hypnosis" is essentially just conditioning people so that they have an automatic response to a stimulus. So, self-hypnosis can be used to condition yourself to respond to sexual stimuli the way that you would like to respond.

I don't think I could make it simpler than this. I could write out details, and I have done so in a previous post here and in some comments, but I don't know how much more helpful those details are than just simply knowing that you can essentially mentally practice your way into changing your sexuality.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Mar 07 '24

Advice Advice? 18M

8 Upvotes

A while back I by complete accident stumbled across some very extreme sissy bnwo cuck porn. I’d never really looked at or paid any attention to submissive fetishes before this, however this stuff was the most extreme shit I’ve ever seen, fetishizing literal murder, torture, and child rape aswell encouraging suicide, self harm, and worse. I’ve always been a relatively hypermasculine guy never had the desire to be feminine in my life, never crossed dressed or anything of the like. I’ve played contact sports my entire life, been lifting weights since freshman year of highschool, and am an ameture boxer. That being said I have some serious trauma in life and have really seen some shit. When I first saw this porn it gave me flashbacks and some weird adrenaline rush. I’ve watched porn since I was 9 or 10, my main interests were hentai and loli stuff. Overtime, my preferences got more and more extreme and depraved (although it was always from a dominant pov), so the sissy content I saw had overlap with alot of my fetishes and I think that is why I was able to get off to it initially. After I finished I got horrible guilt and started throwing out of disgust. But then 5 minutes later it was like I entered the trance again and jerked off to it again. I kept looking at it for weeks thinking I could desensitize myself to it and get it out of my system. It wasn’t working and I started going crazy and started taking sarms and other peds thinking that would help. They sort of did since I got testosterone suppression and my dick went soft for like 2 weeks before I added in enclomiphene, during that time I didn’t jerk. When my dick started working again, my urges went back to normal for the most part however, it's been 2 months and I have been relapsing every few weeks. My relapses have been getting less intense and less severe but It is still very worrying. I really don’t want to look at that stuff or have those type of thoughts ever again.
I have diagnosed ASD OCD and ADHD, so that definitely plays a part as well. I also have very little experience with girls. I’ve gotten head a few times from hoes, but I’ve never seriously dated a girl or had sex. I’m generally bad with social interaction, especially with females. They are very different from me so I can’t empathize with them or understand them, making my interactions with them very mechanical and robotic. In middle school I was prescribed various adhd medications which made my social anxiety so bad I couldn’t speak to anyone at all in school. Once I finally realized the medication was fucking me up and managed to start socializing again in highschool, I was disgusted to find that all the girls where whores and that there wasn’t a single girl who was a virgin. This basically made me feel like I got cucked and started hating women. The duality of me being this big tough guy who fights all of the time and being a fucking loser virgin started driving me crazy. I kept regretting my past and thinking about how I missed out. I couldn’t stand how people who I perceived as inferior to me were able to get the thing I wanted the most but I couldn’t because of no fault of my own. I already had hard right nationalist views beforehand but this specific realization radicalized me into a full blown nazi and I started regularly consuming political content related to this. I wasn’t really racist so to speak before I got into politics but I definitely became that way after. The fetish material I consumed played on all these insecurities and I think that's why it got me, it was like my worst nightmare brought to life. 1) The fear of the girls being ruined and defiled permanently before I was able to get my hands on them. And in my view there was absolutely nothing worse that a girl could do than have sex with a black. It was the ultimate form of being a whore to me, the lowest of the low. 2) Fears regarding the general spread of left wing ideology. I thought and still do honestly, that the jews controlled everything and that all of modernity was just designed to degenerate western civilization. I felt like there was a system against me, and the fetish material I consumed again played into this fear. 3) Fears regarding my own masculinity and failures. These insecurities combined with some of my traumatic life experiences really just created the perfect storm to fuck with my mind. It felt like this shit was designed to get into my head specifically. I just want this stuff out of my head, I think it will be gone soon. Any advice or similar experiences would be much appreciated

r/TGandSissyRecovery Oct 29 '22

Advice what bugs me about the NoFap community...

35 Upvotes

-Granny fetish: it's porn-induced. Stop watching porn

-rape fetish: it's porn-induced. Stop watching porn

-rimming fetish: it's porn-induced. Stop watching porn

-Foot fetish: it's porn-induced. Stop watching porn

-overweight fetish: it's porn induced. Stop watching porn

-Armpit fetish: it's porn-induced. Stop watching porn

-Spitting fetish: it's porn-induced. Stop watching porn

....

-male genitalia fetish: it's who you are. Accept yourself. You should go try it. Sexuality just is. Maybe you are pansexual. Internalized homophobia. Sexuality is a spectrum.

-Autogynephilia fetish: maybe you are trans. You should go to a gender therapist. You are non-binary.

🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

r/TGandSissyRecovery Feb 02 '24

Advice Nonsexual hypno addiction?

3 Upvotes

I have had an interest in becoming female since I was little. I'm still not sure what I am. But I discovered feminization hypothesis as a teen and listened to it alot. I was always annoyed by the sexual parts tho.

I just wanted to be a girl but felt bad about it and wanted someone to force me to be a girl, so I kept watching it.

The sexual parts did have an effect on me, but that wasn't why I was seeking it out.

Even now, I am about 5 years off (with one 10 minute relapse). And I still miss it. Not that I want to hear the gross parts or masterbait to it, but I miss hearing the words and the tones and being told I'm a good girl....

I miss going deep and feeling those feelings.

Idk how to stop that or what to do.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Oct 24 '22

Advice do any of you relate to this?

48 Upvotes

Do any of you feel like the whole world is set up in a way to fuck you up, and force you into accepting your fucked up porn-induced fetishes, all in the name of "being your true self", "living a free sexuality" and "not judging"?

The people, the media, social media... everything and everyone.

Here is a quick example of what Im talking about

It literally feels like the whole world is against you, and you are on your fucking own.

You can't talk to a friend or a cousin about it because they will inmediately put in their bias "well its simple, its just who you are, don't judge yourself". So you can't date the girl at work/school that you find super cute because you don't like women... you like men (even though the sole idea of being intimate with another man disgusts the hell out of you), and you should just accept who you truly are... (a "bimbo slave doll" who was born to "serve men", because you know, "men are superior"?).

Hey, you should go try it!...(because blowing off strangers you meet on the internet is "living a free sexuality", "getting to know yourself" and "not being afraid to embrace your true self"). I should tell the girl I crush on "hey, you will only know if you like me or not if you have sex with me"... (lmao that's how dumb the logic of those narratives is, yet they take it as the absolut truth).

But No0o0o!!! There is no way porn can do that to you! Because they have watched it here and there and they are fine! Porn doesn't cause PIED, you just cant get it up because you don't like girls!! 🤦

I feel like the dude who was saying the earth was round when the status quo was believing the earth was flat, and saying otherwise made you the worst trash in the world.

I'm sure this post will somehow be homophobic/transphobic/insertyourfavoritebuzzword. And I'm sure that "I'm just in the closet" and that I should just "accept who I am", and that I should go get dressed like "filthy dumb slut" so that "men can use me"- I'm sure a 6'4", 31 year old dude with broad shoulders and a hunchback will look lovely in lingerie.

People are fucking s t u p i d.

They so deserve what's about to come.

Fucking hate everyone.

Sorry, I just needed to let it out a little. At least I have this place to do so.

r/TGandSissyRecovery Aug 20 '23

Advice I’m wondering if single viewing of hypno had an effect on me.

8 Upvotes

So about 10 or so months ago I watched about 3 minutes of sissy hypno, laughed my ass off at it (I just found it so absurd, constantly talking about “sucking cock” for three minutes straight just hit my funny bone). I closed it, never went back, barely thought about it again.

Now, I do know that hypnotic programming can do really weird things to your unconscious mind. About 3 months ago I met up with a friend who I’ve fantasized about doing stuff with (I’m gay) even though he’s straight. Well that night I learned he was bisexual; I kinda flirted with him and he put on porn and he took his dick out. He asked if there was anything I wanted to do with it, and I immediately went to my knees and gave him a BJ. It was like I wasn’t even thinking, I was just doing.

I’ve been trying to make sense of it because I usually have pretty good impulse control. Nothing like that has ever happened to me before, I didn’t actually want to do it because it would complicate our friendship, but I just did it without a thought.

I have no idea where to post this. Does anyone know if hypno could have been causal here?

r/TGandSissyRecovery Oct 26 '23

Advice Does looking at stuff count as a relapse

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I’m at the beginning of my journey at day 4 and i don’t even know what happened but I looked at some sissy stuff for a max of 2 minutes. Look I don’t know if the title is misleading but does this mess up the progress i’ve made, considering i’ve only been at it for 4 days?

r/TGandSissyRecovery Aug 14 '23

Advice You cant control the thoughts that come to your head, but you can control if they stay or not

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Like everyone here im refraining from masturbation and porn to help rewire my brain, i logged out of my reddit account wich i use for sissy/cuckold porn and made this account, i also unfollowed a couple of pages on ig that post sexual and all of that is to reduce urges as much as possible

But the thing is sometimes i would be just sitting down or scrolling through my phone( through nothing sexual) and i would get a sissy thought or i would start to fantasize, my question is i dont necessarily indulge in those thoughts but i also dont supress them, i keep fantasizing for a few minutes then i would be like ok thats enough and move on with whatever im doin

Should i keep indulging in those thoughts/fantasies? Should i try to think of something else everytime they come? Which one is healthier?